Yangmei Town's custom of marrying women in Chongyi County, Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province

I'm a local. The girl married here will get a red envelope, about 4000 yuan, when she goes to the woman's house for the first time, including her parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters and other close relatives. When you set the wedding date for the second time, you should wrap a red envelope, ranging from 20 thousand to 40 thousand, depending on your own financial ability and her family's attitude. There are many relatives who attend the engagement. The banquet on this day costs 3000 yuan, usually four to six tables. In addition, when the woman marries her daughter, the man is responsible for the banquet money at home or in the store. The woman should report the number of tables for the banquet, for example, 30 tables and 50 tables, and then a table costs 400 to 600 yuan, where it is about 30,000 to 40,000. In addition, I have to give my girlfriend's mother a big red envelope ranging from 6000 to 10000. This is called giving a red envelope to repay a debt of gratitude. There are also large items such as color TV refrigerators sent by the woman's family, all of which are paid by the man and bought by the woman at home. On the wedding day, the woman gave this about 8,000 yuan. I also want to buy a gold ring, a gold necklace and gold earrings for your wife, which is the three gold mentioned by the above person, about 6000 yuan. Besides, you must prepare 50 tables for your party at home. This money depends on whether you want to get high-end or ordinary, about 30 thousand. If the woman asks you to buy a car or a house, you can do it yourself.

If you are a foreigner, it is very likely that the number said by the woman's parents is 50,000 to 60,000. Some parents also want a lot of money, while some sensible parents don't. Take people away. You don't have to go to other programs.

You can give 180 thousand if you have money.

As long as you have money, you can't do without it.

In short, you brought up your daughter, so you have to show it anyway.