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Many people ask themselves that they are not superstitious, but when it comes to marriage, they can't help choosing a good wedding date from the master of the Book of Changes in order to get a good start in marriage. From the perspective of auspicious experts, human activities should be balanced and harmonious with nature. The significance of choosing auspicious day for marriage is to make the married people respect nature and obey the natural sequence, so that the married people can be unified for a while and for a hundred years. How to find the auspicious day of marriage? The following can be referenced, are some widely circulated basic principles of choosing a day.

First, the principle of conquering heaven.

The "Tong Sheng" or "Huang Li" mentioned here is based on the lunar calendar in China, and many calendars indicate good or bad luck on this day. According to legend, the Yellow Calendar was created by Emperor Xuanyuan, so it is called the Yellow Calendar, which is also commonly known as the "General Book" among the people. However, because the word "book" in Tongshu is homophonic with the word "lose", it is also called "Tong Sheng" because it is taboo. The main contents of the Gregorian calendar are the date table of the 24 solar terms, the good and bad luck of each day, the fortune of the zodiac and so on. After experiencing the perfection of sages, the wedding date has the following principles:

1, good luck year

Shuangchun

There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it has the symbolic meaning of the beginning of a year and the spread of branches and leaves.

Leap moon-the leap moon in the lunar calendar

It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, that is, there were thirteen months in total. Because "leap" has the meaning of moistening and harvesting, it symbolizes that husband and wife have love and moistening, love and harmony.

Double spring and leap moon

"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, so it is natural to add joy to it!

2. year and day not suitable for marriage

Blind year

Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the next year of "Double Spring" is "Blind Year". However, "blind years" also have auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in blind years.

festival

Avoid 1 month, so as not to collide with the Chinese New Year. Avoid the Qingming Festival and Orchid Festival, which are extremely yin, that is, March and July.

three niang evil spirit

According to legend, Yue Laosan did not lead the red line for San Niang, which prevented her from getting married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

Birthdays of newcomers and relatives

Avoid the birthdays of couples themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If both parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.

Happy or sad.

Within a year, it is best not to hold two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.

Second, the special principle of date selection.

It is not common to win lucky days, because individuals are different. Strictly speaking, the birth time of the married person should be considered.

Generally speaking, the following principles need to be followed:

1. Calculate the most auspicious wedding date according to the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth star and the woman's official star (except many wealth officials).

2. The "auspicious day" that the date chosen does not conflict with the parents' birth date should at least not conflict with the parents' eight characters (five elements of demand) and should not conflict with the parents' food-injured stars (except the seriously injured).

3. The selected date does not conflict with divination. Some people can't be sure of their exact birth time. They can only determine the date by divination. This date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.

On the other hand, however, it is not as difficult as expected to choose an auspicious day to get married. The general principle is: day is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years.

Our suggestions are: First, choose the wedding season according to your imagined wedding form and local climate characteristics. For example, if you want to hold an outdoor wedding, you should choose a sunny and rainy season with suitable heat and cold. At the same time, it is also necessary to consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, you should choose class 11 holidays. Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of the new couple, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage. Finally, we can't ignore the opinions of our elders.