Message from parents of children in the rebellious period of youth

Children enter the rebellious period of youth, eager for independence, no longer say anything to their parents, have their own little secrets, and when they disagree with their parents, they will choose to express their opposition through language or behavior.

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At this time, if parents communicate with their children in an inappropriate way, it is easy to misunderstand, and children are reluctant to listen to their parents seriously. How to communicate with adolescent children, it is suggested to start from the following aspects.

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Put down your parents' "airs" and try to change your identity and treat yourself as a friend of your children instead of asking them to do this and that. For example, communicate with him in a joking tone: "There seems to be something on my mind recently, just right. Why don't we exchange and solve it? "

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Respect children, pay attention to their opinions, and discuss with them when something happens, so that they feel treated equally and respected. When reasoning with children, be careful not to preach: "I told you so" and "you should do so". We might as well use the stories and things we have experienced to guide us, which is easier to understand.

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Don't ask questions about children, ask for privacy. You need to keep a certain distance from him, make him feel free and reduce his rebellious attitude towards you. In this way, children will treat you as a friend, and will be more willing to share their views with you and listen to your opinions, so that you will guide your children more smoothly.

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Pay attention to cultivating children's ability to judge right and wrong and moral concepts. You might as well use your free time before or after meals to share some news you saw that day with your children and let them express their views. This will help you understand their ideas and correct some wrong views in time. In addition, when children enter the rebellious period, it is easy to have conflicts with their parents because of some trivial matters. Parents should pay attention to controlling their emotions and not be led by negative emotions. This will only make parents and children feel uncomfortable. Usually, parents should pay attention to their psychological state, do more activities to relieve stress and relax themselves, and keep a positive and optimistic attitude. In this way, when educating children, we can calmly deal with all problems and bring positive energy to children.