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The so-called bad children in the village. When I was a child, I either climbed the wall or climbed the tree to catch birds. Either stealing chickens or pulling out garlic seedlings. I didn't break the shopkeeper's glass. Is to pick apples from Jia Xi. When such a child has no leisure. Active in different parts of the village every day. Like a devil in the world, he almost turned the village upside down. And those honest children are always at home. Be honest at home. People in the village always praise these honest children, who will have a future when they grow up. Seeing those naughty children, I can't help cursing him. Said they must have no future when they grow up.

Wait until ten years later to see these naughty children, these honest children. It's shocking. Those so-called naughty boys took their wives and belts and drove a BMW, all dressed in gold. Looking at it makes people envy. And those children who make people feel promising. On holidays, a person walks home alone with a bag in one hand. Seeing this scene, I can't help sighing. Nature makes people! A baby from the same world. Things are very different now. It's incredible.

Therefore, people can't judge by appearances, and the sea water can't be measured. Never comment on the unknown. The most difficult thing to estimate is people's future and destiny. The so-called bad boy in everyone's heart. It is often those who are smart and lively. Unwilling to lag behind. A person who is brave in innovation. Therefore, after they enter the society, they are often proactive and brave in innovation. Be able to surpass yourself and often succeed. And those so-called good children, promising children. After people enter the society, they are often timid in doing things, afraid to innovate boldly, and it is difficult to succeed. The end result is that there should be a promise but there is no promise, and those who have no promise have a promise.

If you have ambition, you must marry a daughter-in-law. And those honest children. In the present society. No competitive advantage. Of course, you won't be favored by girls. Being single is inevitable. Therefore, it is better to be naughty when children are young. You can marry a daughter-in-law when you grow up.

There is a saying in the countryside that "men are not bad, women don't love them", which is very realistic!

Man, you should live with temperament, speak sweet words, sweet words. What language do you need to master a woman's heart? What action can be taken to make him happy? Make her smile, every detail, every movement, every sentence, so that those women can't forget, in order to win women's love, in his heart, you belong to them.

Bad boys are smart, have brains, earn money, get ahead, get rich, have a rhythm of life, dress up and enjoy life, so they can all win women's happiness. In women's hearts, we must find such men, bad boys, no one to bully, happiness and security in women's hearts! So bad children can marry wives.

The so-called honest people are not smart enough to speak sensitively. If they don't agree with each other, they will easily offend people, have a straightforward temper and don't turn their heads. Young dogs pull cows straight, they can't get along in society, they won't enjoy life, they will please women, they will talk sweet words, they will take the initiative to pursue others, they will dress themselves up, they will play around and they will not be hygienic. People are very popular. Which other woman likes him? So the more honest people are, the more single they are.

Almost all the "bad boys" in the village have married daughters-in-law and are honestly single. This is another strange phenomenon in rural areas in recent years. In 1950s and 1960s, poor peasants were popular all over the country. At that time, the poorer the more glorious. Poor middle peasants are close relatives. It seems that it is not difficult to marry a wife. If Hong Miao is selfless, it will attract the attention of young girls! Therefore, the "bad boys" more than 40 years ago were not so unscrupulous and confident as they are now, regardless of "the black sheep of poor peasants and middle peasants!" Or "the land is rich, and those sons of bitches are evil!" " If you don't be a man with your tail between your legs, you will be knocked down and set foot on thousands of feet, and you will never turn over! !

Unfortunately, "the wind and water turn!" Times have changed. Nowadays, wussy is synonymous with "incompetence", otherwise it is "cowardice"! No girl likes this type of man! Without the backing of Laozi's wealth, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law honestly. Even if you do your best, it is a question mark whether your parents will help you marry the bride to bed! My uncle's eldest son, weak in character and plain in appearance, is usually honest and clever, and has never caused any trouble to his parents at home. At the age of 36, I still can't get a wife. My uncle's family is rich in business, so I spent a lot of money to "buy" an aspect of our village. As a result, just one month after they got married, they infighting and ran away. Fortunately, the daughter-in-law is not good, and the in-laws are good. She said, "She can't afford to get married even if she pays a bride price of 50,000 yuan to build a house for her son. Even if her daughter dies, she will be a hot ghost in your family. " She drove her daughter back. More than twenty years have passed, my uncle has passed away and my children have gone to college. My honest cousin has parted ways with his wife! Let people "jump out of the fire pit" and find true love.

