How did you spend May 7th?

When calculating the date of the seventh week, if one of the husband and wife is alive, one day should be left, that is, one day (not thirty-five days but thirty-four days); Let's see if the seventh period coincides with the eighth, eighteenth and twenty-eighth days of the lunar calendar. If the day is bad, we should also hide this day, that is, one day in advance, and at the same time take some measures (commonly known as "breaking the law") to eliminate the disaster. Generally speaking, the specific date of May 7th is calculated by the ancestors of Yin and Yang.

Within 7 May, the children of the deceased did not wash their hair, bathe, wash their feet or have their hair cut. If they can't do it, they can pour the washed dirty water into the sieve and miss it. At the same time, you should wear filial shoes and clothes. Nowadays, most of them wear white sports shoes, black arm gauze or heart-shaped filial piety on a black background.

"May 7th" is a grand anniversary, relatives will bring sacrifices, and Dai Xiao will go to the cemetery to pay homage. Many families sent all the necessities in the world-buildings, cars, electrical appliances, servants, etc. -Give it to the dead in May or July and burn it in front of the grave.

If you don't have time to entertain guests at the funeral, treat them with a "whole party" at 5 or 7 o'clock. However, the first "big piece" that should be served at the dinner party should be "white meat" (commonly known as "ice plate") rather than "red meat"; If you must use red meat, you must adjust the serving time (not the first time) and put a white radish on it; Cover the fish eyes with white radish slices when serving fish, which is different from "wedding banquet"

After the May 7th holiday, the following commemorative ceremonies are:100th day, the first anniversary, the second anniversary and the third anniversary, as well as the Spring Festival, Tomb-Sweeping Day and October 1st. These days, children will go to the cemetery to burn paper to pay homage.