Why can't I see my parents in spring?

The girl's parents have no time to entertain her when she comes home, and she also makes trouble for her parents when she comes back. Delaying farming will be very troublesome. Parents are afraid that girls will go home to borrow cattle, which will delay farming and harvest.

In some places, there is a custom of "looking at the mother-in-law's house lights and stopping at the mother-in-law's house roots", so it is forbidden for beginning of spring to go back to her mother's house, because "spring" is bigger than "year", otherwise she will be poor. You can't go to your mother's house for the Lantern Festival. "If you see lanterns, you will be poor for a lifetime."

Spring Festival is a folk custom in China, which refers to whipping mud spring cattle on the day when spring begins to pray for a bumper harvest, or beating gongs and beating bamboo, singing lyrics and asking for money from house to house.