What influence does Liu Mei's personality have on children's growth in Family with Children?

Liu Mei's character in Family with Children makes children happy and sunny!

13 years ago, many people who watched this TV series would only pay attention to the story from the perspective of a child. Now, we might as well look at this TV series from the perspective of parents and experts. What enlightenment do Xia Donghai, the cat father, and Liu Mei, the tiger mother, give us in dealing with family relations and children's education? First of all, Tiger Mother Liu Mei plays the role of "red face" in the family. She has a bad temper and solves the problem by force, but she is full of love for her children. Xia Donghai, the cat's father, plays the role of "white face" in the family. Whenever my mother loses her temper and hits someone, my father will always stop it for the first time. Educate children in ideological aspects through educational methods that should be sparse but not blocked.

I have to admit, in my opinion, this family education combination is a perfect state. One is to solve everything by force, and children must absolutely obey and do it. First, communicate and educate children as much as possible to help them realize their mistakes and correct them in time. In this case, children will not become obedient and obedient because the tiger mother education is too violent, and gradually lose their independent thinking ability, dare not express their personal views, lose their independent personality, live in the framework of adult painting, and eventually lose themselves and become problem children who can only obey and do. In this kind of family, children will not become rebellious and uncontrollable, because the cat father is gentle and sensible, and will not lose his temper.

In the whole play, the family is shaped into a warm harbor, and education is obtained through the friction between parents and children, thus affecting the healthy growth of children. Family education is children's first school, and parents are children's first teachers. Through this TV series, I have three experiences to share with you here:

The first one: in children's education, the distribution of parental roles is very important. The combination of tiger mother and cat father can be described as perfect. It can be done in children's education, but it can be loose and tight, and it can be freely put away to ensure that children can't cross the border and get education.

The second point: Family is a warm harbor. In the children's recurring problems, parents solve the problems encountered at that time through communication and analysis. Through the handling of these problems, let children understand some truth and know the importance of parents. Instead of treating the family as a school-style educational place, blindly instilling truth and losing the warmth of the family.

The third point: the advantages and disadvantages of accepting children. Liu Xing is naughty, Xiao Yu loves to play and eat, and Xiao Xue is obedient and smart. Every child has small advantages and disadvantages, and can live in the same family without parents' acceptance and recognition. This reminds me of a sentence. Mothers don't think their children are ugly. Only when parents sincerely accept the advantages and disadvantages of their children can they cultivate a perfect and excellent child.