What does Xu Na mean in the Gregorian calendar? How to understand Xu Na's meaning

1. Generally, you will choose a husband only when there is only one daughter and no son at home. If your daughter gets married, no one will raise her parents, and after her parents die, no one will inherit the family business. In this case, you can only choose one husband.

2. Before accepting a husband, the consent of the main relatives is needed. After choosing a son-in-law, you need to get the consent of the son-in-law and his parents. After that, the son-in-law can go to the woman's house in advance to adapt to life, and further understand the woman's family situation, so that the two sides can establish feelings. When a woman reaches marriageable age and holds an adult ceremony, she can choose an auspicious day to accept her husband.

Before Gu Nian carries out the ceremony of wearing a head and face, the son-in-law needs to go back to his hometown first, and then send it to the woman's home accompanied by his uncle or father, where he will put on the prepared new clothes, a red kidney and a half-cooked leg of lamb.

4. Holding an adult ceremony requires the woman to invite one or two women with children, women and husbands to comb their hair and take the lead in the ceremony. A woman who likes to wear a headdress will give the girl an unused comb, and the conch bone will be ground into a white round bone with eyes and tied to the headdress with a red rope. After that, you can ask the girl to pour a bowl of butter tea for each guest, cover her face with a "zara hat" and stop talking. The woman in the hat will help her sit down in the small tent, and the family will be responsible for entertaining the distinguished guests.