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It is mainly to determine the yellow calendar and the bride price of the man, depending on the economic conditions of both sides. The gift money received will be returned according to the woman's financial conditions. If the woman has good conditions, she will directly accept all the gift money and buy a car for the man.

Step 2 choose a date

Generally speaking, in Wenzhou, the dates of birth of both men and women should be given to experts in Zhouyi, who will give you several permutations and combinations for you to choose from. It is suggested to choose the engagement date later, because there are many things to prepare or you will be in a hurry. The wedding date can be closer to the engagement date, so that this tired period will not be delayed for too long. Then the engagement date doesn't have to be on weekends or holidays, but the wedding date is best on weekends or holidays.

3. Set the engagement party and wedding banquet.

In Wenzhou, engagement wine and wedding wine are held jointly by men and women, so the number of wine tables should reach at least 20. Therefore, the engagement wine should be ordered three months in advance and the wedding wine should be ordered one year in advance, so as to choose a hotel that everyone is satisfied with.

4. Add the projects they need to participate in.

Man to woman:

(1) A set of gold ornaments: including earrings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces, a pair of rings and a diamond ring.

(2) Happy candy: including a pair of sugar, gold and apricot. The production method of sugar apricot is to dye white sugar red, fry it into thick juice, then press it into pomegranate shape with a mold and cool it. This is a major feature of Wenzhou engagement ceremony, which you can't see anywhere else. Wenzhou's wedding candy is different in size, and the man is responsible for all the wedding candy that the woman needs, including the red envelope in the wedding candy.

(3) Watch: It used to be a watch. Nowadays, because all kinds of electronic products have the function of watches, many people only buy one for their wives.

④ Cash instead of chicken, duck and fish.

If you buy it, the "six kinds" are: two crucian carp plates, two knives and three layers of meat, a yellow grass chicken, a pair of small pig bellies, five catties of longan and ten catties of hibiscus.

The popular "six kinds" are: two Chinese cigarettes, a pair of white wine (Wuliangye or Wuliangye), a pack of longan and litchi.

Woman to man:

(1) When the man got engaged, he wore a suit, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (a pair of casual shoes), two sets of casual clothes, a dozen socks, a gold bracelet and a necklace.

(2) A set of dishes: 88 pieces, 98 pieces and 108 pieces can be purchased as appropriate. Now Wen's stores are mainly concentrated in Jiefang Road and Fei Xia North Road. It is recommended to shop around and compare more, otherwise the price difference between the parties is not small. You must choose a date to send a bowl. Wenzhou people have a saying of "stability", which is the homonym of "bowl" in Wenzhou dialect.

(3) Women's "six kinds" are: citrus, cakes, dates, peanuts, longan and lotus seeds.

Then send a candy apricot sent by the man back to the man. When oranges are immature, pomegranate can be used instead. Pomegranate has many children, which also means early birth.

Step 5 take an engagement photo

Engagement photos are determined according to your own needs. Engagement in Wenzhou can be divided into big orders and small orders. Large orders refer to banquets for all relatives and friends who will attend the wedding, while small orders refer to banquets only for close relatives.

Large orders may need some engagement photos for on-site layout, while small orders don't need too many.

6. engagement day

Parents, relatives and friends held an engagement party in a hotel.

In the afternoon, the man drove to the woman's home to greet her and her parents. After arriving at the hotel, give tea to both parents and toast to friends and relatives to witness your love.