Xu He has been in love for 1 year. Why are they unmarried and childless?

Xu He fell in love 1 1 year. Why don't they get married and have children?

Xu, a talented woman with no dynamic temperament for a long time, showed a wave of love on the Internet. She and Huang Lixing took an old photo. They held a giant panda in front of the camera and smiled sweetly, which was enviable.

Xu He has been in love for 1 1 year since she participated in the filming of Du Lala's Promotion in 2009. Although they keep a low profile and don't do official propaganda, they don't hesitate to praise each other and always secretly poke love.

I once asked Xu where she absorbed it. Xu Jinglei replied without hesitation that Huang Lixing absorbed her everywhere. In Xu's mind, he is a perfect partner.

In the eyes of everyone, Xu is also a clever woman, smart, beautiful and temperament. So, the two hit it off and started a romantic love journey for the rest of their lives.

They visit together, live together, put aside worldly troubles, indulge in music or calligraphy and painting, and live with a pair of literary partners. Wherever they go, they depend on each other and admire each other. They never seem to struggle. As long as they love each other, it will never end.

However, when the youth of 1 1 year passes by in a hurry, can we also face the secular baptism? Both of them are 46 years old and have been in love for 1 1 year, but they are unmarried and childless so far, which is difficult for many people to understand. Since we love each other so much, why not get married and have children?

Giving birth to a child is the obligation of love and the sublimation of love. There is an old saying that "love without marriage purpose is hooliganism". If so, Xu He is a gangster, right? Because in their minds, marriage is not their purpose.

Xu Jinglei responded to questions about her unmarried. She said she didn't think people had to get married. Marriage is just a guarantee. She doesn't need a guarantee, either emotionally or financially.

The attitude towards marriage is similar to that of Xu. He said that love is a matter for two people. When two people are together, they don't necessarily need legal proof. The sense of security given by marriage may be false.

Judging from their response, it seems that it is not unreasonable, but their response inadvertently ignores another reason, that is, marriage is the grave of love!

Although there is no financial pressure in Xu He, if they get married, they also need to face various hidden rules of marriage.

For example, in love, couples don't care too much about gains and losses and who pays more for each other. Because the beginning of love itself needs one party to pursue first, and their status is not equal, but both of them can enjoy it.

Once married, the demands of both parties will try to achieve equal work, such as who does more housework and whose name the property should be written in. And their love will be gradually consumed by these trivial things overnight.

Besides, marriage will also make the essence of two people clear at a glance. During love, both lovers will intentionally or unintentionally "disguise" themselves, hide their bad side and enlarge their best side, so as to absorb each other.

But once married, both parties will slack off and expose their shortcomings. Therefore, after marriage, many people will sigh that the other person is like a different person, far from his ideal partner, and conflicts will arise overnight.

What's more, there is another problem in marriage, that is, the differences between the circles and family backgrounds of both parties. Many people think that marriage is a matter of two people, but it is not. After marriage, the man needs to be in the woman's circle, and the woman needs to be in the man's circle. If she has children, she has to take care of them, so getting married is very tiring for both of them.

Since marriage is the grave of love, should every couple be like Xu He? In fact, Xu He's love is romantic, but if they don't experience the baptism of marriage and plain life, their relationship is just a bubble floating in mid-air. It looks beautiful and unreliable, and may be eliminated in an instant.

Therefore, although Xu He fell in love for 1 1 year, I still don't envy them, and I don't approve of maintaining the romance and passion of love at the expense of not getting married and having children. What do you think of this?

After abandoning Gao, Qu Ying 1 1 year, why is Zhang Yadong still single?

Gao Yuanyuan is the dream goddess in many people's eyes. She has many fans, and this actress is quite low-key.

Do you know that Gao Yuanyuan once chased a singer when he was young? This singer is very talented. He is Zhang Yadong.

