Taboos and precautions for getting married for three days

Taboos and precautions for getting married for three days

Three-day marriage is taboo and exquisite. When getting married, every place has its own traditional wedding taboos and stresses. Some places pay more attention to it, the content is more complicated, and some places are not very particular about it. Let's take a look at the taboos and pressures of getting married for three days and related statements.

Taboos and precautions for three days of marriage 1 first, taboos and precautions for three days of marriage.

1. Newcomers are not allowed to meet before they get married, but they can make phone calls because the Internet is still very developed. This is a traditional custom in China. If they meet three days before their wedding, it may mean that the marriage is unlucky. In fact, newlyweds and their parents will pay attention to it.

Newcomers are not allowed to go out three days before the wedding. It is said that it is for safety reasons to prevent some bumps after going out, which will affect the normal wedding. During these three days, the couple just need to have a good rest, and then adjust their state to meet the wedding in the best and most spiritual state.

Don't change your hairstyle three days before the wedding. If girls have long hair, don't cut it into short hair casually, otherwise it may not match well that day and affect the overall effect.

Second, the taboo and pressure on the wedding day.

(1) avoid getting married in the ghost month, that is, in July of the lunar calendar.

(2) avoid getting married in June of the lunar calendar, which means being a wife for half a month.

(3) When installing the bed, put the bed in the correct position to avoid being opposite to the sharp corner of the desk closet or any object.

(4) After the bed is fixed, until the eve of the wedding night, the groom-to-be should avoid sleeping alone in the new bed, and can find a big zodiac and a minor boy to sleep with him, such as Long Xiao.

(5) On the day of engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, no one who participates in the engagement is allowed to fan, otherwise it will mean breaking up!

After the wedding reception, neither party can say goodbye, otherwise it will mean remarriage.

(7) The clothes and dresses worn by the bride on the wedding day should not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth of her family.

When the bride leaves home, the more she cries, the better. The more she cried, the less she cried.

On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, all aunts and sisters-in-law should avoid seeing each other off. Because "ancient" and "ancient" are homophonic, "Sao" and "Sao" are homophonic, which is unlucky.

(10) On the way to the wedding, if you meet another wedding motorcade, it is called "Happy Rush", which will offset each other's blessings, so it is necessary to set off firecrackers or exchange flowers between the two matchmakers.

On the wedding day, no one is allowed to touch the new bed before going to bed at night, and the bride is not allowed to touch the bed that day.

(12) On the wedding day, the bride can't lie down, otherwise she will be ill in bed all the year round.

(13) Because children cry easily, they should be forbidden to enter the wedding auditorium, because it is unlucky to cry in the auditorium.

(14) When the bride enters the man's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and should cross it.

(15) No one who is a tiger or a widow is allowed to attend the ceremony and enter the new house.

(16) The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, which will make her feel ashamed of her husband.

(17) On Mothering Day, newlyweds must leave their parents' home before sunset and never spend the night at their parents' home. In case they can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep in separate rooms, so as not to bump into their parents and make them unlucky.

(eighteen) within four months of marriage, avoid attending any wedding, funeral and celebration.

Taboos and notes for three days of marriage II. Taboos and precautions for getting married for three days

1. Although the Internet is very developed now, as a traditional custom in China, since you can't meet before marriage, you can't send messages by phone. If two people meet three days before their marriage, it means that their marriage is not so auspicious, so both the couple and their parents should pay special attention.

2, three days before the wedding, the couple had better not go out. This is for safety reasons, because it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps after going out, which will affect the wedding process. Have a good rest at home, stay indoors, adjust your state to the best state and welcome the wedding.

Three days before the wedding, they should not change their hair styles or do their hair. You said that if it is long hair, don't cut it short, otherwise the short hair on the wedding day will not be well matched, which will affect the overall makeup effect. The above is an introduction to the taboos and pressures of getting married for three days, hoping to help everyone.

Second, why can't I change the sheets after getting married for one month?

1, when they get married, most people will use big red quilts and sheets, so after the wedding, they can completely change them according to their own preferences. There is no saying about how long it takes for the couple's sheets to get married, because they are covered with new sheets, so few people will change the sheets in a short time after marriage. After all, it is necessary to keep the festive atmosphere at this time.

There is no doubt that people come and go when getting married, and there is dirt on the sheets. Therefore, whether to clean the sheets after marriage is entirely up to both husband and wife.

In China's traditional thought, marriage symbolizes the beginning of a new life. Everything needs to be renewed, and the sheets are no exception. If the elders at home believe this, there is no need to argue with them too much, so as not to make the elders unhappy. Moreover, if the married life is unhappy in the future, it will inevitably remind people of this matter.

Taboos and precautions for three days of marriage 3 The bride's sister-in-law should avoid it on the wedding day.

On a woman's wedding day, all relatives and friends can send the bride out, but the bride's aunt should avoid doing so, because "aunt" is homophonic with "orphan" and "sister-in-law" is homophonic with "sweep". Loneliness is loneliness. Everyone knows that there is a word called "sweeping out the door", which means unlucky, so the bride's aunt should avoid it on the wedding day.

The bride will cry on the wedding day.

When a woman gets married, it means leaving her home, and then she will become a husband's wife. After she marries her in-laws, she will serve her in-laws, and she can't be as headstrong as before. It is inevitable that she will be sad at the thought of leaving her parents and brothers and sisters. In some rural areas, women's marriage is called "crying marriage". The more the bride cries, the better, because crying means "the more she cries, the more she can go home".

Avoid eating wedding cakes.

Wedding cake is a symbol of happiness. The custom of distributing wedding cake aims to share the joy of the wedding and convey the wedding news to every relative and friend through the wedding cake. The man usually sends the wedding cake to the woman's house, but the bride must not eat the wedding cake, which symbolizes the joy of eating her wedding.

Avoid sending pregnant women.

On the wedding day, pregnant women can't see each other off when the bride goes out, because in ancient times, people thought that pregnant women symbolized lotus flowers and seeing them off would bring bad things to the couple, so pregnant women should avoid it when the bride gets married. Pregnant women are not suitable to appear in the wedding procession, which is not good for the bride or the pregnant woman herself.

Avoid marriage. You can't get married

If it is forbidden to get married on that day in the yellow calendar, then it is not suitable to hold a banquet together on that day. I'm sure your parents will remind you of this, too. Although everyone thinks these things are a bit feudal, we should still have awe when meeting, so it is best not to be on this day.

China people have so many complicated steps before getting married, one is because of the sense of ceremony, and the other is to get blessings. So choose a good day, which is also the way you harvest blessings, and you harvest the blessings of life.