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How to choose an auspicious day for marriage
The calculation method of auspicious day is to use the date and time of birth of both men and women to calculate the most auspicious wedding date. This "auspicious day" cannot conflict with the zodiac signs of both men and women. Pay attention to the date of birth of the bride, and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. Parents' birthdays should not coincide with the auspicious day of marriage, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married in that month.
When choosing an auspicious day, the date is more important than the month, and the month is more important than the year: first, choose the wedding season according to the envisaged wedding form and local climate characteristics. At the same time, it is also necessary to consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, you should choose November and May Day holidays. Marriage registration cannot be chosen on long holidays or weekends.
Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of the new couple, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage.
Finally, I want to remind you that when choosing a good wedding date, you should try to stagger the woman's menstrual period.
Based on the above factors, after selecting the approximate range, you can choose the date according to their birthdays.
Some people say that it is not appropriate and credible to get married in the year of widowhood or birth.
The following is an auspicious day for the couple to get married (get a certificate) on 20 14 for their reference. You can arrange the wedding date reasonably according to your own situation, book the hotel early, engage the car early, and take wedding photos early. I wish the couple a hundred years of harmony, all the best and a happy wedding!
20 14 April is an auspicious day for marriage.
On Friday, April 4th, Wu Jia, on the fifth day of March in the Golden Horse Year, pigs were washed.
Saturday, April 5th, Wu Jia, the sixth day of March in the Golden Horse Year.
Wu Jia, March 13, Saturday, Golden Horse Year, Chongyang.
April 13 Sunday March 14th, Wu Jia Golden Horse Year.
Wu Jia, Thursday, March 18, Golden Horse Year, Rat Year.
Sunday, April 20th, Wu Jia, March 2nd1day, Golden Horse Year, rabbit rushing.
Thursday, April 24th, Wu Jia, March 25th, Golden Horse Year, washed sheep.
Friday, April 25th, Wu Jia, March 26th, Golden Horse Year.
Tuesday, April 29th, Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, the first day of April, washing mice.
May 20 14 is an auspicious day for marriage.
Friday, May 2nd, Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, fourth day of April, rabbit washing.
On Wednesday, May 07, Wu Jia Golden Horse Year, the ninth day of April, the monkey was rushed.
Thursday, May 8th, Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, April 10, Rooster Year.
Monday, May 12, Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, April 14th, Cattle Rushing.
May 65438+ May 05 Thursday, Wu Jia Golden Horse Year April 17, Chonglong.
Wu Jia, April 2 1 day, Golden Horse Year.
Tuesday, May 20th, Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, April 22nd, Rooster Year.
Saturday, May 24th, Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, April 26th, Bull Rushing.
Tuesday, May 27th, Wu Jia Golden Horse Year, April 29th, worshiping dragons.
May 3 1 Saturday Wu Jia Golden Horse Year, the third day of May, the Year of the Monkey.
20 14 June is an auspicious day for marriage.
Sunday, June 0 1 Wu Jia Golden Horse Year, Sichong Chicken in May.
On Thursday, June 5th, Wu Jia, on the eighth day of May in the Golden Horse Year, cattle were rushed.
Friday, June 6, Wu Jia Golden Horse Year, the ninth day of May, rushed to the Year of the Tiger.
Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, May 12, year of the snake
Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, Friday, May 16th.
Wu Jia, May 17th, Saturday, Golden Horse Year, gully erosion.
Wednesday, June 18, Sino-Japanese War, May 2 1 Sunday, Golden Horse Year.
On Wednesday, June 25th, Wu Jia Golden Horse Year washed chicken on May 28th.
Thursday, June 26th, Wu Jia, May 29th, Golden Horse Year, gully erosion.
Monday, June 30th, Sino-Japanese War, Golden Horse Year, June 4th.
July 20 14 is an auspicious day for marriage.
On Thursday, July 3, Wu Jia Golden Horse Year, the seventh day of June, the snake was rushed.
Wu Jia gullies on Tuesday, July 8th, June 12th, Golden Horse Year.
Wednesday, June 13th, Golden Horse Year, Wu Jia, Zhu Chong
July 13 Sunday Wu Jia Golden Horse Year June 17th rabbit.
Sunday, July 20th, Wu Jia, Golden Horse Year, June 24th, gully erosion.
Wu Jia, Monday, June 25th, Golden Horse Year, washing pigs.
