Go back to your mother's house at the full moon in the yellow calendar.

On the third, sixth or seventh, eighth and ninth day after the daughter got married, there was also a full moon returning to her parents' home.

Huimen is also called "mothering", that is, "going back to my mother's house". Marriage customs of Han nationality. Huimen is also the first time that newlyweds really return to their parents' home. It is naturally an indispensable etiquette for newcomers to pay homage to their parents.

When the groom meets his parents-in-law, he should change his name to "father and mother" to formally package the whole wedding, that is, let the bride's parents see the meaning of their happy marriage. The Yue family will also hold a banquet to entertain the new son-in-law, and some relatives of the woman will also find trouble with the son-in-law. Of course, the new son-in-law will still give his parents a "return gift" and "pay back the money" at this time, and bring different gifts according to different places.

Some people bring a rooster, which means "good luck". Some bring some meat, eggs, noodles and so on. When they arrive at the woman's house, they will stay for a few days before returning. More common are oranges, apples, bananas, wine and so on. There are services, the style is not fixed, but it is forbidden to return as a single gift.

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Back door preparation

1, return ceremony

According to the traditional marriage custom, after three days of marriage, the bride and groom will go back to their parents' home together, which is also called "returning home". This is an indispensable etiquette. The bride's old man attaches great importance to going home in three days, so the groom should make preparations in advance, both ideologically and in gifts, so as to leave a happy and good impression on his parents-in-law. Buy gifts that the bride and the elderly like. There are generally four kinds of gifts, such as tobacco, alcohol, sugar and health care products.

2. On-site installation

According to the custom of marriage, after three days of marriage, the bride will go back to her parents' home with the groom, which is also called "returning home". Then the bride's dress is a round-trip dress.

Step 3: Return to the banquet

This is the last ceremony of the wedding. Daughters will never forget the kindness of their parents. The son-in-law thanked her parents-in-law and newlyweds for their love and beauty. Generally speaking, women's families hold banquets, and the new son-in-law is accompanied by female elders. The in-laws held a banquet for their newly married husband, which was a back door banquet.

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