If the wife wants her children to come to the door and take her last name, will you promise?

If my wife wants the child to have her last name, I will agree. The premise is to follow the current marriage and childbearing policy. The average family can have three children, or at least two children, so one of the children can take his wife's surname.

Since the wife made this request, it shows that their family has practical considerations and needs in this regard. I don't think this request is too much at present, what's more, if you don't agree, it is likely to lead to discord between husband and wife and become the fuse of family conflicts and disputes. If it is not resolved, the later divorce is likely to happen. Family harmony and happiness must also be taken into account. Who wants the husband and wife to have family disharmony and tension all day because of one thing? As long as it is reasonable, it can be settled through consultation.

Although according to the past customs, if you are not a son-in-law, the child's surname should be completely followed by the father's surname in principle. But that was all in the past. With the development and progress of society, people's cognition and the concept of equality between men and women have gradually matured. For the sake of fairness, it is understandable and acceptable for a wife to propose that a child in the family take her surname.

If it is my wife's request that both children should take her surname, I can't accept it anyway. Everything should be reasonable. You can change some past customs and habits, but you can't push your luck and get confused. If this is the idea, you can take legal action if negotiation fails, but I believe you will not let it go.