Is it important to have a "good day" about marriage?

As for marriage, "good days" are actually not important.

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I saw such an anecdote: some netizens suggested that the Civil Affairs Bureau work overtime temporarily on March/April/2002 1 4, so that everyone could get a marriage certificate on this "good day".

The tradition of choosing a lucky date for marriage has existed since ancient times. The betrothal party asks someone to calculate the birthday, match the horoscope and turn over the yellow calendar, which not only indicates the importance of marriage, but also means winning a good title.

Although the new era has long abandoned the superstitious thought of "the door is right for the family". However, it is still a beautiful vision and good expectation for the couple to choose an ideal day to get married.

Whether it is a feather crown, a dress, a wedding dress or a public oath, it is a grand sense of ceremony at the wedding.

Choosing a good day to get married naturally becomes the first step in the sense of wedding ceremony.

This is understandable since ancient times.

The problem is that with the development of network culture, there seem to be more and more "good days" about love.

The seventh day of the seventh lunar month is Valentine's Day in China, which originated from oriental mythology. February 14 in the solar calendar is Valentine's Day in the western legend, as well as "520" and "13 14" in online marketing, which have also become special festivals for young couples to express their love.

Because "520" homophones "I love you" and "13 14" homophones "forever".

Homophonic terrier, it sounds naive, but it is for this "good omen" that netizens in the news put forward the idea of letting the Civil Affairs Bureau work overtime temporarily.

Similarly, the same proposal was made on May 20th last year.

In this regard, most netizens are still very sensible that their feelings are not deep or long, and the days of obtaining certificates are not easy. There is nothing wrong with winning the lottery, but it is really not advisable to base your happiness in winning the lottery on the pain of others working overtime.

There are even "experienced people" in Fortress Besieged who ridicule: If a good life is useful, why does divorce need a cooling-off period? Why does everyone choose a good day to get married? Because there is no good life after marriage.

Indeed, the wedding day is a good day, which does not mean that everyone is a good day after marriage. or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium

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Whether the date and number are auspicious or not is not necessarily related to whether life is happy or not.

The so-called homophonic numbers and festivals just remind us not to forget to love and be loved.

If it is only to express the determination of love, there is no need to give the staff a problem.

After all, it is far more meaningful to choose a special day for two people to get a certificate than to go to the civil affairs bureau to register for marriage on the same day.

Such as each other's birthday, acquaintance date, engagement date, etc. It is not only convenient for future memory and commemoration, but also has a unique romantic feeling.

If the date of marriage can be used to decide, then love is not precious.

If you rush into the civil affairs bureau on impulse in order to get the certificate on a good day, the outcome may be counterproductive.

Therefore, it is not so important to get a certificate when it is important. Choosing a good partner and having a good mood is the premise of entering a happy marriage.

Love the right person every day is Valentine's Day, and choose the right person every day is a good day.

Emotions are complex and people are fickle.

At the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau, you can see not only the sweetness of newly-married lovers, but also the resentment of divorced couples. In the delivery room, you can see not only the joy of being a parent, but also the pain of a pregnant mother. The inpatient department can not only see care and care, but also see where you will go between relatives and lovers.

Therefore, we always want to do something to realize our everlasting promise and avoid a possible tragic ending.

In addition to choosing a good day to get the certificate, is there a more reliable way to realize good hopes?

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According to my emotional experience in the past ten years, combined with the experience sharing of netizens, I have the following suggestions:

First, choose a good partner first.

This is the premise of a happy marriage, far more important than choosing a good day.

Because our partner is someone who wants to accompany us to the old age. If the choice is wrong, it may last for a while, but it is difficult to live most of life, decades.

The definition of a good object varies from person to person. Appearance, wealth, family background, talent, etc. Each has its own considerations, but the basic requirements of * * * are good conduct, consistent views and similar interests.

There will be camouflage and accommodation when you are in love. Marriage involves all aspects, and you must really get along to go far.

Keep your eyes open, hold your horses, and let actions and time prove whether ta is your destiny takes a hand.

Second, maintain awe and loyalty to marriage.

This is a lifelong event, not a joke.

Never make a hasty decision to get married for the sake of temporary happiness. Similarly, you can't break up and divorce impulsively for temporary grievances and anger.

The former is easy to be deceived by ruthless people and eventually hurt themselves; The latter, easily controlled by bad emotions, hurts people they care about.

It takes a hundred years to cross the boat and a thousand years to sleep on the pillow. In the world of flowers and flowers, there are many temptations and tests, and it may be forever to survive.

We always envy that "letters from horses and chariots used to be so slow that we only loved one person all our lives", but we don't know that things used to be repaired when they were broken, and they will continue to be used when they were repaired. Nowadays, no matter how beautiful clothes and porcelain are, people can't wait to throw them away and replace them with new ones.

The wedding vows are more than just the words "I do". Regardless of poverty or wealth, health or disease, we should never give up, keep our original heart and be loyal to our choices.

Awe and loyalty are realized in action, that is, to do and cherish.

Third, manage the marriage life with heart.

Love may be a natural gift, but marriage needs careful management.

Love affair, poetry, is very simple, daily necessities sauce vinegar tea, menstruation's sister-in-law, but it is difficult to deal with.

The truth of marriage is that two people cling to each other, fight side by side in the same place, and never forget to give each other the warmth of love.

In the busy and cruel real life, I am willing to take the time to prepare some small surprises, pay attention to the romance of details, and maintain a sense of ceremony.

For example, bring some snacks that ta likes when shopping, bring some special gifts to ta when traveling, hug ta's waist from behind when cooking, and set the important password as ta's birthday or exclusive anniversary. Some children still remember being alone occasionally and giving each other kisses and hugs every day. ...

It's easy to hold your hand and grow old with your son. Choose the right person before marriage, remain loyal after marriage, and manage with heart, in order to reach an eternal commitment.

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Does the "good day" in marriage matter?

I don't think it matters whether a day is good or not. A good life for a lifetime is the most important thing, which is worth pursuing by two people.

May every day of the rest of your life be a memorable day.