Zhang Yadong's love story is gorgeous. Except Gao Yuanyuan, this male singer lived with Qu Ying for 1 1 year. The above two actresses are among the best beauties in the circle. One is an excellent actress and the other is a famous model. Can be seen by two goddesses, Zhang Yadong must have something extraordinary.

Zhang Yadong,1March 1969 1 1 was born in Tianzhen County, Datong City. My mother is a local Jin Opera actress. She grew up playing the cello at the age of 8 and joined a song and dance troupe at the age of 13.

/kloc-at the age of 0/3, Zhang Yadong began to work as a temporary worker in a song and dance troupe. Although his monthly salary is only 70 yuan, he feels that he has grown up and can support himself.

But what makes him most happy is that when 19 years old, he fell in love with a female colleague. Soon after, they got married and gave birth to a son for Zhang Yadong. However, Zhang Yadong, who loves music, has not forgotten his musical dream, and he still can't let it go.

So at the age of 23, he resolutely left his hometown and came to Beijing alone to pursue his dream.

After the divorce, Zhang Yadong met Dou Ying and joined her team. Their love is also because of music. Zhang Yadong was attracted by her boldness on the stage, and Dou Ying was attracted by his ability. They fell in love deeply and got married.

Dou Ying is Dou Wei's sister and Dou Wei is Faye Wong's ex-husband, so Dou Ying introduced Zhang Yadong to Faye Wong. Unexpectedly, it directly contributed to Faye Wong's glory. He has written Faye Wong songs such as Impetuousness, Crazy Foreigners, 0 1 and Love. And then Faye Wong took to the throne of Queen China with these songs.

However, Dou Ying did not expect that this marriage was destroyed by one of his actions. On one occasion, Zhang Yadong went to help Faye Wong make an album and happened to meet Gao Yuanyuan and Zhang Yadong with gloomy faces.

Immediately attracted Gao Yuanyuan.

So Gao Yuanyuan asked his colleagues the contact information of going to Zhang Yadong. As the saying goes, "women chase men for the veil." After Gao Yuanyuan's fierce pursuit, Zhang Yadong finally broke through the last line of defense, and the photos of their secret date were exposed by the media. Then the news came out that Zhang Yadong and Dou Ying had divorced.

Zhang Yadong has not divorced his wife Dou Ying, but Gao Yuanyuan is willing to be his secret lover for five years, which shows how attractive Zhang Yadong is.

Zhang Yadong gave the answer to this question. Zhang Yadong said: "People should have relatives when they are alive, but they are not necessarily living things. If you love someone, she may change her mind. If you love a pet, it may die. You must choose what will never leave you. My choice is to love music. "

After so many years of love, Zhang Yadong has never been attached to anyone. Even though many women are infatuated with him, he still insists on himself. Maybe falling in love is the most suitable for him, and marriage is just a shackle.

Wang Shuo met Xu, who was 16 years old, and they had an inappropriate relationship. 1996, Wang Su and her former partner Shen officially registered for divorce. Shen took her daughter to the United States and lived a simple and happy life, while Wang Xu fell in love with the goal of "being a female artist in the 1970s is Xu" and won Xu's favor all the way.

Thinking of this, in this triangular relationship, Shen always lost to Xu, fulfilling her and Wang Shuo.

But the fact is that Xu Jinglei was not with Wang Shuo after she became popular.

Xu called Wang Shuo his "mentor" and turned to talk about love with other men. Wang Shuo, who said that "all money will be promised after death", also found a new partner, but Wang Shuo's love affair ended in despair.

On 20 14, a suspected entry-exit form from Hong Kong exploded on the Internet. According to the source, there are indications that the information is very likely to be true. More importantly, the marriage column shows that she is married, which reminds many people of her rumored boyfriend. Recently, the information of Hong Kong entry and exit forms registered as "Xu" was found on the Internet.

Upon verification, the date of birth is "1April 974 16" and the occupation is "actress", which is consistent with the actress Xu. However, due to the scrawl, this is far from Lao Xu's handwriting, and people suspect that it was registered by the star staff on his behalf.