Ryan's engagement custom

In view of the fact that many young people don't know about the engagement and marriage in Ryan (downtown), I'll introduce you to them according to the preparations before the engagement and the situation on the wedding day:

Engagement:

1. Both parents attended the banquet to discuss their engagement, mainly to determine the amount of the yellow calendar and the man's dowry. The amount of the gift depends on the family conditions of both parties. If both parties are ordinary families (the ordinary family here means that the annual income of both parties is about 6,543,800 RMB), the current standard is about 88,888-654,38+008,000 RMB.

There must be a long time before the engagement date. During this time, we need to buy what two people need to get engaged. Let's start with what men give women. A set of gold ornaments includes earrings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces, a pair of rings, and a diamond ring (now the price of a diamond ring is about 65,438+05,000, but in fact, you can also go to the gold jewelry store to buy bare diamonds and choose your favorite style. The price varies greatly. It can save about 35%. Note: If you ask your parents first, some parents like to buy 24K pure gold, thinking that it can preserve the value, but young people don't like it. And a pair of sugar, gold and apricots. Ryan's wedding candy comes in different sizes. The man is responsible for all the wedding candy that the woman needs, including the red envelope in the wedding candy, except some friends of her parents. (At present, 50- 100 red envelopes are given by people, depending on the conditions of both parties and the number of wedding candy). What the woman wants to buy is a suit, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (one pair of casual shoes), two sets of casual clothes, a dozen socks, a gold bracelet, a necklace (if the red envelope for the best man is less than 580, you need to buy another shirt for the best man), and a set of dishes has 88 pieces, 98 pieces, 108 pieces to choose from. Then return the candied apricots sent by the man to the man, and the money received will be returned according to the economic conditions. If the woman's condition is generally 88888, it will be returned to the man, ranging from 38888 to 58888. The rest of the money will be used to buy things for the man and buy a new house later. If the woman's conditions are good, she will accept all the gifts and buy a car for the man.

3. Engagement Day: Ryan has two kinds of engagement parties. One is a banquet at the woman's house at noon, attended by the man's parents and best man, and the man invites the woman back at night. The other is that both parents and close relatives and friends hold a banquet in the hotel to get engaged. Generally, there are more people who choose the latter in urban areas. In the afternoon, the man drove to the woman's house to meet her and her parents, and gave the woman's brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money means that the woman's brother or sister won't leave until she lets her sister get married, and he won't let people go until you give him money, according to the explanation of the older generation. ) The suitcase cost is about 1000- 10800 (depending on the man's financial ability). After arriving at the hotel, give tea to both parents (tea is rarely drunk now, and tea with wine), and propose a toast to relatives and friends to witness your love (anyway, a word. Drink ~ ~ ~)

Get married:

1, confirmed the wedding day, and began to book hotels to arrange banquets. Now it seems that Ryan has to book a banquet a year in advance. Oh, my God, everyone gets married on a good day. Then we have to build a nest first. The house price is too expensive, it doesn't matter here. If it exceeds 130 square meters, it will cost 1 10,000 RMB to float up and down (taking Anyang's residential area as an example). Of course, the man is responsible for buying a house for decoration, which will take at least two months. After the renovation, the furniture in the room was bought by the man, and the rest was worn by the woman. This is not a small expense, not to mention electrical appliances. Even buying decorative things, kitchen and bedding is a big expense.

2. Choose a good time and good weather for two people to take wedding photos. Generally, photo studios are now fighting price wars, and their technology and strength are similar. However, they don't care that this little money only comes once in a lifetime. Just be careful not to look at this feeling, the more you choose, the more you spend. Generally, it's worthwhile to take photos at 4000-5000.

3, the nest has been filmed, and almost everything is OK. Please get married in advance, wait for the wedding with peace of mind, and contact photos to rent a car and fireworks on the wedding day. However, these have nothing to do with the etiquette companies that are now all over the street. As for the emcee, it depends on your personal preference. I always feel that if you have a lot of parties, the MC will keep you busy for half a day until the evening 12, so forget it. You can't wait for others.

The night before the wedding, the bride only needs a facial treatment to make herself hungry, so she doesn't have to get up so early on the wedding day. Now the beautician goes straight to the door at 9: 00 to do his hair and nails and then eat. After this lunch, the next one is at lunch the next day. Here, I want to remind you that you still have to eat enough, hehe. . . Then the makeup artist wears a wedding dress, shawl, makeup and hair style at home after one o'clock, which takes more than an hour. I would like to remind you that you should inform the makeup artist in advance what color and style your wedding dress is, so that she can prepare headdresses of the same color and style. Men are similar. Not as troublesome as the woman. At 4 o'clock, the groom and the best man will leave for the woman's house to pick up the bride. When they arrive at the bride's house, the bridesmaids will try their best to embarrass the groom. Finally, of course, they will open the door after the red envelope is finished, and then there will be nine bridesmaids (but in some places it can't be nine bridesmaids, it must be six, eight or even number of 10) and all the male relatives of the bride will go to the new house by car. Let's talk about getting off here. If you rent a car in Ryan, the driver must hand over the cigarettes, otherwise some unscrupulous drivers will deliberately drive fast and slow, so there will be no queues and the video will not look good. Then, when you arrive at the new house, make a video of offering tea and glutinous rice balls. When you pay a New Year call, you must remember the order of your elders, or you will be gossiped. Next, another bus will drive to the hotel, then there will be a lion dance (generally Ryan is not so grand), and then there will be red envelopes (more or less red envelopes, generally 28). Next, some groomsmen will spray the couple and bridesmaids with that spray. The bride is advised to put down her veil, and the bridesmaid is advised to prepare an old dress with a hat and put it on before going in, hehe. The last level is of course a toast. That's all that matters. Of course, it varies from person to person. Let's play with each other, so we don't need it here. Also note that the bride in the middle needs to change her wedding dress and hairstyle. It should also be noted that Ryan now gives the woman 1~4 tables including red envelopes (depending on the number of relatives of the woman), and the red envelopes are of course collected by parents.

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