The exquisite and taboo of knocking at the door

First, the fingering of knocking at the door

Knock on the door after the right index finger or middle finger is bent. Don't beat hard with multiple fingers or the back of your hand or palm.

Second, the rhythm of knocking at the door

Knock three times, the interval is 0.3 ~ 0.5 seconds, too fast will make people upset, too slow will make people feel sloppy and unconfident. Knocking twice to show familiarity is equivalent to saying "hello" and "I'm coming in". It is impolite to knock on the door more than four times.

Third, the intensity of knocking at the door.

The strength should be moderate and firm. Too much strength will scare each other and give people a rude feeling; Too little strength makes people think you are too timid and nervous.

Fourth, how to knock at the door in the office?

As soon as the office door closes, everyone will consciously knock at the door first and get permission before they can go in. Sometimes, because time is tight, I feel familiar with each other and "break in" without scruple. This may interrupt the other party's work at hand and make the other party bored, especially when the other party has guests to visit, which will inevitably make the guests feel impolite.

When the office door is open or the door is left unlocked, what you need to do at this time is not to go straight in or push the door. Out of courtesy, you should knock at the door first, but you can tap.

When there is no response when we knock at the door, we can ask our colleagues in the nearby office about the situation or come back another day. In case of emergency, you can contact the leader or colleague through chatting under the electric light and proceed with the next work according to the other party's meaning.

Grasp the strength and rhythm of knocking at the door. Knocking at the door is too quiet, and the other party may not hear it. Even if you hear it, people will think you are not confident. Noise may become noise that affects others' work, and people will think you are not good. Too fast pace makes people upset and impatient, and too slow pace makes people feel lazy. Generally speaking, it is advisable to knock three times at a time, and the interval between each knock should be half a second. If there is no response, try knocking for the second time after 3-4 seconds, and the knocking sound can be moderately improved. Knock on the door for the third time, but there is no response, which means that the person you want to visit is not here or the person you want to visit can't see you at this time. At this time, don't push the door with your hands to test whether there is anyone in the office, let alone listen to the door with your ears.

Five, the etiquette of ringing the doorbell

At present, doorbell is installed in most cities at home, so it is polite to ring the doorbell. The correct way is to press it slowly and press it again every once in a while. Don't be too impatient when you ring the doorbell. It would be rude to ring at will.

Etiquette is a knowledge with specific requirements. Etiquette is everywhere in family, school and various public places. Knocking on the door is a sign of respecting the privacy and space of others. As parents, we should set an example, respect the children's personal space, and let the etiquette learned by children gradually become their own cultivation.