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The ashes of time-I missed the rest of my life because of vanity.

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Huang attracted many women, but he didn't stay for any women. He led to Murong Yan's schizophrenia and abandoned her husband ... but he fell in love with a woman who only loved Ouyang Feng all his life. He visits Ouyang Feng in the desert every year just to say something to this woman, but he can't make this woman fall in love with her after all ... This woman gave him an altar of wine and named it "drunk". After drinking, he can forget everything in your life, whether he is happy or not. Huang drank half an altar. He forgot all about the past. He lived in seclusion in Peach Blossom Island and spent the rest of his life in that paradise. He forgot, but the word "peach blossom" stayed in his mind.

Blind swordsman met Ouyang Feng in the desert. Although Ouyang Feng was fierce all his life, he was called "a hero cherishes a hero". He became interested in swordsman who was almost blind in front of him. The blind swordsman said that the fortune teller told him that he would be completely blind before the age of 30. He said he wanted to go back to his hometown to see peach blossoms before he could see them completely. If he is late, he will be gone! But he didn't have the money. Even though Ouyang Feng had countless gold and silver, he didn't want to help the stranger. He just showed him the way. One day, a group of horse thief will rob the village, and the villagers will hire killers to repel horse thief. A blind swordsman is a swordsman. He believes in his sword, but he doesn't believe in his eyes. He said that he hoped the sun would be strong that day, so that he could see more clearly. Maybe he and Ouyang Feng have guessed the result of this trip. It's just that Ouyang Feng is so rude. He won't take risks for things that aren't worth it, just like the filial daughter who stood in front of his door and asked him to avenge his father. The filial daughter is very beautiful. She only has a donkey and a basket of eggs, and she doesn't have enough money, so she can't impress him. While drinking with Ouyang Feng, the blind swordsman became interested in this elegant and filial daughter who was leaning on a stake and carrying a basket of eggs.

Do you like her? Ouyang Feng asked.

No, she just reminds me of an old friend. The blind swordsman continued to drink. Surrounded by the vast desert, the wind is blowing.

The blind swordsman believes in his sword. On the battlefield, he turned and kissed the woman, and then disappeared into the desert sand. I don't know why he did it. Only the woman collapsed helplessly in the yellow sand and broke the eggs all over the floor. Blind swordsmen may be confident that they can kill horse thieves and then save enough money to avenge women. Only dark clouds covered the sun, and a large area of dark clouds passed by, and he fell in a pool of blood. He can't even save himself, let alone others. The blind swordsman may be superb in martial arts and first-class in fencing, but he is a coward from beginning to end. When his wife fell in love with his best friend Huang Shi, he left her and wandered in a foreign land, vowing to kill Huang when he met him. Only when he saw Huang again, Huang had drunk the jar of wine and forgot everything. He didn't kill him. He chose eternal life. He wants to see his wife before he is completely blind at the age of 30, so cowardly, so affectionate and so sad. These are all stories that Ouyang Feng doesn't know.

Every one of us is a coward, not only a blind swordsman, but also an opponent of Huang. He is jealous that Ouyang Feng has such a woman who loves him, but he keeps hurting other women who love him to gain a little confidence. Ouyang Feng is too confident. He believes that this woman will marry him anyway. What a provocative thing it is! Until that woman married his brother and became his sister-in-law! Since then, Xiao Lang has been my old friend! In the final analysis, his confidence is a kind of cowardice. He never said those words. The woman said, I just need him to say those words. From then on, the ends of the earth are willing to follow! Huang said something to that woman that you didn't have to say! Is he explaining for Ouyang Feng or defending himself? I don't know!

Some words, you don't ask, I don't say, this is the distance. Some words, you ask, I don't say, this is the distance! Ouyang Feng's unruly and bohemian appearance is an extremely fragile heart, but in fact he is a person who is afraid of failure. My brother Leslie Cheung played the role of Ouyang Feng to the fullest. He blended into the role. His words and deeds, every move, a sigh ... all depend on his own understanding of the role. Wong Kar-wai chose the right person. Drama is like life, and life is like drama. When a person is involved in one thing, he can't tell the difference between drama and drama. Just like a person who has done bad things and lied all his life, he can't tell what is good and bad, what is true and what is false. It is said that after Leslie Cheung finished Farewell My Concubine, he began to lose himself. This is another story.

So when Ouyang Feng saw Hong Qi hanging out with his woman, he was very jealous. There is a strange light in his seemingly indifferent expression. In fact, the more people who don't care, the more they care.

Hong Qi appeared after the blind swordsman, a man who left his hometown and abandoned his wife to wander the rivers and lakes, thinking that he could prove himself by making a career alone. His woman followed him and he yelled at him to go back. Ouyang Feng said, why not take her with you? He said, have you ever seen a man with a woman wandering the rivers and lakes?

Ouyang Feng said, who said no, it depends on people's efforts. I once devoted myself to this world like you, thinking that I could leave my woman behind, but when I got home, I found that she had become my sister-in-law.

