How to choose the auspicious day to get married?

Marriage is a major event in life, maybe once in a lifetime. After marriage, the two sides face each other day and night. You can't be careless in choosing a date before marriage. When it comes to marriage, many people can't help but find an expert to choose a good wedding day in order to get a good start in marriage. From the master's point of view, human activities should be balanced and harmonious with nature. The significance of choosing an auspicious day to get married is to make the married people respect nature and obey the natural time sequence, so as to unify the good for a while and the good for a hundred years. How to find an auspicious day for marriage? The following are some widely circulated basic principles of wedding date selection for your reference.

First, the principle of winning the wedding date

The "Tong Sheng" or "Huang Li" mentioned here is based on the China lunar calendar, and many calendars indicate good luck or bad luck on this day. The main contents of the Gregorian calendar are the schedule of the twenty-four solar terms, the good and bad luck of each day, the luck of the zodiac and so on. How to choose a wedding day? There are several main principles for choosing a wedding date:

1, select the auspicious year.

Double Spring: It means that there are two "beginning of spring" years at the beginning and the end of a year. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.

Leap month: refers to the year when there is a leap month in the lunar calendar, that is, * * * * has thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, loving and harmonious.

Double spring and leap month: "Double spring" and "leap month" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!

2. Avoid years and days that are not suitable for marriage.

Blind year: refers to the day when there is no "beginning of spring" all year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.

Festivals: Avoid January to avoid conflicts with the Spring Festival. Avoid the Tomb-Sweeping Day and Orchid Festival, which is full of yin and qi, that is, March and July.

San Niang Sha: According to legend, Yue Lao didn't lead the red line for San Niang, which prevented her from getting married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

Birthdays of couples and relatives: avoid the birthdays of couples, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

Happy or sad: it is best not to have two weddings at home within one year. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.

Second, the special principle of choosing the date of marriage.

Winning a lucky day is not universal, because individuals are different, and the date of marriage should also consider the date of birth of the married person. Generally speaking, the following principles should be followed when choosing a wedding date:

1. Calculate the most auspicious wedding date by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for holding happy events and cannot compete with the man's wealth star and the woman's official star.

2. The "auspicious day" that the selected date does not conflict with parents' birthdays should at least not conflict with parents' horoscopes (five elements of demand) and should not conflict with parents' food-eating stars (except those with serious food injuries).

The date chosen does not conflict with the prediction. Some people are not sure of their exact time of birth. Only through divination can they determine the date. This date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

Third, the general principle of choosing the date of marriage.

On the other hand, it is not so difficult to choose a good day for marriage. The general principle is: day is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years.

Fourth, suggestions on the date of marriage.

We suggest that the choice of wedding season should be based on your imagined wedding form and local climate characteristics. For example, if you want to hold an outdoor wedding, you should choose a sunny and rainy season with suitable heat and cold. At the same time, we should also consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, then choose Class 11 for a holiday. Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of the newcomers, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage. Finally, when choosing the date of marriage, you can't ignore the opinions of your elders. After all, marriage is not just about two people.