Capricorn boys' feelings

What I want to say is, why does Capricorn hurt people, because Capricorn longs for love and freedom. Although you are close to him, you can't be possessive of him. You can tell him that you should eat more fiber, exercise more, sleep less and go out for a walk more, but you can't accuse him of complaining when he doesn't meet your needs in time.

Generally speaking, you will get what kind of treatment you expect from others. For Capricorn, as long as he has not recognized you, you are a relatively dispensable person to him, so he will not invest a lot of energy and time, especially during the hard struggle of his career. What he needs is that you stay with him silently, don't be harsh on him, always warm him and let him struggle with peace of mind.

Sometimes I think it is no wonder that Capricorn, who makes them have such a strong sense of mission? Things are often unsatisfactory, and his energy and thoughts are limited after all.

I have been with Capricorn for four years, and I have experienced inner hardships. I have been on and off several times. Every time you express the pain of guarding him, he will come to distance himself from you and attract my retention. He will remain silent, but he will not disappear afterwards, but he will no longer take the initiative, because he is also in pain. He knows his own state, and he also knows how much he longs for a person to silently guard him, but your efforts and expectations make him feel guilty. He is afraid that he can satisfy you for a while, but he can't satisfy you for a lifetime, so he is indifferent. In fact, when you tell him that you are ill, he is distressed and concerned, but he is afraid to warm you. He is afraid that this gift will make you form the habit of pampering, and he hopes you can take care of yourself. You call him and ask him clearly, and he will give it, but there are still many worries.

They are eager to be relaxed, simple and happy. It is precisely because they always carry too many things in their hearts. They are afraid of your tears, your expectant eyes, that you will always cheat, and that you will always let him refuse you and keep putting himself through more things.

He is eager to smile like a child. He hopes that no matter what he does, you won't blame him, but he knows that this requirement is so high.

MM who loves Capricorn may think that Capricorn is not a person who can make you feel relaxed, and he will not know how to please him. After some painful lessons, I have the following suggestions:

1. Don't make him the center of your life. He can tolerate that you have no special highlights, but he can't tolerate that you become a burden to his life and work. Take care of your body, life, work, spirit and mood. It's not like this to arouse his appetite. My intuition tells me that Capricorn's eyes will be attracted by the temptation of the outside world, but his heart yearns for safety and warmth. If you want him to meet you, don't express your earnest thoughts, which will make him feel that he owes you again. You can easily call him to talk about your recent work life and care about his recent work life. He is very clever. This untitled phone call will let him know that you miss him. When I wanted to see him, I hinted to him very easily and happily, "There is something particularly good recently. Let's go together." What he needs is that you bring him a relaxed mood.

2. Get used to his refusal and distinguish his refusal. Capricorn doesn't like you. He won't reply to any text messages you send. Only the woman who makes him struggle inside will feel his coldness and warmth. If you don't answer the phone occasionally, don't question him afterwards. Get used to his inconvenience sometimes, and then he may forget it, but he must be busy with something important. At this point, you are 100% confident rather than 100% trusting him. Only you are the best for him, and it is his regret to lose you. If you have a conflict, don't explain. He won't believe you if you explain. He believes in what you will do in the future. If he ignores you, don't call or text him again. He just wants to relax. If you call or text him again in a few days, he won't ignore you because he doesn't want you to leave. It can also be said that this is also a way for Capricorn to test you and see your self-healing ability to conflict. Then, when he refuses you, see what he says. If it's just the word "busy", you can basically assume that this Capricorn is perfunctory. If he tells you, "the leader has arranged three more reports today, and each report will take two days to complete, but he asked me to complete it in two days." Alas, there are always some boring things coming out in the middle. "Even if he refuses you when you express your love, you should believe that you are the one Capricorn cares about at this time, otherwise he won't bother to tell you so clearly in a short message.

3. Be sincere. This sincerity does not mean that you are sincere to him. MM people are wondering if Capricorn is sincere. I can tell you 120% that Capricorn is serious, so you can see that he will swing from side to side, and he will be responsible for you and himself. Therefore, don't always pick on Capricorn sensitively and be sarcastic. If he makes fun of you for being so tolerant, if I make a mistake, will you forgive me? Although Capricorn who said this may have free thoughts in his heart, MM should not care. Just tell him that no matter what you do, I believe you have your own reasons. I respect you and wish you happiness. Maybe I will be sad and need to leave to heal, but I won't blame you. Oh, I was moved to tears myself. If you say this sincerely, you must really think so, otherwise your words and deeds are different, and Capricorn is easy to see through. Originally, he was always moved in his heart, but later he will see through your disguise and think that you are just trying to achieve your own goals.

4. Be selfless. This selflessness is what you pay, and whether he will be with you or not, you should hold the mentality that you want him to be happy. For example, if you feel that you have tolerated him a lot, and one day you are unhappy, you will dig out these mistakes that have always criticized him. He will think that you are so hypocritical and that you have framed him and made him owe you so much. He will feel too stressed, unable to repay, even afraid to pay, and it will be more difficult to accept your kindness in the future.

Being with Capricorn means loving him and letting him go. Capricorn may not pay much now, but he will keep your pay in mind (remember selfless pay), and one day he will repay you with everything he has. That day is a time when Capricorn is full of confidence in yourself and your future.

I wrote so much unconsciously, and I will add it later. All of the above are caused by reading Capricorn doesn't know how to love others, and the purpose of dating is twofold. I hope MM doesn't hate Capricorn, the Capricorn you once loved deeply. In fact, they are also very painful.