The reference to "bad boy" here means that it is not a "heinous crime". The villagers often say: naughty dolls are promising! A face of innocence and timidity is doomed to be difficult to achieve great things! Bad children not only get married and have children, but also "get married and divorce" and "get married after divorce!" Parents are too tired to take care of their children at home, but there is no reason for bad children to "leave incense everywhere"! ! Who knows that girls nowadays like this kind of "stuff"?

In rural areas, there are quite a few "bookworms" who are "honest" now. Don't blame girls for choosing spouses, and you don't have to "learn from others" to imitate "bad boys". To win the hearts of girls, it is actually very simple: get out of the strange circle and let people know that you are not different and your brain is really not stupid! Everything else is fate, good luck to everyone!

Ha ha! Let's talk about the experience of a handsome guy in our village playing bachelor. He looks really speechless, with white skin and big eyes, but why can't he find a wife? To put it bluntly, it is too honest and true!

Someone introduced him to an object, and the girl was satisfied with him, but the problem was that they had been together for a long time, and the boy didn't have the courage to speak, so he took the initiative to ask the girl for a contact information. Girls think boys are bored and depressed.

The result was asked by the matchmaker! Because he didn't have the courage to ask for it, the matchmaker specially asked the contact information of the girl to come over to the boy. As a result, after the boys made friends, they had nothing left, saying that they didn't know what to talk to girls. Girls were interested in boys, so they took the initiative to chat several times, but every time the chat content made people feel too boring, and finally they chose to marry someone else.

There are several pictures of boys in the back, which are very good at first, but then they are all gone, so they are dangling, and in a blink of an eye, they are almost in the fourth grade. It was easy to find a family member and invite a media. They introduced a post-90s generation, but their matchmaker didn't have the courage to confess the boy's age to her, only that he was in his thirties, and the matchmaker didn't introduce him in detail.

So the matchmaker repeatedly told me not to reveal my real age before the time is ripe, undergraduate! They get along well, and the girl is cheerful, which can drive the atmosphere between them to some extent. I thought there would be an afterplay. We can wait for candy!

As a result, people accidentally confided to the girl and told her her real age. The reason is that he thinks he gets along well with that girl and is embarrassed to lie to her. He thought the girl would accept it, but she didn't expect her parents to agree! The girl is just in her early twenties, and you will be forty in the blink of an eye! Say what also don't let the boy old cow eat tender grass, eventually ended in failure.

Matchmaker that call a gas! I don't want to introduce the guy to anything, so! At this moment, the boy is over forty and still single. No one wants to tell him that he is gone!

This is a very interesting question. Although it is not a common phenomenon, there are many people. Let me give you an example first.

Neighbor Er Ya is a very delicate girl. At the age of 20, my aunt introduced her to an object. The man's family condition is very good, and the boy is not too handsome or too ugly. More importantly, this boy is skilled and honest. The two met several times and got engaged.

However, just a week before the wedding, Er Ya found her aunt and suddenly offered to break off her marriage. She asked her why. She said: that man is like a log, not romantic at all. Menstruation, angry and funny, said, Er Ya, tell me something about romance. Can romance be eaten as food? Er Ya said: Being with him has no benefits at all. How can you live with him all your life? Her aunt said, where have you been? Now everything is ready, and relatives have taken it. You mean it's over? Two ya said, don't say not married, is married, not suitable for divorce. Her aunt said, you have to say it yourself!

Er Ya left the things that the man bought and the money he gave at her aunt's house, turned around and left. I was so angry that her aunt swore and the second girl left without looking back.

A month later, Er Ya told her parents that she was going to marry a man in the village. That man is five or six years older than her. His mother died early, his father worked outside for many years, and the boy didn't have a proper job. Her parents didn't agree, so Er Ya eloped with this man. A few months later, Er Ya gave birth to a girl, and the family of three came back to recognize their relatives. Raw rice has been cooked, and parents are at a loss.

