Crying in confinement can affect your eyes? The old man said that crying for the next month will leave sequelae. Is it true?/You don't say.

Crying in the second month will affect your eyes. The old man said there would be sequelae. Is it true?/You don't say.

I suggest you stay in the second month. Don't cry if it's not important. Wait till you get out of the second month. The body is your own. If you don't protect yourself, no one will.

Let me talk about myself, because I was married far away. After I gave birth, none of my relatives came to see me. I feel wronged and want to cry from time to time. Now my eyesight has obviously dropped, because I didn't understand it at that time and no one told me. If someone told me, I would put up with those terrible things and I won't regret it now.

You'd better not cry, it's too late to regret it.

Hello, I'm Qian Liu's second child mother. I'm glad to answer your question. Let me talk about my experience.

Although it is said that you can't cry for a month, there is a saying that "a month without crying is not a month."

I have always been proud of being an optimistic person, but when I was a novice mother, I was helpless in the face of the baby's crying. I want to breastfeed, but the baby's milk is not enough, and I can't give milk. My parents-in-law thought I ate less, so they cooked six meals a day and ate more.

I am helpless and depressed, and I often cry alone in bed.

As for whether it affects the eyes, I don't have much certification about it at present. But I think the focus is not on the eyes, but on "crying", which is immeasurable to the body.

Why are we crying?

One is the baby crying.

For breast milk, novice mothers will not stay up all night. If babies cry, they basically don't have to sleep all night. The quality of sleep declined rapidly, and depression and loneliness finally broke out.

The second is the pressure of in-laws.

Isn't there a saying that "mother-in-law is an artifact of returning milk"? The dishes cooked by the old people and the old people's concept of parenting will all have contradictions.

The emotion of "crying" cannot be translated, which will lead to breastfeeding and postpartum depression, which is the most serious sequela.

So, when we have these emotions, don't cry secretly. Be sure to tell your husband about this feeling and communicate with your family so that they can help you and understand you as much as possible!

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In the second month, my mother-in-law at home has been emphasizing that "you can't cry when you are confined to the moon", otherwise it will leave the root cause in the future.

Many people think this is an old almanac that lasts forever. In fact, what my mother-in-law said also has some truth.

The first aging organ of expectant mothers during pregnancy is the eye. Don't let her eyes be "too headstrong" during pregnancy.

Why are eyes prone to aging during pregnancy?

Progesterone keeps the mother's eyes hydrated, the corneal thickness increases by 3%, and the corneal curvature increases in the second and third trimester of pregnancy, which will only recover after stopping breastfeeding after delivery. Cornea contains 70% water, and due to pregnancy edema, the cornea will also be slightly edema.

Excessive use of eyes during pregnancy or postpartum will cause visual impairment in the future. Without rest and care, eye aging will accelerate and cause eye diseases.

How does Mommy "defend" her eyes?

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Rest every 20 minutes 10 minutes to watch TV and play computer. Blink frequently to reduce the exposure time of eyeball to air and avoid tears evaporation. Don't read or write in the dark.

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Keep indoor ventilation, indoor humidity is appropriate, and pay attention to humidification when using air conditioning to avoid dry eyes. Work and rest regularly, ensure sleep, and don't stay up late to avoid eye fatigue and acidity.

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Hot compress your eyes every day to promote blood circulation. If your eyes are uncomfortable, don't use eye drops indiscriminately. Consult your doctor first. Avoid smoking or secondhand smoke to reduce the discomfort caused by dry eye.

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Eat more foods containing DHA, lutein and zeaxanthin in your daily diet, such as corn, spinach, pumpkin and deep-sea fish. Eat less food that is bad for your eyes, such as onions, garlic and peppers.

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Pay attention to personal hygiene, wash your hands frequently, and don't rub your eyes with your hands to reduce corneal scratches and infections. Do a good job of sun protection. Sunlight not only causes spots, but also hurts the eyes.

It is said that you can't cry in confinement, and it is not good for your eyes to cry in confinement.

If you cry often during confinement, it will easily lead to eye fatigue. According to the older generation, confinement is always crying, and it is easy to presbyopia when you are old.

One is for physiological reasons.

After delivery, the hormone level in the body changes, and the mood is easily implicated, depressed and crying.

Second, it is caused by family relations.

For example, physical deformation is rejected by her husband, family members can't care, there is no friend to talk to, children's gender is not optimistic, and children are sick and anxious. Therefore, during the confinement period, the family should pay more attention to the new mother.

