Is there a saying that when weaning, there was a boy and a girl, fifteen?

There are many sayings about weaning. Have you ever heard of it? In fact, there is no scientific basis for these statements. As long as the baby and mother are ready, they can be weaned at any time. Brother Pingtou was weaned for one year and one month. The original plan was to feed him until he was two years old, but as he grew older, he drank more and more milk and felt that the baby didn't drink enough. The other is due to its own reasons. I feel that I have no freedom since my baby was born, and I have never been separated from my baby for more than an hour. I am a hesitant person, and I can't bear the feeling of being close to Bao. The days when the baby is in your arms are over. Many times, it is not that the baby can't live without us, but that we can't live without the baby. My husband advised me, "just give him milk powder, so that you are more free and I can coax the baby at home." So we decided to wean our husband a week before he started working. With the experience of weaning at night, this weaning seems a bit too simple!

When I woke up in the morning, I ate breast milk meal and fed milk powder directly. The first day went well, and I drank 180 ml milk. 1 1 gave us complementary food, and there was no noise all morning. Because I didn't know how to form the bad habit of drinking milk to sleep before, I had to drink milk to sleep at noon and night. So 1 o'clock, I wanted to sleep more, so I started to make trouble. I am particularly irritable and easy to cry. I can't bear to sleep until 2 o'clock and want to drink milk. I cried so badly that I kept crying, didn't drink milk powder, and didn't let others hug him. Always let me hold my clothes and want to drink milk. I told him that my mother's grandmother was gone, so I couldn't drink it, and the baby didn't drink grandma's when he grew up. I also lifted my clothes to show him and covered them with milk. When he saw that there was really no milk, he cried again. Later, I cried for almost an hour, and I was not sleepy, so I took him out to play again and gave up the idea of putting him to sleep. I haven't slept in the afternoon, and I haven't cried when I went out to play. I had dinner until half past five. In the evening, I could see that he was in a bad mood. At 8 o'clock, drink milk powder I didn't finish it. I am really sleepy at night. I fell asleep crying. The next day was much better, and there was noise when I slept at noon and at night. This time, I stopped pulling my clothes, cried a few times and fell asleep in my arms. On the third day, there was no trouble at all. I slept in my arms at noon and night, and then I was weaned. Dad is useless, and he will be weaned alone.

Grandma looked at the baby crying, which hurt so much. She said that I would be separated from the baby for a few days after weaning. She didn't believe that I could wean with it. It's just that I've been taking care of the children alone, so naturally I won't listen to her. Why not wean the baby separately according to the way of the older generation? I think mother is definitely more important than breast milk in baby's heart! It is very uncomfortable and painful to drink without milk. If you can't be with your mother, it's even worse. And the mother is familiar with the baby's personality and knows how to coax the baby. Babies will cry when they are addicted to breastfeeding, and they won't remember taking them to play at other times. If the mother is not around, the baby will feel insecure, play badly, eat badly, and think that the mother will definitely lose a few pounds. So I cried twice after weaning, and nothing happened. The baby can eat and sleep, and his physical and mental development is quite good. If we hadn't formed the bad habit of sleeping with milk, we would have been weaned without crying or making trouble. Therefore, mothers who are still breastfeeding must not develop the bad habit of breastfeeding their babies!

The baby wants to sleep and drink milk, crying badly! Grandparents think we should take it for a walk, shake it and coax it! Ma Bao can't do this, it's another bad habit of getting himself into trouble. Because babies are used to sleeping with milk, this weaning is also an opportunity to change the way babies sleep. In order to form good habits, I sat on the bed and let the baby lie in my arms. This is such an action. Later, the baby adapted and fell asleep as long as he was lying in his arms. I don't think too many bedtime rituals should be arranged for the baby. The signal before going to bed must be simple, otherwise it is difficult for the baby to fall asleep in different environments without going through the ceremony. A friend's child has developed the habit of sleeping with his father. Every noon, their father comes back to sleep, and they don't sleep at all when his father doesn't come.