Message from parents in the rebellious period of youth

I wrote these words to you for three reasons:

1, you are standing on the node of life: looking back is a childhood that slipped away quietly, and moving forward, the curtain of youth slowly opens to you.

2, some words, we don't tell you, no one will tell you.

3, mutual agreement: we work hard, you study hard, no one will let anyone worry.

(USA)

First of all, about the goal.

People can live without great ideals, but they can't lose their goals. Under the system of "one exam for life", no matter how hard you work, how hard you work and how fierce you are, as long as you fail the exam, you will be eliminated!

You have to understand that too much homework, too heavy schoolbags and studying day and night are not cruel to adults, but to reality!

Second, about positioning.

At home, all the only children are little emperors, but at school, there are too many emperors, and no one will take you seriously! Unless your grades are better, your talents are more outstanding, and your performance is better, the teacher still treats you as a treasure.

The same is true of society. In the future, whether you want to be rich or poor, whether you want to live in a bungalow or a villa, whether you want others to look down on you or respect you, you should be responsible for it yourself.

Third, about learning.

In school, learning is the main thing, but not the only thing. Good study but poor health is no different from "reading, reading more, getting more pigs".

Students get together and compare themselves: 20-year-old education, 30-year-old ability, 40-year-old experience, 50-year-old financial resources, 60-year-old physical strength, 70-year-old medical records and 80-year-old almanac. After decades of life, it is still better than health. Have a good exercise, son.

Fourth, about the future.

A person's future is determined by knowledge, ability and attitude. Knowledge can be acquired through study, ability can be increased through practice, but attitude is formed through habit. You sometimes lack the perseverance to cultivate good habits.

It's not too late to correct your attitude. In the future, I hope everything you do will benefit yourself and others.

Verb (short for verb) about yourself.

At school, teachers have no obligation to be nice to you, and students have no obligation to care about you unless you respect the teachers first, unless you care about your classmates first. In your life, no one has an obligation to be nice to you, except me and your father.

Don't think that the world can't turn around without yourself, and don't give up on yourself because you are young.

Six, about friends

Making friends is like investing. Of course, you should consider the return on investment. If you find a friend and the friend doesn't give you a return in the end, it can only prove that your investment has failed. You should make friends with people who are better than you, especially remember to help your friends when they are in trouble.

Because, people who laughed with themselves are easy to forget, and those who cried with themselves are the most unforgettable. This is that giving charcoal in the snow is more meaningful than icing on the cake.

If you don't do it, you will never get anything. The future depends on grasping opportunities and working hard.

Seven, about the gains and losses

A person can't be proud forever, nor can he be frustrated forever.

Be sober when you are proud. There are too many people in this world who are better than themselves. Remember your own smallness.

When you are frustrated, don't back down. Stick to it: you walked past, and now you walk past.

Eight, about relatives

Relatives have only one fate, in this life. Even if I can't accompany you all the way, I will always want to shelter you from the wind and rain when it is stormy!

Even if I can't fight with you all the way, I will always want to share the pain with you when I am in difficulties and obstacles!

In this life, no matter how long we will get along with you, please cherish our time together. In the next life, whether you love it or not, you will never see each other again.