Friday, July 25th, the sixth anniversary of Wu Jia Golden Horse Competition.
Is there anything particular about the choice of wedding day? Of course I'm picky
Let me tell you what you are particularly picky about.
The most practical pressure
1, considering the reality of both families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly, relatives and friends have time to participate.
We should consider the actual situation of both sides' work and study. If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date.
3, to consider the physical condition of both parties, the wedding period should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it.
4. Unify the wedding date and holiday, so that the couple have more time to arrange the wedding, but more couples get married during the holiday, and hotel reservations and motorcades need to be booked in advance.
Considering the cost, June, August, September and 10 are the peak months of the year, so the wedding price in these time periods may be higher. However, if you get married in 1 month, March or1February, the cost may be less.
Traditional pressure
Avoid the month or day that conflicts with your genus: the so-called conflict refers to the conflict between your offspring and the afternoon horse, the ugly cow and the sheep, the yinhu and the Shen monkey, the Mao rabbit and the unitary chicken, the dragon and the dog, and the snake and the sea pig. There are six groups of conflicts, that is, rats should avoid noon, horse, month or day, and so on.
379: It is best to avoid auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for holding happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.
Avoid the evil spirit of three years: according to legend, Yue Lao doesn't lead the red line for three years, so that she can't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month.
Is blind year optional? A blind year is a year without "beginning of spring". Usually, the year after the "double spring" is a "blind year". However, "blind years" also have auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in blind years.
The general principle of choosing a good wedding day is that the date is more important than the month, and the month is more important than the year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years. No matter which day you choose, you need to consider your actual situation. Considering the budget and the wedding peak, it is a good choice to try to choose the days that everyone is satisfied with.
Shuangchun: It means that there are two "beginning of spring" years at the beginning and the end of a year. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it has the symbolic meaning of the beginning of a year and the spread of branches and leaves. For example, 20 14, 20 17 and 2020 are "double spring years".
Leap month: refers to the year with leap month in the lunar calendar, that is, there are thirteen months in a year. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, love and harmony. Such as leap April in 20 12, leap September in 20 14, leap June in 20 17 and leap April in 2020.
Double spring and leap month: "Double spring" and "leap month" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, so it is natural to add joy to it! For example, Renchen (20 12) and Wu Jia (20 14).
Real wedding day: If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better choose these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day.
Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated according to the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar.
Avoid parents' birthdays: In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, and it is ok to get married within that month.
I believe that with these, you can well understand the importance of choosing a good day on the wedding day. I wish you happiness on your wedding day.
How to choose the right wedding date? Engagement and marriage ceremony are important events in the life of both husband and wife, so it is best to choose an auspicious day. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day. The calculation method of auspicious day is to use the date and time of birth of both men and women to calculate the most auspicious wedding date. This "auspicious day" cannot conflict with the zodiac signs of both men and women. Pay attention to the date of birth of the bride, and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. Parents' birthdays should not coincide with the auspicious day of marriage, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married in that month. When choosing an auspicious day, the date is more important than the month, and the month is more important than the year: first, choose the wedding season according to the envisaged wedding form and local climate characteristics. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, you should choose November and May Day holidays. Marriage registration cannot be chosen on long holidays or weekends. Secondly, try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage. Finally, I want to remind you that when choosing a good wedding date, you should try to stagger the woman's menstrual period. Based on the above factors, we can choose the date according to the birthdays of two people. Some people say that it is not appropriate and credible to get married in the year of widowhood or birth. The following is an auspicious day for couples to get married (get a certificate) on 20 15 in Gregorian calendar for reference. You can choose the date according to your own situation, and wish you a happy wedding!
20 15 1 1 wedding auspicious day1.02 Thursday, the first day of October, running dogs1.1Monday. On the sixth day of the month, I rushed to rabbit165438+1Tuesday, October 24th, I rushed to dog1Saturday, October 28th, I rushed to tiger165438+1Sunday, October 29th, I rushed to rabbit.
20 15 12 wedding auspicious day12061Sunday, October 25th, Year of the Golden Goat, rush to the dog12071Monday, October 26th, Year of the Golden Goat, rush to the pig/kloc. Year of the Golden Sheep/the second day of kloc-0//month, 12, 16, Year of the Golden Sheep1/month1Sunday,/kloc-0. 12, Golden Sheep Year 1 1 month/Thursday, 12, Golden Sheep Year1month/Monday, 0/8, 65438.
