Matters needing attention on engagement day

1. Both parents attended a banquet to discuss their engagement, mainly to determine the amount of the yellow calendar and the man's dowry. The amount of the gift depends on the family conditions of both parties. If both parties are ordinary families (the ordinary family here means that the annual income of both parties is about 6,543,800 RMB), the current standard is about 88,888-654,38+008,000 RMB.

There must be a lot of time before the engagement date. In the meantime, we need to buy what we need for our engagement. Let's start with what men give women. A set of gold ornaments includes earrings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces, a pair of rings and a diamond ring (the price of diamond ring is about 65,438+05,000 pounds now, but in fact, we can also go to the gold shop to buy loose diamonds and choose the style we like. The price varies greatly. It can save about 35%. Note: If you ask your parents first, some parents like to buy 24K pure gold, thinking that it can preserve the value, but young people don't like it. And a pair of sugar, gold and apricots. Ryan's wedding candy comes in different sizes. Except for some friends of the woman's parents, the man is responsible for all the wedding candy that the woman needs, including the red envelope in the wedding candy. (At present, people give 50- 100 red envelopes, depending on the conditions of both parties and the number of wedding candy). What the lady wants to buy is a suit, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (one pair of casual shoes), two sets of casual clothes, a dozen socks, a gold bracelet and a necklace (if the red envelope for the best man is less than 580, you need to buy another shirt for the best man). There are 88 pieces, 98 pieces and 108 pieces for a set of dishes to choose from. Then return the candied apricots sent by the man to the man, and the money received will be refunded according to the economic conditions. If the woman's condition is generally 88888, it will be returned to the man, ranging from 38888 to 58888. The remaining money will be used to buy things for the man and buy a new house in the future. If the woman's condition is good, she will accept all the gift money and buy the man a car.

3. Engagement party: Ryan has two kinds of engagement parties. One is that at noon, the woman's house holds a banquet to entertain the man's parents and best man, and in the evening, the man invites the woman back. The other is that parents, relatives and friends hold a banquet in the hotel to get engaged. Generally, there are many people who choose the latter in urban areas. In the afternoon, the man drove to the woman's house to greet her and her parents, and gave the woman's brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money means that the woman's brother or sister refused to leave without letting her sister get married, and he would only let him go if you gave him money, which is the explanation of the older generation. ) The money for the suitcase is about 1000- 10800 (depending on the man's financial ability). When you arrive at the hotel, give tea to both parents (tea is rarely served now, but all of them bring wine to drink tea), and propose a toast to relatives and friends to witness your love.