After the marriage, Er Ya's father-in-law fell ill. Not only can he not go out to work, but he also has to pay for medical treatment. Her husband didn't earn enough money for himself. Two ya with children, also want to farm, also want to work nearby. Her aunt asked, Er Ya, do you regret it? Two ya said, there is nothing to regret, I have no fate with him.

The subject asked, "bad children" almost all married daughters-in-law, but honest ones were single. Why? I think that the so-called "bad boys" are almost all informal and eloquent people. They have high emotional intelligence, are good at trying to figure out people's psychology, and also like their hobbies and are easy-going. Under the same conditions, they are more active and considerate. Honest people are generally slow and not good at communicating with others. Their advantages are invisible to others, but their shortcomings are exposed. therefore

In love, they are no match for those "bad boys". This is probably one of the reasons.

Almost all the "bad children" in the village have married daughters-in-law, but they are honest and single. What is the reason?

First of all, what's the difference between a' bad boy' and an honest boy? My point is:

It is related to family genes, parents' IQ and accomplishment, family education, personality, and making friends! Just like a family with a scholarly family background, people come and go, and people come and go are educated people. Influenced by culture, the children of powerful people are well informed about new things in society. However, a family that produces ordinary people with its neighbors only accepts part of the knowledge of farmland and work. Different people touch them and hear different voices. Of course, their knowledge is different. They are well-informed, courageous and splash.

Second, it is related to the child's IQ. Children who know quotient are sensitive to new things, have strong memory, accept new things and acquire new knowledge quickly, have strong curiosity and update their knowledge quickly, while children who know quotient are slow to respond and accept and have relatively weak knowledge.

Third, it is related to the child's personality. Children are naturally naughty, want to move more, have the childlike innocence of kings, dare to take risks and challenges, be brave and aggressive, often bully their peers, be complained by neighbors' parents, and be reprimanded by their fathers. He is also convinced that this kind of child is smart, has strong thinking ability, loves to play with excitement, and the child is willing to play with him.

As the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots. After entering adulthood, naughty young people like this are good teaching materials as long as they are correctly guided. If they are not careful, they can easily go astray. Therefore, parents must care about their children's growth, studies and trends, and don't associate with gangsters in society to prevent their children from going astray.

The so-called "bad boy" is lively and active, good at expressing himself, positive and enterprising, and brave in challenges. There is no shame in society. "Men are not bad and women don't love them", so "bad boys" are easy to get girls' attention and find the other half, while good boys find girlfriends instead. That's why! ! !

Humble opinion! ! ! Welcome to comment! Thank you! !

What you said is wrong! !

There are not many "bad children" in the village. The income of these families is relatively stable and can only be regarded as the middle level. Their children are willing to go out to work in big cities, and the income of more than 60 thousand a year is not a problem I don't talk about the amount of bride price here, but only give it to the woman's family moderately, so that it is easier for boys to get married.

Poor men and women are willing to get married. These boys, whose parents died young, had no schooling, no employment expertise and no "noble people" to guide and help him. Their economic income is low and their quality of life is not high. No girl wants to marry a poor man.

(3) Don't get married with special personality. Some boys met on the first blind date and liked it very much, but girls didn't like him. It is really "predestined relationship". None of the girls I met on blind date liked it. As a result, I gave up the idea of getting married

There are many men and women left. There are "bachelors" and "leftover women" in rural areas, and the lack of psychological guidance is one of the great reasons. Freedom of love and marriage is no longer appropriate and should be listed as a "civic obligation" for men and women to get married and have children.

So many experts in China should come out and take two steps to tell everyone how to solve the bachelor problem.

Indeed, all the "bad children" in the village have married daughters-in-law, but they are honest and single. This is reality, and the subject is quite right.

Xiao An, the son of the neighbor Lao An, is 30 years old and has not married yet. He is so anxious that Lao An can't sleep at night. He tried every means, entrusted many matchmakers and made many blind dates, one with a yellow one and two with a pair of yellow ones. It's really urgent.

What kind of person is Ann? Ann is not handsome, but she is not bad, but she is too honest and foolish and shy. She was afraid to look up at the big girl, blushing and stuttering, and didn't know what to say or do. In rural dialect, Ann is an honest pimple.

