What do you think of parents' negative energy?

First of all, my parents are a couple full of negative energy, and they can't see a little beauty in their daily life. In their world, they just quarreled and complained, and I was once greatly influenced. Next, I'll tell you the secret I discovered later.

1. When the lifestyle of negative energy lasts too long, it is difficult for us to fundamentally change these two people, and they will attack us from time to time.

2. Their negative energy affects their cognition and judgment, so the only way to solve this negative energy is to find an authoritative person to instill faith in them and improve their cognition for a long time.

3. Bring them into a positive circle and environment, and let them change their attitude towards life under the influence of the environment and people around them.

4. It is also selfish to stay away from them and reduce the influence of negative energy emotions on our growth and cognitive obstacles.

Of course, there are other ways, so I won't go into details here.

Thank you!

Hello, I'm muxi Deere, and I'm glad to answer your question.

How to treat the negative energy of parents?

First of all, talk about negative energy. Everyone is a product of the environment, and in a positive environment, people are more susceptible to positive influences. On the other hand, negative environment is easy to bring negative effects to people. In ancient times, there was a story of "Meng Mu's Three Movements", which shows how important a good environment is to people's growth and physical and mental health.

Try to choose a positive environment when you can choose.

Second, everyone has negative energy, no matter who it is. Parents are also ordinary people. When I was a child, in the eyes of every child, parents were almost gods. With our growth and maturity, we have accumulated more and more knowledge, broadened our horizons, and gradually acquired the ability to think independently, as well as our personal outlook on life, world and values. However, our parents are aging in the years, which is followed by their outdated concepts and behaviors. These may make a big difference between yourself and your parents. There will inevitably be negative people among peers. Parents are getting older and their lives are complicated, which is likely to lead to their stress not being released in a good way and way, and accumulating unconsciously, perhaps even without knowing it.

Third, guard your heart and establish a good boundary with others. Everyone can only change himself and be responsible for his own life. That is, parents, their negative energy is also their business. Parents' positivity will affect children, and parents' negativity will be transmitted to children invisibly. Parents are the closest people and the people who get along most frequently. Indeed, their state will affect themselves. However, being able to influence our mood and state does not mean that they can decide our mood and state.

Everything is up to me. No one can influence your own life unless you agree.

Parents are family members, but parents are not people who can control, dominate and decide our state. Everyone is an independent individual, defining the boundary with the outside world and being the real master of his own life.

When I saw your question, I thought of my mother. Why do you say that? Because when I was young, my mother was always attacked by words, showing negative energy. So I was not confident since I was a child. Because everything you do is wrong, and it is wrong not to do it. For a long time, simply don't say, don't do, the result can be imagined. In my family, my mother is simply a source of negative energy, and her language is particularly violent. Anyway, from a young age, if you don't encourage it, it will be a blow and irony. That sounds horrific. My brother and I didn't want to stay in our own home since we were young. We like to go to my uncle's house to play, because we feel relaxed outside and don't have to worry about being scolded suddenly. Now that we are married, although we don't scold us, we still dare not go back. I'm afraid that if I don't do something that makes my mother move, people will say it. Although I don't scold, I sometimes speak with thorns. After marriage, I didn't know how important words and deeds are in the role of mother at home until I had children.

Parents' negative energy should be viewed from different angles. First of all, from the child's point of view: some parents have watched their children grow up since childhood, and gradually feel that their parents are always turning over old calendar books, unable to keep up with the pace of the times, and even hinder their children's progress, which has become negative energy. Later, from the perspective of parents, they all talked about personal experience and understanding, and some may be lessons from blood and tears, often out of love, for fear that you will be cheated. Finally, from the bystander's point of view: poor people carry on the family line, fearing that their children will "not listen to the old people and suffer in front of them!" It is undeniable that some views of the elderly may be outdated, but they are by no means negative energy. From the child's point of view, use what is useful and listen to what is useless. The last thing to say is that several generations are very similar, and young people will feel that the previous generation is repetitive. When we are old, we will follow in the footsteps of our parents and talk too much for fear that our children will suffer. By then, your children may think the same way as you do now.