20 16 65438+ October wedding day
20 16 1 10 The first Sunday in December is the first day of the first lunar month.
On Tuesday, the third day of the twelfth lunar month, I washed pigs (Dinghai pigs) in Dongsha.
20 16 1 13 On Wednesday, the fourth day of the twelfth lunar month, the rat (Wuzi) rushed north.
On Friday, the sixth day of the twelfth lunar month, the Double Ninth Festival (Geng Yin) is held in Anshan.
On Thursday of the twelfth lunar month, the monkey (Shen Bing) rushed to the north.
2016 65438+1October 22nd, 22nd of the twelfth lunar month, Friday, Red Chicken (Ding You) Shaxi.
2016 65438+1October 24th, December 15th of the lunar calendar, pigs (Jihai) rushed to the east.
129, Friday, 29th lunar month, Chonglong (Chen Jia) Shabei.
On Wednesday, February 3rd, 2006, on December 25th of the lunar calendar, we washed chickens in the west (Ji You).
On Thursday, December 26th of the lunar calendar, Chong Gou (Geng Xu) went to Anshan.
2065438+Sunday, February 7, 2006, the 29th day of the twelfth lunar month, washing cattle.
How to choose 1 on the wedding day, and choose Runnian Runyue.
How to choose a good wedding day? China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding days and the theory of "leap month" and "leap year", that is, there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year.
In recent years, the situation in beginning of spring during the Lunar New Year is as follows:
20 1 1 Year of the Rabbit: Single Spring
20 12 (the Year of the Loong): Double Spring
20 13 (year of the snake): No spring, few years.
20 14 (Year of the Horse): Double Spring
20 15 (Year of the Sheep): Single Spring
2. Avoid 379
It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for holding happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.
3. Avoid Sanniang's killing
According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month.
4. Marriage and date selection method
The principle of choosing a wedding date is to take the bride's date of birth as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries by the line". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck.
5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays
In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.
6. Real wedding day
If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it's best to do it in these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real auspicious wedding.
7. auspicious day method
Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated according to the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.
8, to consider the actual work and study of both sides.
If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day for marriage" when the good news comes.
9, to consider the reality of both families.
Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly, relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.
10, considering the physical condition of both parties.
If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange marriage, but to make timely diagnosis and treatment and consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to listening to the woman's opinions.
1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays.
It may be wise if the wedding date coincides with holidays. The advantages of this are: unforgettable; Newly-married people put on holiday clothes to add spice; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home and celebrate the festival. However, many new people get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.
12, the definition of a good day
In any case, the definition of "good days" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.
Choose an auspicious day correctly
1, female life marriage year taboo
Please refer to the last line, for example, noon is the year of the horse.
Rabbits envy children, while tigers envy ugliness.
Cattle lovers avoid the year of Yin, while rat lovers avoid the year of Mao.
The anniversary of the pig is the anniversary of the dog.
People who like chickens avoid afternoons, while people who like monkeys avoid young people.
Sheep are jealous of Shen Nian, and horses are jealous for a whole year.
People who belong to snakes avoid years old, and people who belong to dragons avoid years old.
Starting with the method: starting with a screwdriver, that is, marriage is forbidden and not suitable.
2. The year of forbidden marriage for men
The taboo for those men to get married is also the first five stages of the year. Namely:
The year when snakes are forbidden and horses are forbidden.
The year when sheep are forbidden, the year when monkeys are forbidden.
No chickens for one year and no dogs for four years.
Pigs are forbidden in the afternoon, and rats are forbidden in the afternoon.
Cattle are forbidden to apply for the year, and tigers are forbidden to apply for the year.
It is forbidden in the Year of Rabbit and Tiger.
3. This woman has been married in Italy all her life.
Zhengqi welcomes chickens, rabbits, 28 tigers and monkeys.
39 snakes, 40 dragons and 40 dogs.
Cattle, sheep, fifty-one, mouse, horse, six, twelve.
This refers to the people of chickens and rabbits ... ";
How to choose a date for marriage? According to Zhouyi, marriage must be in Ji Yue, while Ji Yue is determined according to the woman's zodiac sign.
In ancient times, the month of marriage was very particular. The following are the advantages and disadvantages of marriage:
Rats, horses, cows, sheep, tigers, monkeys, chickens, rabbits, dragons, dogs, snakes and pigs.
