What do you think of the big day and the small day when you get married?

1, considering the reality of both families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly, relatives and friends have time to participate.

We should consider the actual situation of both sides' work and study. If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date.

3, to consider the physical condition of both parties, the wedding period should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it.

4. Unify the wedding date and holiday, so that the couple have more time to arrange the wedding, but more couples get married during the holiday, and hotel reservations and motorcades need to be booked in advance.

Considering the cost, June, August, September and 10 are the peak months of the year, so the wedding price in these time periods may be higher. However, if you get married in 1 month, March or1February, the cost may be less.

How to choose the wedding date is meaningful.

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Second, traditional pressure.

Avoid the month or day that conflicts with your genus: the so-called conflict refers to the conflict between your offspring and the afternoon horse, the ugly cow and the sheep, the yinhu and the Shen monkey, the Mao rabbit and the unitary chicken, the dragon and the dog, and the snake and the sea pig. There are six groups of conflicts, that is, rats should avoid noon, horse, month or day, and so on.

379: It is best to avoid auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for holding happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month, that is, the August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

Avoid the evil spirit of three years: according to legend, Yue Lao doesn't lead the red line for three years, so that she can't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month.

Real wedding day: If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better choose these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day.

Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated according to the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar.

Avoid parents' birthdays: In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, and it is ok to get married within that month.

3. Which days are more suitable for getting married?

1. Shuangchun

Double Spring refers to the "beginning of spring" with two years at the beginning and end of a year. Because of its symbolic meaning, spring is considered especially suitable for marriage. For example, 20 14, 20 17 and 2020 are "double spring years".

leap month—intercalary month in the lunar calendar

Leap month means that there is a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, which means there are thirteen months in total. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, love and harmony. Such as leap April in 20 12, leap September in 20 14, leap June in 20 17 and leap April in 2020.

3. Spring and leap month

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, so it is natural to add joy to it! For example, Renchen (20 12) and Wu Jia (20 14).

Matters needing attention in choosing a wedding date:

1. Blind Year

A blind year refers to a day when there is no "beginning of spring" all year round. Usually, the year after the "double spring" is a "blind year". However, "blind years" also have auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in blind years.

2. festivals

Avoid 1 month, so as not to collide with the Chinese New Year. Avoid the Qingming Festival and Orchid Festival, which are extremely yin, that is, March and July.

3. Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

When choosing a wedding date, you should avoid the birthdays of the couple themselves, their parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If both parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

4. Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to hold two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.