The negative energy of the so-called emotional counselor in Cameroon is physically negative. Now people color it to represent a kind of emotion and behavior, which refers to some people with bad mentality, such as jealous of others, framing others, comparing others, laughing at others, selfish and greedy, and so on. These are all manifestations of negative energy. As for parents who occasionally say something about cats and dogs in front of you, it is not negative energy. It can only be said that your parents reminded you to be vigilant and stay away from cats and dogs. From the parents' point of view, they think Tom is wrong and Harry is wrong, so they complain in front of you. This can only be regarded as a kind of stress release in life. Parents usually show positive things in front of their children.

This depends on parents' emotions in many ways, not all negative energy.

Children can see that the negative energy of parents is generally reflected in two aspects, one is the daily getting along between parents, the other is the communication with children and the education in study and life.

Everyone's emotional origin comes from the dribs and drabs of life, and adults have difficulties in their lives that children can't imagine. The troubles at work and the ups and downs in life, parents also need a place to release their emotions, and relatives at home are the best people to talk to. We can comfort each other in nagging, reach an understanding in complaining and communication, help each other to analyze things rationally in complaining about difficulties and grievances, and objectively provide some suggestions and help to alleviate the pressure in work and life. In the eyes of children, these may be full of negative energy.

In terms of communication with children, China people are traditionally reserved, not good at expressing their feelings, and not used to giving children positive praise and encouragement. In learning, more is to blame education, illustrate education with examples, and intimidate education. Although most parents have deliberately changed the influence of educational methods since childhood, sometimes they still can't control themselves. In daily life, when we treat people and things, we will tell both good and bad aspects. There is not much explanation for the good ones, but a detailed explanation for the bad ones. This is too exaggerated and full of negative energy for children who are not deeply involved in the world.

In fact, children can feel it with your heart when you listen. You can feel that their life is not easy from their parents' conversation. The reason why I am carefree is because my parents bear a heavy burden. What is strict with you is their love, and they don't want you to do what they have suffered. So, go and see your parents seriously.

Parents are positive and optimistic, good at analysis, do not shirk their responsibilities, are polite to people, take care of the overall situation and are willing to contribute. These are concrete manifestations of good psychological quality, high quality and great energy, which give children and their families a great sense of security, happiness and pride and then form a huge positive energy group centered on parents, so that everything will develop in a positive direction. No matter where there are difficulties, the family will actively invest in overcoming them and overcome them again and again. Make the family grow stronger and stronger, go to society and become the backbone of society. On the contrary, if parents are selfish, short-sighted, impatient, rude and rude, they will certainly accomplish nothing, lack harmonious interpersonal relationships outside, and families cannot straighten out the contradiction between brothers and parents. Father and son are indifferent, brothers turn against each other, and family relations are tense. Children are the future of families. If they can't grow up healthily at home, it will inevitably bring trouble to society, which will inevitably lead to a family with no future and no harmony.

Parents will become the center of negative energy and the most destructive and harmful culprit in family construction. The image and strength of parents are the biggest engine of the family. How high is the image of parents' strength, how far children can go, and even break through further!

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Negative energy of parents! The ancients didn't care about generations! Contemporary young people's values change, egoism, exquisite egoism, attach great importance to self-interest, emphasize personal interests, parents' mistakes in the process of growth and the harm in education. Ignoring parents' love! Ignore the selfless dedication of parents! Ignore the equality between people! Ignore the return! Ignore gratitude in return!

Do your parents often make you think that I must not become like you when I am old?

It is not easy to appreciate their wrong demonstrations, understand their limitations and tolerate them. People who are filial to their parents will really have a good price.

1. First, make sure you love your parents.

We are adults, and all the books we have read have made you see right from wrong.

3. Negative energy is possible for everyone. Don't over-evolve. Parents are also under pressure to face life. We can persuade them patiently.

4. Parents have negative energy, so we should adjust our mentality and actively encourage parents to think positively.