You need to read the yearbook to show your love, son.

It seems that since the popularity of WeChat Weibo and various online media, the so-called "festivals", "520" and "Shuang 1 1" have been promoted on social media in turn. I can't wait to remind you three or four days in advance that you have to be ready in two days, "Please pay". Excluding these businesses that make money as gimmicks, it seems that some people think that numbers must mean something, as if 520 should be "I love you", which is the same as always avoiding "4" when choosing numbers. Some people always use this stunt to do things that they usually don't have the courage to do, such as 14' s confession on Valentine's Day in February or 14' s parting on Christmas Eve on February 24th. Therefore, in many stories, even if no one confessed in February 14, they had to buy a box of chocolates themselves, or on Christmas Eve, the apples were in their hands. When I was in college, on February 24th, 16, the school gate was full of stalls selling apples, and the apples should be wrapped in beautiful boxes or cellophane. Although no one knows the name of the priest who married people privately or what happened in Jerusalem on Christmas Eve, even the so-called "festivals" attached to the double 1 1 and 520 have no such story background.

The business motives behind so many festivals are mentioned above, but the significance of these days is more to let ordinary people find a reason to socialize or get together. As far as today is concerned, it is similar to Valentine's Day to some extent. But can choosing such a day to confess really have a better effect? In other words, what does the so-called sense of ritual mean to human beings? Personally, I think the sense of ritual mainly acts as a placebo. This placebo may be courage (similar to drinking) or self-consolation (similar to painkillers). But I still feel that if you do nothing today, you will definitely have a higher success rate than yesterday or tomorrow. Time is not the decisive factor. There is always a saying that "time will cure everything" (refer to the magic of time in Bai Xue), but this may reverse the causal relationship, that is, it takes time to reach a certain goal, but as long as time accumulates, it may not necessarily achieve anything.

The same is true of getting someone's love. I will never choose this day to "confess". On the one hand, I feel that being rejected on this day is more uncomfortable than being rejected at ordinary times. On the other hand, I can't wait. I don't know if it's curiosity or something. Always want to know the answer quickly. But my so-called "confessions" often end in ambiguous answers. Off-topic, the reason why I watched cartoons recently, especially that kind of love, is because the gap between two-dimensional love and three-dimensional love is too big, just like the people in Qiong Yao's novels can't live. But these ambiguous answers finally turned into clear answers. Although the plot of each story is different, there is an ending in the end. Looking back carefully, I seem to have been afraid to say it in person, for fear that saying such things in person would embarrass the other party. Once I prepared a love letter (maybe not a love letter, because I wrote two sentences) and wanted to put it in my sister's hand after school, but I was afraid to say a word to my sister after school. In most cases, I leave messages by SMS or QQ. Although it is sloppy, it will not make both parties feel embarrassed. If the other party pays more attention to the sense of ceremony, this way of confession will definitely not make the other party think that I am serious.

Because it's a man, I can't understand what it's like for a woman to chase a man, but as mentioned above, it's definitely different from the kind of woman chasing a man in the second yuan. And from a biological point of view, men may be born with emotional initiative. However, people will always be influenced by some voices in the surrounding environment, such as "whoever takes the initiative first will lose", especially after being rejected, this "poisoned chicken soup" will be more and more confirmed. Therefore, I am not a particularly active person, because I am afraid of being rejected, and I will feel guilty as mentioned in my previous diary. I always feel that I will lose if I confess first. But it often backfires. Girls who get along well often just regard me as a good friend. Although I moved my heart, the other party was not prepared at all. So naturally you will get four words "Don't push me" or "Let me think". Behind this answer, it is more of a kind of self-protection. I don't want to get into trouble emotionally and I don't want to accept my kindness. Or I sneaked away in the process of getting along, and the other party didn't expect it at all. But I think such an answer is not necessarily bad. From the perspective of contract, my so-called confession is more like an invitation to offer than an offer, that is, "say it first", and my sister's final clear answer is more like a real offer. Although I will definitely give a positive "promise", it seems that I took the initiative to confess. In fact, my sister took the initiative in the end, but this is what I have been thinking recently. I always act in this style. Although I always say that I speak straight, I often become passive involuntarily, or get used to this kind of behavior of "taking back for progress". Fortunately, I always get the answers I want, but this can never be understood as technical success, because it is a matter of two people after all. If the other person really doesn't have any thoughts about me, no matter what I do, I can't do it.

Having said so many things about yourself, let's talk about the most impressive confession in Snow White written yesterday. The winter horse battle song ends!

I'm here to stop you ... to get you! No ... meet Xuecai again. Xichun ... Please, betray Xuecai. Then, choose me! Please ... stay with me forever! ! !

Coincidentally, this bridge occurred in February 14. Xu finally faced up to his heart and bravely said what he wanted to say to Xichun, but this was after Xichun made a decision to give up everything. Obviously, in love, it is not. Whoever takes the initiative first will lose, because love doesn't win or lose.