What is the psychology of men when lovers break up on their own initiative?

If the lover leaves voluntarily, the boy depends on the emotional state of the two at that time. If the relationship has broken down and left voluntarily, then boys are happier.

First of all, if the relationship between two people breaks down and the girl leaves voluntarily, then the boy is lucky. Because of the breakdown of feelings, he doesn't want to continue to recover, or maintaining two people together is mutual torture, so there is no need to make do with it.

Secondly, if two people's feelings are still in the maintenance stage, but there are some contradictions, then boys will be more sad. Especially when the boy is still pestering the girl and doesn't want her to leave, then he doesn't want to end this relationship.

Third, if the boy is already maintaining family relations and doesn't want to have too much to do with this girl, then he will be more at ease when he leaves. Because some feelings are doomed to die, especially in the face of three people and a family.

Finally, if the boy still wants to maintain this relationship, he will continue to pursue this relationship even if he leaves him. Because he thinks this relationship is still necessary, and he has spent a lot of energy and time, even some money.

I think there should be a better explanation or a better ending in feelings, rather than leaving suddenly. This is irresponsible to each other, and it is a relief for both sides to have a better farewell.