Can a married aunt make the bed? The process and taboo of making the bed.

Everyone still attaches great importance to getting married and making beds, because after all, everyone has to stay in bed for a long time, so when making beds, everyone will pray for a happy married life, early birth, good health and so on. Can a married aunt help make the bed? Is there anything unlucky? Let's have a look!

Can a married aunt make the bed?

Married aunts can make the bed, but some aunts can't. In our traditional custom, we make the bed to wish our future marriage happiness. As long as the person who makes the bed is not pregnant, divorced, widowed or infertile, they can make the bed.

The process of making the bed for marriage

1. Select a location

The first step in making a bed in marriage is to choose the position of the bed. This position can't be directly facing the doors and windows, but generally directly facing the middle. If there are room beams and columns, it is not allowed to press the beams or align the columns. Sundries should not be placed around and at the bottom of the wedding bed.

Prepare bedding

The quilts and pillows on the bed are usually red. According to the requirements for bedding, it is most auspicious to put 18 items such as four quilts, four mattresses, two pairs of pillows and two pairs of cushions on the bed. Then, first sweep the bed, spread pillows, dragon and phoenix quilts and other items, and finally sprinkle peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds and other items, meaning early birth and happiness.

It's time to make the bed

The time to make the bed is usually the day before the wedding. You can turn over the yellow calendar, which contains auspicious days of the zodiac. If the day before is not very good, you can choose the nearest good day to make your bed. Generally, you choose to make your bed in the morning, and it is not recommended to hold a ceremony in the afternoon.

4. "Good luck" makes the bed

It is also very important to choose a good person to make the bed for the newlyweds. Generally, people who are healthy, have both parents, are healthy and strong, have a surviving spouse, and have one son or more children. You can read some good words when you make the bed.

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The next step is to find one or two young children (lively and lovely, healthy) and invite them to roll in bed. You can also add some blessings to the new children.

Taboos for making beds

1. During making the bed, divorced, widowed or infertile relatives and friends are not allowed to touch anything, nor are they allowed to touch the bride on the wedding day.

Newlyweds should not lie on the wedding bed before going to bed on their wedding night, only after getting ready for bed.