What's the point of favoring children?

Q: There is a joke: "The heart is biased, so it is normal to be eccentric." But children are like their own hands to their parents, with meat on the back of their palms. How can they be partial? What's the point?

The feast master replied: eccentricity is normal, depending on what we think. For example, I once talked to a father and his two sons. The age difference between the two brothers is four years, and the younger brother is married. From the conversation, I know that my father used a word in his brother's name and a word in his own name to form the name of the company, but his brother's name was not in it.

I asked this brother: Your father started a company, using the names of his father and his brother, not yours. His father is very eccentric. How do you feel? He said, my father's choice is good. Together, these two words make the company name very loud. If I put my name in it, it may not sound good.

Then I asked them their views on marriage and company work arrangements, and the answer was certainly different! Every time I ask something, I will joke with them and say, "This is not fair!" " "But my brother's answer is:" This is a different choice made by the two of us, and there is nothing fair or unfair. "

Finally, I asked my brothers if they would quarrel, and my brother said yes. I asked if the reason was unfair. He said that when I was a child, I felt this way, and so did my brother, but when I grew up, both of them understood that "unfairness" did not exist, it was just a personal feeling.

There is no question of fairness and unfairness in the world, which varies from person to person. Parents' attitude towards their children is the same in principle, but the economic environment and physical and mental intensity when giving birth to the first child are definitely different from those when giving birth to the second child, and the health status of the boss and the second child will be different, because the environment is different and the object is different, so it is normal that the conditions of the two people are naturally different.

In the same family, the same parents bring up all the children, and when they grow up, each child will get something different. I think this is fair. As long as parents do their best for their children, it is fair. It is fair for parents to raise their children without being hungry, cold or abused.

In the process of growing up, the treatment of brothers and sisters is related to their own fortune, and their fortune is closely related to the blessings brought to them in the past and the relationship between parents.

My own fortune is good. When my parents gave birth to you, they were in good health, good economic environment, good body and mind, and everything was good, so they were good to you. If you don't have enough karma, your parents were born in a bad economic environment, in poor health and in a bad mood. I gave birth to myself, and the relationship will not be too good. So, don't blame your parents for being unfair, it's your own karma, and no one can blame you but yourself.