Italy 6th, 12/5,1/2, 8/ 1, 7/4, 10/3, 9.
Matchmaker 1, 7/4, 10/3, 9/6, 12/5,1/2,8.
Wenggu 2, 8/ 3, 9/ 4, 10/ 5,1/6, 12/1 7.
Nuisances to parents 3, 9/ 2, 8/ 5,1/4, 10/1, 7 /6, 12.
Formula 4, 10/ 1, 7/6, 12/3, 9/2, 8/5, 1 1.
5, 1 1/6, 12/ 1,7/2,8/3,9/4, 10.
Ji Yue is married in February and August of the lunar calendar.
February 20 14 13, the third day of the lunar calendar, Sanhe, Ding Richong, 18-year-old cattle.
On February 20 14 16, the lunar calendar was active, and the ecliptic danger rushed to 15-year-old dragon.
20 14 On August 20th, Er Shen washed 12-year-old sheep in the ecliptic.
These days are the best auspicious days for your Italian month.
I've avoided four days, four days, four days,
True Sanniang Sand Day, Red Sand Day, Yang Gong Death Day, Red Pine Descent Day, Mourning Day,
Ghost day, fireworks day, ten evils day, Tiangou day, Shangshuo day, Liangri day,
Death Day, White Tiger Day, Suzaku Day, Armageddon Day, Sex Hunting Day, Evil Hostage Day, and Peaceful Parting Day.
I wish you happiness!
How to count two people's wedding auspicious days ~ 5 points? You can get married whenever you want. The wedding date doesn't matter, as long as it is convenient for you.
Don't be superstitious. The result of superstition is being cheated.
20 13. 1.4 is a good day. Many couples have registered to get married on that day.
In fact, the success and happiness of a marriage have nothing to do with good days. The key is to look at feelings, personality, sense of responsibility and how to run a marriage.
It's better to ask for help than to ask for help! Happiness is in your own hands, so be proactive!
The secret of successful marriage: respect each other's differences. Mutual understanding, understanding and tolerance.
How to choose the right wedding date? Six principles should be paid attention to when choosing an auspicious day for marriage. Choosing an auspicious day for marriage is a very extensive and meaningful issue. China Olympic Corps frequently received reports, and many Olympic athletes postponed the wedding date of the competition. I believe that many Olympic athletes will enter the marriage hall after the Olympic Games. At the same time, Dr. Zheng also received inquiries from many friends that there will be another round of marriage after the Olympic Games. Dr. Zheng specifically talked about the choice of a good day for marriage. Generally speaking, we need to pay attention to the following six principles when choosing an auspicious day for marriage: 1, and it is appropriate to choose to run the year and run the month. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "leap month" and "leap year". Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there was no "Runyue" or "Runnian" in that year, there was no need to force it. Note that "Runnian" is divided into solar calendar and lunar calendar. This year is a leap year in the Gregorian calendar. 2. Avoid March 7th and September of the lunar calendar. It is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for holding happy events. 3. Avoid the days when San Niang killed and Yang Gongbi. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the wedding of Yue Lao and his wife. Therefore, it is not appropriate to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month. People have taboo customs in their daily life. If you are lucky, you can say it, but if you are unlucky, you should avoid saying it. Therefore, there is a saying that "the spirit is not ugly." In taboo customs, it is especially forbidden to say or use the number "thirteen", and all marriages and happy events do not need the thirteenth lunar month. According to legend, a long time ago, there was a man named Yang Gong who had thirteen sons. Everyone says that his life is good. Yang Gong also relies on his thirteen sons and often says to people, "I have thirteen sons. Even if I encounter three disasters, I am not afraid. Even if twelve months of the year die in January, I still have a son who died for me. " It is a coincidence that there was a plague one year and this year happened to be a leap month. Yang Gong's sons got the plague and died one after another. By the end of1February, Yang Gong's 13 sons had all died, leaving only himself, and the scene at night was very bleak. People say that everything that happened to Yang Gong was because of what he said. From then on, people will avoid saying bad things, and once they say them, they will spit out good things. At the same time, the number thirteen is also considered an ominous number. 4. Dates should be based on women. One principle of choosing a date is to give priority to the date of birth of the bride and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes: "When a child is born, a woman marries", which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems or even divorce after marriage, which new people must not ignore. You must avoid your parents' birthdays. In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. 6. Registration date and wedding ceremony. If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it's best to do it in these two days.
