My birthday is 19850403, and my boyfriend's birthday is 1973033 1, both of which belong to cattle and are the birthdays of China people. 20 1 1 What is the auspicious day for getting married?

When should we get married? We should not only follow the general principles, but also embody our own values. Friends first need to understand:

A very good year.

China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and attach great importance to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian". Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there was no "Runyue" or "Runnian" in those days, there was no need to force it. Note that "Runnian" is divided into solar calendar and lunar calendar. This year is a leap year in the Gregorian calendar.

1, Shuangchun

There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.

2, leap month

It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, * * * had thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious.

3. Double spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!

A year of caution

1, blind year

Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.

2. festivals

Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. It is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events.

3.sanniangsha

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. Therefore, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

People have taboo customs in their daily life. If you are lucky, you can say it. If you are unlucky, you should avoid saying it. Therefore, there is a saying that "the spirit is good or not ugly." In taboo customs, it is especially forbidden to say or use the number "thirteen", and all weddings and happy events do not need the thirteenth lunar month.

Legend has it that a long time ago, there was a man named Yang Gong who had thirteen sons. Everyone says that his life is good. Relying on his thirteen sons, Yang Gong often said to people, "I have thirteen sons, even if I encounter three disasters, I am not afraid. Even if one dies in twelve months and one month a year, I still have a son to die for me. "

Coincidentally, there was a plague one year, and this year happened to be a leap month. Yang Gong's sons got the plague and died one after another. By the end of1February, Yang Gong's 13 sons had all died, leaving him alone, and the scene at night was very bleak. People say that everything that happened to Yang Gong was because of his ugly words. From then on, people will avoid saying bad things, and once they say them, they will spit out good things. At the same time, the number thirteen is also considered an ominous number.

4. Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

5. Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.

Second, the special principle of date selection.

Dr. Zheng said that the wedding date should not only follow the general principles, but also reflect its own value. This value is the zodiac and birthday of men and women.

1, the important principle of choosing a day

Give priority to the bride's date of birth, and refer to the man and other dates of birth. As the saying goes: "Give birth to children, marry a woman and marry", which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce, which new people must not ignore. Specifically, the most auspicious wedding date is calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except those with many wealth officials).

2. Parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days.

In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. At least not with parents' horoscopes (five elements demand), nor with parents' food-injured stars (except those with serious food injuries).

3. Can't conflict with the official star day and the financial star day stipulated by the divinatory symbols.

The date chosen does not conflict with the prophecy. Some people are not sure when they were born. They can only determine the date through divination, and the date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

4. Registration and wedding date

If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.

The following is the auspicious wedding date of 20 1 1 for couples' reference. You can arrange the wedding date reasonably according to your own situation, book the hotel early, engage the car early, and take wedding photos early. I wish the couple a hundred years of harmony and a happy wedding!

20 1 1 1 Getting married in October is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 year 1 month 9 lunar calendar1February (big) 06 Sunday horse racing (May 5).

20 1 1 year 1 month 15 Lunar 65438+February (big) 12 Saturday rat (Jiazi)

20 1 1 year 1 month17th lunar calendar1February (big)14th Monday Tiger (Bingyin).

20 1 1 year 1 month 20 lunar calendar1February (big)1July Thursday (already)

20 1 1 Getting married in February is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 the fifth day of the second lunar month 0 1 (big) Saturday (yiyou)

20 1 1 the eighth day of the second lunar month 0 1 (big) Tuesday, 2006, the rat family (Wuzi).

2011February 9th lunar calendar 065438+1October 7th Wednesday (ugly)

20 1 1 February 1 1 Lunar calendar 0 1 (big) Friday 09, Chong Rabbit (Xin Mao)

20 1 1 February 13 lunar calendar 0 1 October (big) 1 1 Sunday snake running (deceptive)

20 1 1 February 14 lunar calendar 065438+ October (big) 12 Monday (Wu Jia)

20 1 1 Getting married in March is an auspicious day.

20 11March 4th Lunar New Year 01(big) 30th Friday to wash rats (nonnuts).

2011March 8th Lunar New Year's Day, Tuesday, February 4th, Chong Long (Bing Chen)

20 1 1 March 9th, Wednesday, February 5th of the lunar calendar (butyl)

20 1 1 March 1 1 Lunar February (small) 07 Friday Chongyang (no longer)

20 1 1 March 12 lunar February (small) Saturday (Gengshen)

2011March 13 lunar February (small) Sunday (heart)

20 1 1 March 18 Lunar February (small) 14 Fridays Tigers pounce (Bingyin)

2011March 20th Lunar February (small)1Saturday Worship dragons (Chen Wu)

2011March 23rd Lunar February (Wednesday) 19 Chongyang (Xin Wei)

2011March 24th Lunar New Year Thursday, February 20th, Year of the Monkey (Ren Shen)

2011March 29th, Tuesday, February 25th, lunar calendar, running the cow (Ding Chou)

20 1 1 Getting married in April is an auspicious day.

