Wenling marriage custom

In Wenling, in the city, several banquets are held to entertain relatives and friends of both sides, and one meal is almost enough. Here I recommend an old movie "Farewell to the Bachelor", a good romantic comedy. You can see many old faces when you were young. But in the countryside, there are many rules. Mainly divided into engagement and marriage. This is only about marriage. Maybe if you say you are married, why don't you just go to the Civil Affairs Bureau and get a copy? Not here, even if you get this book, even if your children are old, if you don't have this party, you will be less. Getting married is a big day. Generally, this day was set as early as a year ago, and it was translated from the Gregorian calendar, and then relatives and friends were informed early.

Let me introduce the general process first. For example, on the day of 10, then on the morning of the 8 th, the man killed the pig and gave it to the woman, who cooked at noon. Pork was distributed in the afternoon, and the man went back with a lot of dowry. The night of the 9th is called greenhouse night. On that night, both men and women will entertain relatives and friends, with a total of 1200 people. Very lively. 10 is the wedding day. In the morning, the bride goes to make up, and the wedding procession arrives 10. The woman prepared lunch, in fact, she started preparing it very early. Pick an auspicious time in the afternoon and send it to the bride. At this time, the woman's business is basically over. The man is going to prepare a dinner party, and the evening is called bridal chamber night. 1 1 Have another meal, and the bride's tea delivery is basically over. It turns out that the bride will go home to visit relatives on 12, and then go back to relatives' homes, but it is generally saved.

Parents are probably the busiest. They have to be busy for a long time. At first, it was a dowry, buying good home appliances and so on. Actually, I learned about the market a long time ago. Especially those who are about to get married, they wake up early every morning, they have to call them one by one, and the egg delivery man in their hometown has to receive them. Talk to relatives and friends about long-term problems at home and arrange people to do things …

Of course, there are some interesting things, such as sending 62 eggs and sending 82. Geely, yes man and the other two figures are estimated to mean more than one year. The same is true of gifts, which are all kept in auspicious figures. Sometimes the giver is polite, but there are too many gifts. You can't accept it all, so how much do you want to pay back? It's all customary. There is also the meaning of sending pork. It is a waste of heart to cut off pig lungs. And firecrackers and sugar eggs. The rules for the bride to enter the door, what to do when others get married, what to do as an uncle's basket and so on.