Xiao An is an expert who makes a living by running time. He doesn't smoke, drink, gamble, engage in prostitution or steal. In the eyes of the villagers, Xiao An is a "five good" man with a good influence in the village and a good reputation.

Xiao An doesn't spend money indiscriminately, knows how to honor his parents, goes out to work every year, and comes back to give all the money to his parents, buy them clothes and eat and drink. Parents are happy and always praise their children for being sensible and filial.

However, such a kind, filial, sensible and obedient child is quite unattractive, and no girl has a crush on him. Is it too good for Ann? Maybe. Isn't Ann bad enough? It is also possible.

Men are not bad, women don't love them. This sentence is true and practical in Xiao 'an. It turns out that those "bad men" are very popular with women, but those "good men" women don't like them. Why? Next, let's see what kind of people are "good men" and "bad men".

To put it bluntly, a "good man" is an honest man. This kind of man is honest, introverted, unable to speak, shy and very shy. When he saw a woman, his heart beat faster and his face flushed. He is ashamed to look up, has no sweet words, doesn't understand women's amorous feelings, won't please women, and doesn't like talking back and forth with women. This kind of man is too serious and orthodox, and lacks the methods and skills to fall in love with women. There is no flattery, only a kind and honest heart. This kind of man can't keep up with the development of the times and has been eliminated by the times. Women don't like this kind of man, and it is inevitable that honest people can't get a wife.

The "bad guys" here are not bad guys who are morally corrupt and do bad things, but smart, articulate, sweet-talking, have it both ways and resourceful men. Such men are bold and cautious, sweet-tongued, sweet-tongued, understand women's hearts, vote for women's hobbies and speak well according to women's temperament.

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This phenomenon is very common in rural areas.

People often say: "Men are not bad, women don't love them", and bad children are more likely to find partners. It may also be that honest children are not good at expressing themselves. Some boys are naturally shy and blush when talking to girls. If boys are not very good, it is difficult to catch up with girls by this alone.

Nowadays, there are more men than women. Whoever can express himself and actively pursue girls will have a chance to find someone. If you don't have this ability, you can only hope to find someone through blind date. At present, most rural girls either work in cities or go to school in cities. If they meet a boy who pursues her and all the conditions are good, they will fall in love. Do honest boys still have a chance?

In 20 13, we got a female college student, short and plain. At that time, a production director in our field had no object. The director wants to fix two people up and often arranges them to work together. Our director is also willing to spend money and buy a lot of things for the girl. Because he is not good at expression, he didn't say a few words to the girl. The girl won't talk to him either.

Girls often chat with my other half. My partner is also a little boy, in his twenties. He is from Sichuan and has a glib tongue. Later, although there was no place to be an object, it was not an ordinary colleague relationship to look at that enthusiasm.

In fact, honest children are very reliable. Although there is no rhetoric, they are solid and capable. After marriage, they can devote themselves wholeheartedly to the family. It should be a good choice for girls to find such a boyfriend.

Almost all the "bad children" in the village have married daughters-in-law, but they are all honest and single. Why? After that sentence, men are not bad and women don't love them.

My home is in the countryside, and I have the most say in this issue. Our village is a big village with a population of 18000. Is the seat of the town government, all aspects of the conditions can be said to be superior to the surrounding small villages. However, there are one or two hundred young people over thirty in our village.

However, there is a strange family. Those "bad children" who are out of place in the eyes of the old people have taken their beautiful women home early, and some even changed them several times. And those honest children in the mouth of the old people just can't find a wife, and their parents are sad and sigh all day.

Times have changed. Fifty years later, people's ideas have been turned upside down. Fifty years ago, someone's daughter looked for her husband's family, and they all asked someone to ask if the young man was honest. Who wants to marry his daughter to those naughty boys who are crazy all day? Isn't that pushing a girl into a fire pit?

Now the almanac doesn't work, men are not bad, women don't love it, and slutty, lazy and greedy women have become a hot potato. Actually, the girls don't want to see it. The world has really changed, getting rich by cheating and content to be poor to death. It serves you right that the honest children are single and blame them for being born at the wrong time!