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Does engagement depend on the date? Is there anything special about the date?

Engagement and marriage is a major event in our life, which has an impact on our life. Marriage is very important in our life and will have an impact on many aspects. We all have our own ideas and arrangements, but we still have to discuss it. So the engagement depends on the date? What's so particular about life?

Engagement is the date when both parties end their engagement. Since ancient times, people have chosen auspicious days. However, due to the different family background and local customs, the importance attached to the choice of engagement date will be different. Some parents think that a sunny day is enough to get engaged. Some parents pay more attention to choosing an auspicious day, so that both sides can reach a consensus through discussion. No matter which method is adopted, most of them are simplified in etiquette and customs.

Considering the time of both parties, it may be more wise to choose a holiday in general. This auspicious day is even more memorable. It is also a relaxing and festive festival, and you can reunite with friends and family at home. It is also a very meaningful thing to spend the holidays in the mountains. Or you can choose an auspicious day according to the seasonal weather changes. 1~ March will be colder, and April-June will be neither too cold nor too hot, and there will not be much rain, so it is the best season to choose an auspicious day. The weather is very hot from July to September, and there are often heavy rains; From 10 to 12, the weather gradually cooled down.

What should we pay attention to when choosing the engagement date:

Respect both parents.

On such an important day as the engagement date, both parents are usually very concerned. Therefore, we must respect both parents and discuss with them before making a decision.

Don't be too superstitious

Although China has had the custom of choosing auspicious days in the zodiac since ancient times, the happiness of both parties' marriage mainly depends on their emotional level. Choosing auspicious days may not necessarily lead to happiness, so we should not believe in superstition too much.

We should consider the actual situation of both families.

When choosing the engagement date, it is necessary to take care of the happy moment that both relatives can attend and witness together.