There is a high probability of postpartum depression, and severe depression may lead to self-harm or injury to others. Therefore, if the mother speaks the language that she wants to commit suicide, the family must pay attention to it and actively seek the help of professional medical staff.

1 1 I don't want to come to the hospital at 3 pm. After midnight 1 1 fetal heart monitoring, I felt a little red and pink. At night 1 p.m, the nurse makes rounds to listen to the fetal heart rate. I said my stomach is always hard. When I went to check, I suddenly saw red water. I began to have a stomachache at about 2 o'clock in the middle of the night, basically every 5.6 minutes.

12 went into the delivery room at 9 am to hang oxytocin, and didn't open his finger until 1 2 in the evening, which was a little unbearable. From 13 in the afternoon to 16: 30 in the afternoon, it was very painful, only two and a half fingers were opened. Halfway through, I told the doctor not to give birth naturally and took me to a caesarean section, but the doctor ignored me. △`), seeking painless, the doctor said that it takes three fingers to hit, and the pain consciousness is vague, so there is no way.

1: 30 The doctor gave me a valium (it seems to soften the cervix), and I thought it would go away soon. I never thought that my cervix would be fully open from 4: 30 to 6: 00, so I didn't have time to feel painless.

18 o'clock, she was taken into the delivery room and cut sideways. The doctor helped me press my stomach and asked me to exert myself (that is, exert myself like a stool in the process of opening my fingers). Finally, in the great pain again and again, suddenly the child was pushed out, and the stomach suddenly stopped contracting and it didn't hurt () God, I was relaxed at that time, and I couldn't get out of pain anymore.

The baby was born at 18: 00. 18: 16-20: 20, that is, press the placenta, measure the blood volume, cut the suture sideways, handle some other things, and lie in the delivery room for observation for 2 hours before going out. There are three layers of side stitches and four stitches on the outermost layer. Although sewing needles hurts, it is at least conscious pain-compared with the pain of finger opening (unconscious, almost dying), it is still insignificant. After all, I knew I was born at that time.

After leaving the hospital, I lost 5 kilograms. Just when I was complacent, I couldn't put on my old clothes anyway, so I had to have fun. This made my self-esteem extremely frustrated and I decided to lose weight 100 kg. My friends around me laughed at me and insisted on exclusive breastfeeding no matter how tired I was after delivery.

I have been watching the community every day since I was pregnant, and I accidentally saw everyone talking about wearing fat-burning clothes after childbirth. I have been thinking that it is impossible to wait for natural recovery, and I have been holding a lucky attitude to buy one. It's no use. How do you know until you try? So I added a treasure mother to her circle and bought two sets.

In the first month, I insisted on getting up every day and starting to wear it until I went to bed. I always expected that I would change. I didn't expect to lose weight 16 kg after one month. I was so happy that I lost sleep that day. After seeing the effect, I have been wearing it for almost two months. I wear it every day except bathing and sleeping. Finally, in the third month, I lost 33 pounds. I am extremely excited and happy when I think of me. Otherwise, I don't know when I can lose weight. Now my mother-in-law and husband also say that thin people become beautiful. When I go out with my baby, many people say that I am not as good as just having a baby. Haha, I'm so happy.

You can't cry in confinement.

Harmful to the eyes

The first aging organ during pregnancy is the eye. Progesterone can cause hydronephrosis in pregnant women's eyes and increase corneal thickness, which can only be recovered after stopping breastfeeding after delivery. In addition, due to the influence of pregnancy edema, the cornea will also be slightly edematous, making the eyelids easily inflamed. During pregnancy, conjunctival small blood vessels spasm and contract, resulting in decreased eyeball blood flow and blurred vision. Because of this series of changes, if you use your eyes too much or cry often after childbirth, it will damage your eyesight. If you don't get rest and care, your eyes will age faster, which will easily lead to eye diseases such as dry eye, glaucoma and cataract.

Affect milk secretion

It is understood that the new mother's mood will affect the normal secretion of milk during confinement. When the mother is depressed, it is easy to have breast blockage, resulting in less milk and even returning milk. During confinement, not only can't you cry, but you should also pay attention to adjusting your emotions, and don't always have negative emotions.

"Crying at the moon will affect your eyes" is a false proposition, just like telling a child that you can't open an umbrella indoors, or you won't grow tall.

Hello, you'd better not cry, lest it be affected later.

It's hard to say it doesn't affect the eyes, but it affects the mood. If you are in a bad mood, you are prone to depression, which will affect all the functions of your body. So, keep a good attitude and you won't cry. How can you worry about your eyes again, right?

It will affect your eyes!