Can someone else sit on the wedding bed? What's the point of pressing the wedding bed?

The wedding bed is very important for the couple, so can someone else sit on it on the wedding day? What about the bed in the wedding room? What's the point of getting married and pressing the bed? Let's get to know each other.

Can someone else sit on the wedding bed?

It depends on local conditions. One thing is to let the boy press the bed, hoping to have a baby boy.

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What's the point of getting married and pressing the bed?

First, custom: the door of the bed is facing the window, the closet is in the hall, the door is not in the cupboard, and the mirror is not on the bed. Bedding is divided into bed making, account maintenance and shop opening. Sprinkle some peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds, chestnuts and other dried fruits on the bed to symbolize the early birth of your son.

Second, bedding is generally red. In some areas, there are 18 items on the bed, including four quilts, four mattresses, two pairs of pillows and two pairs of cushions.

Third, bed-making items: bed-making is generally carried out by special personnel. The bed needs dried fruits such as peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds and chestnuts;

Flowers: generally choose roses or lilies to play a decorative role;

Wedding photos: in addition to wedding photo frames, we should also prepare some photo albums for everyone to enjoy;

Candle: in ancient times, there must be red candles in the bridal chamber. In modern weddings, western-style candlesticks are also good decorative items;

Fruits: Dried fruits, fruits and snacks: These not only entertain guests, but also add a lot of festive atmosphere to the new house.

Fourth, making the bed is also called. Shopping? 、? Sweep the bed? 、? Make the bed. Or? Share the bill? Wait, etc. It refers to a small ceremony arranged by a special person for the bridal chamber the day before the wedding, and two children are needed in the process of making the bed.

Namely: smart, healthy and lovely golden couple. Also put a red envelope (200 yuan). In the process of folding the quilt, sweeping the bed, scattering items, etc., you will say auspicious words and jingles. To wish the couple peace and success, happiness and good eloquence.

5. Bed-maker: Since the Song Dynasty, there have been invitations the day before the wedding? Good luck? The ceremony of making the bed for the couple. The person who makes the bed is usually invited by the woman's family. Looking for what? Quanfu people? Making the bed means being healthy, having both parents, living a long and healthy life, having a spouse and a son, preferably a son and a daughter. It is necessary for them to pass on their good luck to new people. Hide the red envelopes in the bedding (200 yuan)!

6. Press:

First of all, the person who presses the bed must be a young man younger than the groom, usually his own brother, or an uncle or cousin. If there is no such candidate within the range of relatives, the groom can also find friends and close classmates in the same village.

Secondly, it must be unmarried young people. If it is the younger brother who gets married as a result, they already know the mystery of marriage and the ambiguous relationship between men and women, so the groom's family will no longer list them in the invitation. All the people invited to press the bed are young men. They are symbols of purity and masculinity.

Seven, make the bed taboo: In ancient times, the meaning of marriage was more about carrying on the family line and prolonging life. Therefore, widows or childless women can't touch bedding, bedding or even help the bride. Remember your master bedroom and don't let too many people in. In case there are too many people sitting in your new bed. Married people want them to stay away from that bed. Before the wedding, the bride and groom are not allowed to sit on the bed.

Eight, the process of making the bed: the process of making the bed is slightly different according to local customs. Apart from sweeping the bed, laying the mandarin duck pillow and laying the dragon and phoenix quilt, what is your most familiar process? Share the account (share the bed)? Yes ? Share the bill? Does it mean laying peanuts, longan, lotus seeds, chestnuts, dates and other dried fruits on the wedding bed as a gesture of righteousness? Early Gigi Lai, lotus seeds and peanut seeds (all children)? Pray for life.

Nine, the time to make the bed: Generally, in the early morning, the bride enters the door at high tide, so be optimistic about the time of high tide and turn over the yellow calendar. The order of making the bed is known to the older generation, and there are such people in the general neighborhood.

Ten, the bride and groom into the room: first of all, the groom should hold the bride's feet to the master bedroom (new house). Then the groom takes the bride out to offer tea to her parents. Pay attention to tea cups, preferably paired porcelain cups. It's time to drink longan and lotus seed soup. Longan lotus seed soup should be cooked in advance, not too hot, and the temperature should be kept moderate. Now I just finished taking photos with my parents and relatives, and finally I went to the hotel to make up my makeup.