The old yellow calendar is the lunar calendar for men and women.

Lao Huangli has been in love with eight-character marriage for five years. He should be old enough to get married, but his parents' so-called "eight characters" didn't agree, which prevented the marriage.

Nowadays, the development of informatization makes our life more scientific and effective, but China's deep-rooted thoughts still exist.

In ancient times, thoughts were more serious, and almost every household would calculate the eight characters and marriage. But since the development of China, these things have been passed down to this day, which means that existence is reasonable.

Of course, this does not mean that we should follow and agree with these views, but we cannot oppose their existence or refute their views.

Because metaphysics is actually a serious but not rigorous subject, it is not rigorous because its content can not reach an inevitable result like mathematics and chemistry.

It is serious because its authenticity is quite amazing in many aspects, such as feng shui, physiognomy, eight characters and so on. What's more, we can't explore its laws.

Many parents will find the so-called "constellation" to calculate their horoscopes before their two children get married, and use the horoscopes to decide whether they are suitable or not.

Can the so-called eight-character disagreement really be a fatal factor in unhappy marriage?

If you give up the person you love more because of the differences between your parents, I believe you will regret it.

So what should we do?

1, psychological problems

You believe, you don't believe, you don't believe, this is the same as whether there is a god in the world.

If you insist on getting married despite your parents' strong opposition, you must not be influenced by psychology.

In the parents' view, if you insist on getting married, all the quarrels, quarrels, unsatisfactory careers and disobedience of children after marriage will be attributed to the incompatibility of the two of you, which will lead to these problems.

If you tell your parents about the misfortune of your married life and your complaints, it will definitely bring you parents' accusations and endless nagging.

At this time, you should love each other more and let your family see your happiness and happiness.

2. Analyze the root cause

Not everyone has certain knowledge and experience, but many people just bluff under the banner of fraud, and few people can really analyze the mystery of the eight-character metaphysics.

Be sure to find out where your parents are and meet this person in person. If you finally choose to go together, you must have these things, analyze them calmly and rationally, and remember not to go to your parents and make noise, which will only make your parents more and more opposed.

Step 3 be firm

If you only have a dubious idea in your heart, the final result will definitely be defeated by your parents. At first, you didn't believe the pressure from the older generation, but in the end, you heard more and more, which made you suspicious and began to believe these things.

4. Know how to deal with it

Since parents believe in these things, they must have them. As the saying goes, if there are difficulties, there are solutions. The so-called eight-character incompatibility, then there must be eight-character incompatibility.

Knowing Zhou Xuan will not only reassure your parents, but also save you from falling into a quarrel.

Believe or not, it's all between you, and love or not is all between your choices.

But please don't choose to compromise when you love more.

The above is related to the eight-character marriage in the old yellow calendar, and it is about the sharing of marriage. After reading the lunar calendar, I hope this will help everyone!