How to choose the auspicious day of marriage is the foundation of family happiness. In ancient times, people had a deep study on marriage, date selection and pairing. If two people want to get married, they must go through a eight-character marriage, match each other, and choose an auspicious day. However, the custom of choosing an auspicious day to get married has not been submerged in the long river of history, but has become increasingly fierce. Inquiring about the auspicious day of marriage has become a traditional custom, which is practiced everywhere. Being sensitive to numbers and dates is no longer a matter of a day or two. As the saying goes, "You are blessed to go out and watch the zodiac." For semi-major events in the family, such as moving, opening a business, getting married, and even funerals, people like to refer to the yellow calendar regardless of red events or white events. After all, marriage is a major event that concerns two families. Some people only get married once in their lives, so it is appropriate to pay more attention. How to choose an auspicious day? What taboos need to be avoided? Next, let's take a look at the selection of auspicious days I brought. Generally speaking, suitable wedding days are marked on the old calendar. What we need to pay attention to is that auspicious days are suitable for Tiande, Yuede, Tiandehe, Yuedehe, Tianfu, Tian Yue, Sanhe, Tianxi and Liuhe, but not for marriage. Marrying a lucky day is forbidden to break the moon, working days, combine days, robbery, disaster, disaster, punishment, disgust, five tombs, moon disaster, big time, celestial officials, abolish four things, avoid four things, be poor, leave five places, specialize in eight things, and hate marrying the sun. If you want to find a really good day for two people to get married, you should not only look at the zodiac, but also look at the auspicious day itself. When choosing an auspicious day, we should not only consider the value of the zodiac, good luck and evil spirits, but also the daily support should not conflict with the zodiac of both men and women. If we can further consider that there is no mutual punishment and harm, which is in line with men and women or one of them, we must also consider the numerology of the two and the choice of auspicious days. Only in this way can you consider whether there is a conflict between them. Generally speaking, we choose the date and refer to the lunar calendar to inquire about the auspicious day of marriage. Most people prefer to choose the date of Gemini to get good luck. For the choice of months, most of them are holidays, so that relatives and friends can get together. It is best to avoid choosing March, July and September of the lunar calendar. In these three months, there are Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong, which is taboo for most people. Marriage is a big event, and most families will pay special attention to choosing a date. Especially for girls, they regard this day as one of the most important days in their lives, and a good day is the beginning of a happy life for two people, so they must not be careless, but an auspicious day for marriage is a must.
Is it important to choose an auspicious day for marriage? It has always been a tradition in China to choose an auspicious day to get married. Marriage is about getting lucky. The auspicious day for marriage is more or less optional and cannot be ignored.
There are several rules for choosing a good wedding day. As long as you have a good grasp, what you choose is the best. The following are some considerations that cannot be ignored.
1, select Run Year and Run Month.
How to choose a good wedding day? China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding days and the theory of "leap month" and "leap year", that is, there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year.
In recent years, the situation in beginning of spring during the Lunar New Year is as follows:
Xuanshitang Shu Tong
20 1 1 Year of the Rabbit: Single Spring
20 12 (the Year of the Loong): Double Spring
20 13 (year of the snake): No spring, few years.
20 14 (Year of the Horse): Double Spring
20 15 (Year of the Sheep): Single Spring
2. Avoid 379
It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for holding happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.
3. Avoid Sanniang's killing
According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month.
4. Marriage and date selection method
The principle of choosing a wedding date is to take the bride's date of birth as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries by the line". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck.
Xuanshitang Shu Tong
5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays
In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.
6. Real wedding day
If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it's best to do it in these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real auspicious wedding.
7. auspicious day method
Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated according to the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.
8, to consider the actual work and study of both sides.
If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day for marriage" when the good news comes.
9, to consider the reality of both families.
Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly, relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.
10, considering the physical condition of both parties.
If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange marriage, but to make timely diagnosis and treatment and consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to listening to the woman's opinions.
1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays.
It may be wise if the wedding date coincides with holidays. The advantages of this are: unforgettable; Newly-married people put on holiday clothes to add spice; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home and celebrate the festival. However, many new people get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.
12, the definition of a good day
In any case, the definition of "good days" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.
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