At the age of blind date, what time of year is a good time for blind date?

First of all, whether things can be successful is determined by many factors.

In fact, there are all kinds of sayings, such as the twelfth month, the first month and the sixth month of the lunar calendar ... If we believe every saying, we may not even know which foot to take first, so we might as well throw them away, because it is not reliable to use them to guide our lives.

The success of a thing is determined by many factors, but there are many factors that we can't predict and control, so people have all kinds of superstitious ideas. Most of these superstitious ideas have no scientific basis and are formed by the delusion of some people. We regard these as the creed of life, and we may only let the blind touch the elephant.

Second, see if the needs of two people match.

For example, a blind date is good, but in fact, whether a blind date can be successful depends mainly on whether the needs of two people match. There are very complicated factors to achieve this. Two people's inner thoughts are beyond others' understanding and control. As introducers, we can only play the role of threading the needle at most. If we say that we have done a good deed, we can only put it aside in the future. It depends on their fate and success.

In order to get rid of such superstitious thoughts, we must first establish our own logical thinking ability and realize the complexity of things. There are more than one factor that determines things and more than one method to deal with problems. Learn to look at problems dialectically, so as not to go into a dead end and understand things unilaterally.

Third, learn to think rationally.

Don't blindly believe, learn to think rationally, use scientific methods to test in reality, and don't tie completely unrelated issues together. Learn to discover the objective laws of things. The more you know, the less likely you are to be biased by others.

Stay away from superstitious people. You can take the initiative to stay away from those superstitious people, listen to them, and learn to distinguish before you lack high wisdom and judgment.

Learn to deal with your emotions. When you are anxious, you should be able to accept yourself, and then let your emotions pass slowly so as not to affect your life.

Take care of yourself before helping others. Sometimes you can't just do good things with enthusiasm, but also have some wisdom. If you do something, you will add trouble to yourself. It's best not to help others first, but to take care of yourself first.