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How to evaluate marital status according to the date of marriage

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Couples who are ready to get married can pass this test, which can test the degree of emotional fit between two people, and can also prepare for the relationship between husband and wife after marriage in all aspects, so as to discuss in time, adjust their behaviors and create a relationship between husband and wife. Married couples can use it to directly test their marital status in order to find an appropriate solution to the problem.

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1. Do you expect to be together soon after a day apart from your spouse? Answer yes or no.

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2. If the answer to the question 1 is "No", write down the important reasons why you don't expect to stay at home with your spouse every night. Point out specific facts, such as "My husband complained about the messy room as soon as he came in, blaming me for everything I did", or "I feel very tired after work and want to have a quiet rest,' but my wife makes a hullabaloo about and the TV is buzzing everywhere".

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If the answer to question 1 is "No", please write down five reasons why meeting at night has become so unpleasant. It may not be easy to write five reasons, but it takes considerable effort, because we are often ashamed to expose our reaction to a certain characteristic of our spouse. For example, a husband might write, "I just can't stand his wife's yelling." He may have known his wife's way of speaking before marriage, so it is embarrassing to admit that this way bothers him. The wife may write: "When Lao Wang comes home, he just sits on the sofa, motionless, reading newspapers, drinking water and watching TV, but he doesn't help. It's really annoying." Write at least five reasons. If there are less than five important reasons, you can include less content.

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4. Do you love your spouse? Do you think the safety and comfort of your spouse is as important as your own? Answer yes or no.

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5. With the same understanding of love, does your spouse love? Answer yes or no.

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6. Briefly list the five behaviors of loving your spouse last month.

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7. List five behaviors that your spouse loved you last month.

8. List five kinds of hate behaviors (intentional or unintentional) you had towards your spouse in the last month.

9. Make a list of five hate behaviors your spouse showed you last month.

10. List five things that you ask, blame or nag. Your spouse should correct or improve, but your spouse will not change it.

1 1. List five things that your spouse asked, blamed or nagged you to correct or improve, but you failed to correct because you were unable or unwilling.

12. Which of the answers listed in question 1 1 can be corrected if you really want to do it? For example, suppose you are still proposing, which one will you correct automatically?

13。 For each answer to question 12, state in detail why you didn't follow your spouse's advice.

14. For each item listed in the answer to the question 10, write down the reasons why you think your spouse didn't try to make changes according to your suggestion to please you.

15. (As a husband) Have you performed better or worse in your work since you got married? Good or bad answer.

16. If your career goes well, please explain why getting married will help you.

17. If your career is not smooth, please explain why marriage has such an impact on you.

18. (to your wife) Since you got married, has your life been as full and interesting as before? Answer yes or no.

19. If you are at least as fulfilling, describe why your marriage has such a role.

20. If not, describe how your marriage ended.

2 1. List five things that your spouse is too selfish to you.

22. Who do you think contributes more to the success of marriage, you or your spouse? Write down the reasons for your answer.

23. Have you ever considered the idea of divorce, even if it is only a flash? Answer yes or no.

24. How many times have you considered the possibility of divorce in the past six months?

25. Do you know anyone whose marriage is better than yours? Answer yes or no.

26. If you know such a couple, why is their marriage better than yours?

27. Before you get married, you must have thought (unless you get married by lightning) that your marriage will be successful. List five reasons why you thought you would succeed at that time.

Your present marriage has gone through such a long experience. If you are single, do you still want to marry the same person? Answer yes or no.

29. If you can divorce your current spouse without causing any trouble, any big expenses, self-pity or embarrassment, and without causing pain to your children, do you want to divorce? Answer yes or no.

30. Were you happier when you proposed? Answer yes or no.

3 1. If you are happier, write down at least three reasons.

32. List five harmful things (things you don't like) that you only find in your spouse during your intimate marriage.

33._ List fu. You and your spouse have a little different tastes. For example, he likes reading and I like watching TV. "She doesn't care much about the layout of the room, but I get upset when I see the room in a mess."

34. Are you satisfied? Answer yes or no.

? -35. Which behavior or skill of your spouse can make your life better?

3fi。 If you have children, do you think they will help or hinder your marriage? If you can start a new marriage without children, do you want children?

37. If there are no children, do you think the appearance of children will improve the marriage relationship?

38. Do you like your spouse's relatives? If you don't like which one, explain why you are here.

39. Will your marriage be better if your spouse earns more money?

40. Is there any way to help your spouse be more successful in career and earn more money?

4 1. If your spouse has certain skills and you are sure that he still has them, will your marriage be better?

42. Why does your spouse lack this skill?

43. Can you help him master these skills?

44. List five reasons why your marriage is good for you.

45. List 10 shortcomings or disappointments in your marriage.

The above is about how to look at the wedding day, and it is about the sharing of marriage. I hope this will be helpful to everyone after watching the wedding date and which lunar calendar!