Decryption: See why men long for virginity.

Data Map Men yearn for virgins. They think virgins are pure and loyal to love. For women, virginity is the most secret, soft and beautiful pain in their hearts. Perhaps the concept of "commodity woman" is deeply rooted, and most of the people who stand at the forefront of "moral stance" are men ... In fact, this is a woman's own business, and women have the most say. Men's judgment of virgins is only physiological. According to the old calendar, the wedding night seems to have a big problem, not to mention that marriage can not be maintained, and even the right to exist is not available. According to Taoism, such a woman has no sense of shame if she doesn't commit suicide. Thousands of years of tradition have gradually formed the worship of hymen. This is the most precious gift a woman gives her husband. It is precisely because the society attaches importance to the hymen that women desperately want to hold this last line of defense. However, now, after all, it is the new millennium, and women can finally talk about their problems calmly. Let's look at the following women's own descriptions. Whether men or women, should they have a clearer understanding of this topic? Ms. A: The highest level of love should be expressed through sex. I don't take chastity so seriously. How can I put it? This is my own business. As long as I am responsible for my actions, no one can blame me. When two people's love develops to a certain stage, only sex can be expressed. This may also be one of the reasons why people choose to get married. Ms b: I would never have sex before marriage. Even if I love that person again, I will never have sex with him before marriage. If he breaks up with me because of this, I won't regret it. I thought virginity was the guarantee of a long-term marriage, and it would be humiliating to lose your virginity before marriage. My husband will love me more because I was a virgin when I married him. It doesn't matter whether the person I marry is my favorite person or not, as long as I have a stable family, where are there so many romantic things? Ms. C: Being a virgin will make me feel embarrassed. If a woman is still a virgin in her twenties, I will feel embarrassed for her. This means that few people love her or she is a little abnormal. If there is no sexual experience before marriage, there may be unexpected problems after marriage due to lack of sexual experience. It is even more ridiculous if a woman is still proud of being a virgin when she is 30 years old. That kind of life is so abnormal. It is a woman's right to enjoy sex. Ms. D: It depends. People seldom succeed in love. It is impossible for a person to love only one person in his life. If the man who got my first love is not my husband, it depends. If he doesn't care, that's the best thing, and he can live his life easily. If he cares, I have to marry him, so, I'm sorry, what's the big deal now that technology is so developed? Don't call me stingy, this is to meet the needs of men. Besides, what can I prove him? Ms. e: the chastity of the mind is better than the chastity of the body. If a woman loses her virginity, people have no right to accuse her. Maybe it was an unintentional mistake, maybe it was for true love. The purity of the soul is the most important thing, and men should not be stupid.