The "broken off" between relatives in rural areas is being staged, and some relatives no longer walk around each other. What happened?

Actually, it's ok to walk. The other person doesn't care how much money you have, mainly because people are here, especially when people are in urgent need of help. Many times, human feelings are more important than money.

The imbalance between the rich and the poor in rural areas, coupled with some aspects of education, is really lacking, and people's hearts are incalculable! Relatives are broken a lot. In the past, seven neighbors and eight townships looked like brothers and sisters. Now, if you are a good friend, people will look away when they see you. The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor in downtown ask!

Now people's life is faster, but many rural relatives in our family are still the same as before. Today, I have grandchildren at home, and tomorrow, there will be a full moon at home. In a few days, my son will get married, the old man will die, the old man will be hospitalized, his daughter will get married and celebrate his birthday. There are many relatives in our family, including seven sisters in my father's family and four in my mother's family, plus their sons and children. They were all born in the baby boomers in the sixties and seventies, and our relatives' families are quite big. You want to know everything, so some people will tell you everything at home, whether you go or not. As a person who works outside, this is a challenge in itself. There are fewer people who just got married, were hospitalized and celebrated their birthdays. I want to go every time I get a notice. After all, I am a relative. Later, there were more and more things, and I couldn't cope with it every weekend, so I had to ask for leave.

Because rural people depend on the weather, most of them are not weekends, so they have to ask for leave. In the long run, sometimes they take more than 30 days off every year and can't go on. Finally, they reached a compromise. The important thing is that their parents are going to this generation, others have time to go, and they have no time to go. In this way, it is even more difficult. You went to the Zhang family, but the Li family couldn't go because of something. Even if you look down on people, you can say it. In the end, all your cousins won't go, because it's really not clear in front of others whether you really have something to do or deliberately don't go, so relatives naturally fade away. With the gradual departure of our parents, we finally found that there was really no family to go. Now only my third aunt and my sister-in-law go sometimes, and if others don't go, they will be alienated.

Young people, of course, including us old people, have gradually become low-headed. Have fun in the virtual online world all day! The online world has crowded out the time of our interpersonal communication. This is probably the main reason.

Relatives broke off? The key question is that people are busy? Even if we meet, there is no time to communicate at the gathering of relatives and friends, and the feelings gradually fade. Now the cost of visiting relatives and friends is very high, and I am embarrassed to bother others when I have something at home. After a long time, naturally it will not move.

Life is stressful now. In order to live, people leave their hometown and enter major cities to find their dreams. Some people earn some money, and some people are poor at first, so draw a clear line between the rich and the poor. During the busy Spring Festival in the past, we could promote communication. Bye for the new year.-dinner. Now, even if we send messages or make phone calls to celebrate the New Year, the taste of the New Year itself is getting weaker and weaker. There are no firecrackers to bid farewell to the New Year, and there are also fewer groups of relatives and friends to have dinner together. In addition, there are only a few days left in the original holiday, so it is just a formality. Take a few days off to prepare for a better annual income.

Parents live between brothers and sisters, and everyone comes back to visit their parents. There are really no old people to take care of children, especially those who are far away. Children walk less, not without kissing, and have no time at all. Some conditions are good, and there are only a few people who pick up people on holidays.

There is a kind of social cost that affects us imperceptibly. Just like smart people don't play with fools. The rich and the poor play different games. A WeChat voice video with a red envelope has to run all the way, and no one wants to do anything with an empty meal. On the other hand, driving to buy some gifts is just to meet and talk for a day. It feels time-consuming and laborious. Naturally, it reduces the desire to socialize offline. As for breaking off diplomatic relations, it's normal, and blood relatives keep on. My uncle is old, so is my child's uncle. This kind of affection is lasting. Old relatives don't go and new relatives don't come. Without children and daughters, there is naturally no inheritance and no heir. The person who asks this kind of question must be a loser, or a person who can't talk very well.

I think the fundamental reason is that there was not much time to visit relatives and friends in the past off-season. People are under too much pressure and busy with business or work. Moreover, people's ideas have changed now, and many people pay more attention to visiting relatives and friends. Is it appropriate? . Relatives are also like this, and it's too much when they get home. In the past, young people who used to memorize almanac were also disdainful and paid more attention to the use of interests. If possible, even relatives that qianzi can't contact will leave. This brother is still very sweet.

A person's life is doomed. Let me tell you this: when you were born, the closest person was the one who raised you. These are your parents and the woman you are sleeping with now. This is the wife and her own children. They are your closest relatives, and now all seven aunts and eight aunts are fake.