2011April 5th, Tuesday, March 3rd of the lunar calendar (Shen Jia)

20 1 1 Getting married in May is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 May 2nd, Monday, March 30th, Lunar New Year (Xinhai)

20 1 1 may 12 lunar April (big) 10 Thursday (with heart)

20 1 1 May 15 Lunar April (big) 13 Sunday mouse (Jiazi)

20 1 1 may 16 lunar April (big) 14 Monday (ugly)

20 1 1 Getting married in June is an auspicious day.

20 11June 2nd Lunar May (small) 01Thursday (noon)

20 1 1 Cattle grazing on Thursday, the ninth day of June, the eighth day of May in the lunar calendar (ugly)

20 1 1 June 12 may of the lunar calendar 1 1 worship the dragon on Sunday (nonchen)

2011June 13 Lunar May (small) 12 Monday Snake Run (I have it)

20 1 1 June 15 Lunar May (small)1Thursday, Chongyang (B).

20 1 1 Getting married in July is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 Bull Running Festival on Sunday, the third day of July (the third day of June) of the lunar calendar (ghost raising)

20 1 1 July 6th, Chinese Lunar New Year, June 6th, Wednesday, Chonglong (Bingchen)

20 1 1 Getting married in August is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 August 3rd, Wednesday, July 4th of the lunar calendar (Shen Jia)

20 1 1 August 4th, Thursday, July 5th of the lunar calendar (yiyou)

20 1 1 August 6th Lunar July 7th Saturday Zhu Chong (Ding Hai)

20 1 1 August 10 Lunar July (small)1/Wednesday (Xinmao)

20 1 1 August 1 1 July of the lunar calendar (small) 12 Thursday worships dragons (nonchen)

20 1 1 August 16 lunar July (small) 17 Tuesday (Ding You)

20 1 1 August 17 lunar July (small) 18 Wednesday (Wu)

20 1 1 August 18 lunar July (small) 19 Thursday to wash pigs (jihai)

20 1 1 Getting married in September is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 September 4th Lunar Sunday, August 7th (Bingchen)

20 1 1 September 10 lunar August (small) 13 Saturday to wash the dog (not to defend).

20 1 1 1 Getting married in October is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 10 4 On Tuesday, the ninth day of the Lunar New Year (big) 08, I rushed the dog (the military book).

20 1 1 year10.8 lunar September (big) 12 Saturday Tiger (Geng Yin)

20 1 1 year1October 15 Lunar September (Saturday) 19 (Ding You)

20 1 1 year1October 17 Lunar September (big) 2 1 Monday Pig (Jihai)

20 1 1 year1October 18 rat (boxer) on September 22nd of the lunar calendar.

20111/October wedding is an auspicious day.

20 1 1 year 1 month 5 lunar calendar1month (small) 10 Saturday horse racing (May 5).

20 1 1 year 1 month 8 lunar calendar1month (small)1Wednesday Tuesday (with heart)

20 1 1 year 1 month 9/lunar calendar1month (small)14th Wednesday Chonggou (Shu Ren) Shanan.

20 1 1 year 1 1 month/day/lunar calendar 1 0 month (small) 16 Friday to wash rats (Jia Zi).

20 1 1 year 1 1 month 12 lunar calendar 10 month (small) 17 Saturday.

20 1 1 year 1/month 15 lunar calendar1month (small) 20th Tuesday Chonglong (Chen Wu).

20 1 1 year 1/month 17 lunar calendar1month (small) Thursday, 22nd, horse racing (Gengwu).

20 1 1 65438+ auspicious wedding in February.

20 1 1 year 65438+ lunar February 5th 65438+ October (big)1/Monday mouse (Wuzi)

20 1 1 year 65438+ lunar February 9th 65438+ October (big) 65438+ Friday, Chonglong (Renchen).

20 1 1 year 65438+February 15 lunar calendar 65438+ 10 (big) February1Thursday to wash dogs (martial arts).

20 1 1 year1February 16 lunar calendar 1 1 month (Friday, 22nd) Pig (Jihai).

20 1 1 year1February 18 lunar calendar 1 1 month (big) 24 Sunday cattle (ugly)