Babies' birthdays should follow the yellow calendar.

Dear mom and dad, do you still remember how you spent your birthday when you were young?

At that time, were you full of expectations for your birthday?

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At that time, the material may not be very rich, but the memory of birthday is so simple but so warm.

Today's living conditions are better, and people's material life has become more abundant. Parents will also send cakes and gifts on their children's birthdays, or realize their children's wishes. Of course, the most important thing is to let your children feel the most special love from their parents.

However, Yaya mother often hears some arguments about whether to celebrate her child's birthday.

So, should I give my child a birthday?

Yaya's mother thinks that birthday is a small footprint on the road of children's growth, which is happy and meaningful. Whether we have the conditions or not, we should try our best to make time for our children's birthdays and let them experience the warmth of the family.

The child grew up too fast. When we were caught off guard, he separated from maternal love and gradually became a more independent individual. What we can do is to give them more happiness and touch when they belong to us completely, to make their childhood more colorful and their memories more warm and loving.

Moreover, it's not a bad habit to celebrate a child's birthday, nor does it mean to praise the child to the sky. On the contrary, it gives children a sense of growing ceremony, a sense of pride that is valued by parents, and a sense of reward that is not easily understood by parents. Although the purpose we pay is not to gain, we also expect to cultivate a grateful child.

Similarly, on the issue of birthday, parents will have differences, that is, whether the birthday date is based on the lunar calendar or the solar calendar.

Yayama's best friend is a novice mother, and her daughter will be 1 year old this year. Grandparents dote on their granddaughter very much, and they are determined to hold a grand birthday party for their granddaughter to be celebrated by relatives and friends.

The two old people think that since the child is one year old, it is of course necessary to celebrate the Lunar Birthday. After all, the traditional thinking of the older generation thinks that the lunar birthday is the official birthday.

However, my best friend doesn't think so. She thinks the child's birthday is a day of her own suffering. She remembered that it was obviously a day in the solar calendar. Why did she let her children celebrate the Lunar New Year's birthday?

So, what's a suitable birthday?

In the education of children, young parents always abandon the old ideas of the past and pursue new thoughts, thinking that the solar calendar is the best. The old man doesn't think so, and insists that the lunar birthday is more meaningful, so let's discuss this problem.

From the point of view of meaning and habit, it is meaningful to celebrate the Lunar New Year.

The lunar calendar is also called the lunar calendar, and our annual traditional festivals are also based on the lunar calendar. From the ups and downs of the moon, we can feel the mystery of natural science, which is also an expression of our traditional culture in China.

Therefore, if we prefer China's traditional culture in family education, we can choose to celebrate our birthdays in the Lunar New Year, or we can take our children to know more about traditional national culture and let them feel the charm of traditional culture.

From a practical point of view, the solar calendar is more convenient.

In fact, from a practical point of view, birthdays in the solar calendar will be more convenient than those in the lunar calendar. When we fill in personal information, it is often the date of the solar calendar, and the date on the ID card is also the solar calendar.

There are also some merchants who will choose the date of the solar calendar for discounts and concessions, so it is often more practical to give children a birthday.

Which birthday is good for children?

Which birthday is good for Eva?

In the final analysis, parents want their children to be happy, and Eva is the protagonist of this birthday, so no matter which birthday the child wants, parents should fully support it.

So parents should not argue with each other, let the children decide for themselves, and having a happy child is the most perfect answer!

Yaya's mother thinks it is more meaningful to tell the baby that on the day he was born, thanks to her hard work, the children learned to be grateful, grateful for life, and grateful for their parents' efforts and efforts, didn't they?

With your sincerity and love, carefully planning an unforgettable birthday for your child every year will not only bring good childhood memories to your child, but also allow you to harvest a different child. Because family love has the most important and far-reaching influence on children's growth,

Today's topic: Is your child's birthday a lunar calendar or a solar calendar?

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