Unscramble the seven sexual secrets of women's confusion, 12 secrets about women.

People often say that a woman is a book. But this book is not easy to read, especially about sex. But it is a po

Unscramble the seven sexual secrets of women's confusion, 12 secrets about women.

People often say that a woman is a book. But this book is not easy to read, especially about sex. But it is a positive effort for men to study women's minds and understand each other's thoughts, which may be the first step towards happiness and harmonious communication. Now, let's uncover the sexual secrets of women who may confuse you.

I don't like having sex under the lamp.

Women's bodies usually make men extremely excited, but women often turn off the lights before making love. Are you shy? It's not that simple. Most women think that only in the dark can they feel a wider space for sex and think a lot of pleasant and emotional things better, so they are more excited. Women who can't see their eyes are used to having sex with their eyes closed, and everything will give way to physical feelings, so that they can concentrate more on sex. Another important reason is that most women are worried that their faces will become ugly because of excitement, and maybe they will moan. In the dark, all this will be covered up. In fact, women don't completely hate light. If there is only dim light in the sex space, it will even help to create an ambiguous atmosphere.

I don't like brave people.

What kind of man is sexiest and most attractive to women? Brave and fearless, or rough and tough? I'm sorry, it's already the old yellow calendar of medieval chivalry, or it's just a story in a martial arts gunfight. Women in today's society prefer gentle, kind, enterprising, successful and responsible men, because such men will give them more sense of security, dependence and trust. Most women also admit that such a man is really sexy, charming and cute. Of course, if they have a braver temperament, women will not refuse. As for sex, courage and rudeness are two different things.

Think about stars when having sex.

Most of the women who answered the questions frankly said: If it is unpleasant and unsuccessful sexual intimacy, they usually think: How did it end like this? On the contrary, they may indulge in their own sexual fantasies. If they think of another man at this time, it is often not the ordinary man they know, but the man or male star they like. Sometimes this kind of imagination excites them, but sometimes nothing happens. More than 30% women choose their husbands unswervingly? Sexual fantasy object? This shows that for women, love is always the first.

Don't refuse to change the mode

Men are always dissatisfied with their habitual sexual posture and caressing methods, and always want to try new things to pursue greater excitement and happiness, such as changing their sexual posture or trying new sexual behaviors. In fact, modern women generally do not reject this point in their understanding and actions, because they also have the need to pursue novelty and excitement. But we must insist on the premise that they think that this kind of sexual posture and caressing way is healthy, hygienic and safe, and can make themselves happier, and must not bring any harm to their physical and mental health. Therefore, if men want to try new sexual postures and caressing methods, the most important thing is to respect the woman's wishes and get her consent, instead of imposing their wishes on others, making women feel used, insulted or even raped!

The climax of disguise

If you think that women's excitement during sex is the performance of reaching orgasm, you may be fooled. In fact, most women, especially young women, have the tendency and performance of faking orgasm. In their view, only those women who are easily sexually excited can attract men more and be their favorite partners. Therefore, every woman wants to show her emotional appearance, or look like it. You know, which woman is willing to admit that they are indifferent in bed, like a piece of wood? Another important reason is that most women know that men are passionate and fragile, so they can't bear to let them feel disappointed and unhappy. Of course, if they want to get rid of their men as soon as possible, or don't want to have sex at this time, what better means than pretending to have an orgasm?

Condoms do not affect pleasure.

Men usually don't like to have sex with condoms. In their view, it will reduce the pleasure. This may be a psychological effect. But for women, whether men wear condoms during sex, they have no special feeling. Don't worry about scratching your boots through the rubber film, because it won't affect women's pleasure and certainly won't bring more pleasure. However, sometimes women think: Did the condom slip off and be torn? This is entirely for contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. If you have sex at the risk of unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, of course there is no happiness.

Passivity is an illusion.

Although people's ideas are much more open, in people's minds, modest, solemn and docile women, especially those who are calm, steady and restrained in sexual life, are all good women. This makes most women reluctant to be so ostentatious and revealing. In fact, whether women are sexually active or not is different from whether they are sexually active or not. Women are never passive in sex. Women can only express it in a more subtle and subtle way. For example, carefully prepare his favorite dinner for a man, and be especially attentive and considerate to him after dinner; Wash and cough early at night to get ready for bed, so that her husband can go to bed as soon as possible; When I was sleeping with my husband, I deliberately put on a sexy dress that he especially liked. It seems that I showed it to him intentionally or unintentionally. This may be saying: Dear, come with me! ? Besides, what do you expect women to do?