What should I do? My boyfriend and his family are interested in me now. I don't know yet.

I think, judging from your mentality, you are afraid and hesitant, so you have so many excuses.

Communication and mediation are both sides, and it is irrational for you to expect him not to communicate actively.

Getting married is a big deal. The birth year, getting married early, my brother not coming back and not thinking about it are just external excuses for your inner fear. And fortune-telling judgment is a legitimate reason for you to escape.

In the whole thing, you only consider your inner feelings and don't worry about each other's family. If you get married directly this year, your brother will come straight back wherever he is.

Of course, if you don't like your boyfriend, you can divorce. That's just your reason to run away. Maybe you will continue this cycle again.

Nothing is perfect. When you get everything ready and think about it, your boyfriend will even play soy sauce with the children.

He told you to leave if you want. It means he wants to see your attitude now. If you go on like this, I think it won't be long before he considers other marriage partners instead of you.

Change your mind, maybe if you miss this, you can find something better.

Life is a gamble, a chess game. It depends on how you gamble and how you play chess.

Most importantly, the result must be borne by yourself.