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A good family style is: don't care about right or wrong, don't turn over old scores.

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There is such a China wisdom in Caigen Tan:

Family members have had it, and they should not be furious and should not be suicidal. I don't know, so I borrowed something else to allude to it. I didn't miss it today, and I will give an early warning tomorrow. If the spring breeze thaws, if it is harmonious and melting ice, it is a family model.

"Home is everything." The state of a home can usually show people's living conditions.

The more tolerant the family, the more harmonious the family, the more tolerant the lovers, and the deeper the feelings.

If the family is not harmonious, no matter how luxurious it is, it has no appetite. Even if you are rich and powerful, you will not be happy. No one likes the family atmosphere of frowning and blaming each other every day. A warm family is usually tolerant of each other.

Home is a warm harbor, and there is no room for quarreling or haggling. The best family style: discuss major issues, do not dispute right and wrong, and do not turn over old scores.

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Home, what is it?

Home is the safe haven and destination of life, and constant concern is an unforgettable memory. With home, we have the direction of returning home, family, we are practical and secure.

As long as a family gives in to each other and understands each other, they can resolve conflicts and live in harmony.

But sadly, we often like to vent our worst emotions on the people closest to us. Such behavior is not only an uncontrolled evil, but also an extremely selfish performance.

Most people often choose to be cold-faced or lose their temper directly when facing conflicts with their families. But when you use the word "family" to confidently vent the negative energy of the outside world on your family, have you ever thought about their feelings?

Caring for and accommodating family members is simple, but it is still difficult for many people to do it because they lack wisdom in life.

Many people always despise the relationship between families. In fact, what family members need most is mutual understanding and tolerance. Actually, life is not long. If destiny takes a hand is a family, we will be more tolerant of each other and have a happy family together.

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Home is a field. Sow understanding and gain tolerance; Sow understanding and reap harmony.

No one is perfect, please be more tolerant between your family. Never mind, everyone has shortcomings, don't blame.

Because everyone makes mistakes, if you put yourself in others' shoes, you will feel the same way and put yourself in others' shoes. Family members are more considerate and close.

The most taboo between husband and wife is to turn over each other's old accounts, because if you continue to turn over old accounts, the other party will turn the original guilt into resentment and boredom.

Bringing up the past is really tantamount to exposing the scars and sprinkling some salt. Over time, it is a scar in marriage that is difficult to heal. Let bygones be bygones, don't mention it, don't turn over old scores, and don't make trouble without reason.

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Family disharmony will not only affect the feelings of husband and wife, but also affect everyone's life because of the disharmony of atmosphere.

Family harmony, no matter how poor you are, you can get rich. The tolerance of family members, no matter how bitter, has a smile. The best feng shui for a family: discuss big things, forgive small things, do not dispute right and wrong, and do not turn over old scores.

The most important thing in the family is that the family respects each other and discusses major issues, rather than acting arbitrarily. Behind "I want to discuss something with you" is a happy marriage and noble personality self-discipline, which is the highest realm of family life.

There will always be differences when family members get along, and they must fight for right and wrong. I don't know if I won the result, but I lost my feelings and I was unhappy. There is no right or wrong in family affairs, only love, understanding and discord. Don't care about right or wrong, family and talent are everything.

With the warmth of family, a person's life can be happy, which is the real perfection and success.

The greatest happiness of a family is mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, harmony, health and safety.