How to ask a girl out

Contact first and ask if you are free. If you want to ask a girl out, you must first get the girl's contact information, preferably the phone number, because some social software will not be known if it is ignored directly. According to the other person's hobby, it is better to tell her some interesting topics when asking a girl out, so that it is more likely to ask her out. Please eat. Generally speaking, it is a good excuse to invite a girl out to dinner, so if you want to invite a girl out to dinner, you'd better invite her out to dinner according to her taste. Watching movies is not only a good entertainment to kill time, but also many girls will like it, so it is also good to make an appointment to watch movies. Going to amusement parks, many girls are naive, so if you want to date a girl who is more lively, it's not bad to go to the movies. Make a good plan, no matter which way you choose, you should make a good plan in advance, so that you won't be embarrassed and feel full when you get along. How to ask a girl out 2 Pay attention to the timing of the invitation, which is mainly divided into the following three points: The first point is that when you chat with a woman, the more you chat, the more interested you are, especially when you talk about some common topics, and you feel that the atmosphere between the two sides is getting higher and higher, then you can throw an invitation. For example, "listening to you feels that you are also a very interesting person." You are free tomorrow night, or let's go out for a drink. " Talk for a few minutes after the invitation, and then end the conversation when both sides are in full swing. The second is: when you talk about common interests, invite "By the way, can you play board games?" "Yes, but it's rare now. When I was studying, I often played the Three Kingdoms Kill with my friends. " "That's good. My friends and I hold a board game party once a week. If we are free on weekends, we can go out and play board games together. " When both parties talk about their common interests, you can send out invitations related to this interest. The third way is to invite a beautiful girl one day in advance, and someone will ask her out on Saturday and Sunday, so if you want to invite her, you'd better make an appointment the night before the appointment. For example, if you want to invite your target out for dinner on Saturday, you'd better call her on Friday night. In this way, if someone asks her out again, she will usually refuse her. Give her a reason to come out. Basic elements of invitation: give the other party a good reason. Because most women are reserved, even if they are interested in you, they need a reasonable reason to date you. "I think XX's drinks are delicious. Let's go and have a look after work. " "There is a snack bar on XX Road, which has a good reputation. Let me take you to eat. " "Where is your favorite XXX? I am very interested. Take me to see it. " "It's not good to stay at home on weekends. Brother takes you to fight monsters! " "Computer radiation is very big, which is not good for the skin. There is an exhibition in the red brick factory. I'll take you to cultivate it. " You can even say, "It's boring to stay at home. Let's leave now. I'll take you to Guo Shuai. " When inviting, don't add "How about it?" "Is that okay?" "okay?" "Is that okay?" Just tell her in a declarative tone. When inviting, use this confident tone, don't speak too fast and don't be too vague. She can feel it on the other end of the phone. This feeling of being controlled makes women feel safe. If she says she is not available, it doesn't matter. Politely say "maybe next time" or "have fun" and make an appointment for another time. If you are in a bad mood, you may pester the girl: "I'm not free today, so are you free tomorrow?" "Well, when are you free?" "When are you free on Sunday evening?" This kind of questioning is completely unnecessary. Your relationship with her is just a preliminary understanding. You should keep yourself "unintentional", otherwise she will be more vigilant. You should send such a message, don't date her, it's no big deal, you won't rest assured. How to ask a girl out 3 1? Find a good reason. If a woman doesn't know a man well, she won't easily agree to go out with him. Therefore, if you want to ask a girl out in WeChat chat, you must find a good reason in advance, such as asking her for help, or saying that you want to buy some gifts for your mother, and you won't choose, and invite her to help and give some advice. Don't say, "I accidentally bought an extra movie ticket, and it will be wasted if you don't come." 2. "Avatar" If you have just known this beautiful woman for a long time, you should pay attention to your avatar first. When neither side has released photos, if your head is handsome and sunny, it will leave a good impression on women. If your avatar is an expression pack, save it. Your first impression is an idiot A good avatar can help you ask a woman out. 3. Look at beautiful women step by step. Don't just say, "Are you free tomorrow? Let's go out to play together ",please, I don't know you very well. Generally, in the face of this situation, women will directly delete you and blacken you, and some women who want to cheat money will continue to chat with you, so take your time and talk about your feelings first. Don't pretend to want to ask a girl out. First of all, don't be so obvious on WeChat, so that women can know your intentions at a glance. It is easy to leave a bad impression on women. If you like a girl, you can talk to her about something else first. If both parties have certain hobbies, you can follow the trend and say, "We have a chance to play together." Whether it is true or false, women will generally agree. 5. Update a meaningful circle of friends. If the girl you meet is cold to you and likes to ignore what you say, her attitude is hot and cold, and she doesn't give you an accurate attitude when you ask her out to play, then the girl is either not interested in you or considering you. During this time, you can update your circle of friends and take some photos of travel, food and your specialties. If a woman has your WeChat, she can definitely see it from here. 6. Don't be modest. You are asking a girl out, but this is what you want. Don't make it look like you are begging her. Keep an upright attitude. If you want to ask when she will be free, don't ask directly. You can turn a corner appropriately: "Your job is the weekend, that's easy." Asking a girl how old she is can also become asking, "You should be over 20 years old and look so young."