What is the saying of getting married and sitting in bed? What's the point of making a bed?

How to get married and sit in bed? First of all, the person who makes the bed should be healthy, have a happy family, have a surviving spouse, be old and young, and preferably have two children, which is also a good sign for the couple. When making the bed, you should say auspicious words, such as wishing the newlyweds a heart-to-heart relationship forever and sprinkling peanuts, longan, red dates and lotus seeds. In bed, it means premature delivery.

Making the bed, also known as "tidying the room", "sweeping the bed", "making the bed" or "spreading the account", refers to a small ceremony arranged by a special person for the bridal chamber the day before the wedding. In the process of making the bed, auspicious words and jingles will be said in the process of folding the quilt, sweeping the bed and laying things, so as to wish the couple peace, success, happiness and good eloquence.

What's the point of making a bed when you're married? Next, I will study the knowledge in detail.

1. Since the Song Dynasty, people who make beds will invite "lucky women" to make beds for the couple the day before the wedding. The person who makes the bed is usually invited by the woman's family. Finding a "blessed person" to make the bed means good health, good parents, good health and long life, a surviving spouse, a son and a daughter. In order to pass on your good luck to the new couple, you should hide the red envelopes in the bedding (200 yuan)! To the person in charge of making the bed.

Second, the media is looking for two children. Namely: smart, healthy and lovely golden couple. Also put a red envelope (200 yuan).

Third, the taboo of making a bed In ancient times, the meaning of marriage was more about carrying on the family line and prolonging life. Therefore, widows or childless women can't touch bedding, bedding or even help the bride. Remember your master bedroom and don't let too many people in. In case there are too many people sitting in your new bed. Married people want them to stay away from that bed. Before the wedding, the bride and groom are not allowed to sit on the bed.

Fourth, the process of making the bed The process of making the bed is slightly different according to local customs. In addition to sweeping the bed, laying Yuanyang pillows and dragon and phoenix quilts, the most familiar process should be "making the bed". "Laying an account" refers to laying dried fruits such as peanuts, longan, lotus seeds, chestnuts and Chinese dates on the wedding bed in order to obtain the life wish of "having your son early and having lotus seeds and peanuts (all children)".

The time to make the bed is usually in the early morning, and the bride enters the door at high tide, so be optimistic about the time of high tide and turn over the yellow calendar. The order of making the bed is known to the older generation, and there are such people in the general neighborhood.

With the changes of the times, the connotation of making a bed for marriage has also changed to some extent, which is more characteristic of the times. In modern times, marriage is not only the meaning of extending life and carrying on the family line. More represents the sublimation of love and the establishment of a new family. Therefore, the implication of many children and many blessings in the traditional bed-making ceremony is more representative of the care of the elders for the new couple and the blessing for the new life.