What the mother said to the rebellious children.

Adolescence is a very special period in the process of children's growth. Children are often sensitive and rebellious, and it is difficult to communicate with their parents calmly. Today, I want to show you a letter from a mother to a rebellious son, and I hope that parents will take appropriate measures when educating rebellious children.

I am writing this letter to you for three reasons:

1, you are standing on the node of life: looking back is a childhood that slipped away quietly, and then moving forward, the curtain of youth slowly opens to you.

2, some words, we don't tell you, no one will tell you.

3. mutual agreement: we work hard, you study hard, and no one will let anyone worry.

First of all, about the goal.

People can have no great ideals, but they can't lose their goals!

Under the system of one exam for life, no matter how hard you work, how hard you study and how powerful you are, as long as you fail the exam, you will be eliminated!

You have to understand that too much homework, too heavy schoolbags and studying day and night are not cruel to adults, but to reality!

Second, about positioning.

At home, all the only children are little emperors, but at school, there are too many emperors, and no one will take you seriously! Unless your grades are better, your talents are more outstanding, and your performance is better, the teacher will still regard you as a treasure.

The same is true of society. In the future, whether you want to be rich or poor, whether you want to live in a bungalow or a villa, whether you want others to look down on you or respect you, you should be responsible for it yourself.

Third, about learning.

In school, learning is the main thing, but it is not the only thing. Studying well and having poor health is no different from "reading more books and raising more pigs".

When students get together, they should compare themselves: 20-year-old education, 30-year-old ability, 40-year-old experience, 50-year-old financial resources, 60-year-old physical strength, 70-year-old medical records and 80-year calendar.

Life for decades, in the final analysis, is good health, son, have a good exercise!

Fourth, about the future.

A person's future is determined by knowledge, ability and attitude. Knowledge can be acquired through study, ability can be increased through practice, but attitude is formed through habit.

You sometimes lack the perseverance to cultivate good habits. It's not too late to correct your attitude.

In the future, I hope that everything you do will benefit yourself and others.

Verb (short for verb) about yourself.

In school, teachers have no obligation to be nice to you unless you respect teachers first, and students have no obligation to care about you unless you care about your classmates first; In your life, no one has an obligation to be nice to you, except me and your father.

Don't think that the world can't turn around without yourself, and don't give up and give up because you are young.

Six, about friends

Making friends is like investing. Of course, you should consider the return on investment. If you find a friend, and this friend doesn't give you a return in the end, it can only prove that your investment failed.

You should make friends with people who are better than you, especially remember to help your friends when they are in trouble. Because, people who laughed with themselves are easy to forget, and those who cried with themselves are the most unforgettable.

This is that giving charcoal in the snow is more meaningful than icing on the cake!

Seven, about love

Sooner or later, you will fall in love. As an experienced person, I suggest that it is always beautiful to walk before the flowers and after the moon, and sweet words are more charming. Don't forget that there are still wind, frost, rain and snow in reality.

Love is nothing more than-you love her, she doesn't love you, she loves you, you don't love her, and you love her. The third case is undoubtedly fascinating, but the probability is less than 10%.

Therefore, don't expect the beauty of love too much, and don't exaggerate the sadness of lovelorn. Shake hands with beautiful women, talk with profound women, communicate with successful women and live with ordinary women.

This is psychology, which is good!

Eight, about the distance

As parents, everyone is eager to shorten the distance with their children, but with the growth of children, the sky that belongs to you will surely become wider and wider, and the time and space distance from parents will surely become farther and farther. Of course, parents are particularly concerned about how much space they can occupy in the sky!

Because, the sky of parents and children is just the opposite-smaller and smaller with age. I, as an ordinary person, also have a popular feeling and care whether you are always around.

Son, parents are affectionate, can you read it?