If your wife wants the child to have her surname, can you accept it?

If my wife suggests that the child take her surname, I will agree. In the past, people were influenced by feudal customs, and their children took their father's surname. Now with the development of the times, people's ideological consciousness has also improved, and it is not very important to see whose surname their children take.

Surname is actually a symbol representing a person.

In feudal society, people's family concept is very strong, and the consciousness of carrying on the family line is quite strong. Children have to take their father's surname, and the burden on the father's shoulders is also very heavy, which has a great influence on children. It's my father's fault to raise and not teach. Mothers generally do housework at home, without their own income and right to speak. Her husband's words are like orders, thinking that it is normal and justified for children to take their father's surname. Therefore, for no special reason, they won't ask to take their surnames.

It's different now. In general families, both men and women have jobs, and the awareness of equality between men and women has also increased. They will discuss things and ask each other's opinions first if they have ideas. Male chauvinism has weakened and their feminist consciousness has improved. Therefore, when the woman proposes to let the child take her surname for some reason, the man will basically agree.

In fact, I don't think it matters whether the child takes the father's surname or the mother's surname. What is important is how to improve the relationship between family members, how to cultivate and raise children, and how to give them a warm environment.

What a bad reputation, what family background is questioned, as long as you are confident enough, the rest are just clouds, meaningless, you don't know how to ask for it. What should I do if I get divorced and change someone else's surname?

Nothing bothers you more than the following points:

1. customs, traditional ideas, family inheritance. 2. Public opinion pressure, other people's opinions, gossip. 3. Family conflicts, worrying about children's mental health and personality growth. 4. When getting married, the bride price problem is not balanced and good. I am afraid that if I give in, I will push my luck and lose my rights and status in the family.

In fact, it is the crystallization of their love. As long as you are open-minded and reasonable, the relationship between the two families is harmonious and intimate, and the husband and wife are congenial, this is nothing! The key point is not to affect the healthy growth of children.