After the women in Hong Qi were driven away by Hong Qi and hid in a house not far away, Hong Qi followed Ouyang Feng as a killer. Later, he avenged his filial daughter, was injured and had a finger cut off. Lying in the hospital bed, he knew that his fate with Ouyang Feng was over. After all, you are not on the same road! Because Ouyang Feng won't take risks for an egg, and won't take risks for things that aren't worth it, no matter how miserable you are! Unlike Hong Qi, Ouyang Feng and Hong Qi are destined to be people on two different roads. Lying in the hospital bed, he comforted the crying woman and said, don't do anything for me. If I really die this time, I will die happily. I'll help you with the eggs. I have already eaten eggs. You don't owe me anything. Don't do anything stupid. Remember, someone is waiting for you.

That woman is gone, and I don't know who Hong Qi is talking about. Maybe tell that woman to start a new life. Revenge is done. Don't live in hatred. Hong Qi and his wife went to the north after their illness. He said to Ouyang Feng, I see, I can take my woman, you said, it depends on people's efforts! Ouyang Feng looked at their backs and understood why this woman likes Hong Qi so much, because he is very simple.

In fact, simple people deserve happiness. Think too complicated, such as Murong Yan, originally a daughter, dressed as a man, unable to extricate herself because of someone else's unintentional words; For example, Huang is easy to make others fall in love with herself and hurt others. Finally, I forgot what true love is. For example, blind swordsmen, as long as they are brave, their women don't love themselves, and there is no need to force them. If their friends fall in love with their women, help them. Everything is destiny takes a hand, cherish it if you have it, and put it down if you lose it! Why is it in a dilemma? Ouyang Feng, for example, is too confident and too self-abased. He can't even say that sentence, thinking that he can abandon everything wholeheartedly. Ouyang Feng's sister-in-law, for example, thought that if she didn't let Ouyang Feng get herself and let him feel guilty all her life, she would win, but she didn't know that she lost from the beginning. Living with someone who doesn't love himself is a big mistake in itself. Perhaps only Hong Qi is happy, he is simple, dare to love and hate, dare to leave, dare to come back, dare to speak, dare to refuse ... He is such a spontaneous person, even if his life is down and out, even if his life is dying, he still acts spontaneously.

Ouyang Feng was lonely, Murong Yan left, and Huang no longer came to see him every year, because his sister-in-law died, and Huang retired to Peach Blossom Island. The filial daughter with eggs left, Hong Qi left, and the blind swordsman died. Ouyang Feng also wants to see peach blossoms in spring. The peach blossoms in the hometown of the blind swordsman should be good, so he went to the hometown of the blind swordsman, only to find that there were no peach blossoms at all. He was washing a towel by the stream and a woman stared at him.

Why do you keep staring at me? Ouyang Feng asked.

Because this sweat towel in your hand belongs to my husband. Is he dead? The woman asked.

Ouyang Feng later learned that this woman's name is Taohua.

She was the "peach blossom" that Huang remembered only after he lost his memory. She was the "peach blossom" that the blind swordsman went back to his hometown to see the peach blossom despite difficulties and obstacles before he went blind.

Who ever owned it? Who lost it? We all have nothing. You came from nothing and will end up with nothing.

After leaving white camel mountain, Ouyang Feng never went back. He said, I am an orphan, my parents died early, and only one brother lives alone. Perhaps because I am an orphan, I have known how to protect myself since I was a child. I know that if you don't want to be rejected, the best way is to reject others first. For this reason, I never went back. Actually, it's nice there, but it's a pity that I can't go back. My life book says: the husband and wife palace, the sun turns taboo, marriage is nominal, but it is not.

When I saw "Ashes of Time" here, an uncontrollable emotion came to my heart, my nose and eyes ... I always said, "I know that if you don't want to be rejected, the best way is to reject others first." Such a sentence. We are all cowards, we are all vain, afraid of rejection, afraid of rejection first, afraid of failure, afraid of trying. I may be beginning to understand Ouyang Feng. Is this empathy? I began to understand Ouyang Feng's indifference and ruthlessness ... Ouyang Feng, who seems arrogant, is actually pitiful like a child. He used an attitude of rejecting the world to protect himself and his only self-esteem.

Maybe everything is fate. He believes in fate.

On that day, the yellow calendar said: On the fourth day, beginning of spring, the east wind thawed. This is the day when Huang and Murong Yan met.

On the 15th, the weather was fine, and the local officials descended, setting the world good and evil. Take lotus flowers, avoid traveling far away, and recite scriptures to solve disasters. This is the day when Hong Qi opposes horse thieves.

Fifteen, it's raining. When it's khaki, Qu Xing. Take a bath and avoid traveling. Chonglong, Shabei. Hong Qi avenged Sargam.

The lost star is on duty in northern Italy. Hong Qi left and walked north against the south wind.

Post horse movement, firepower gold, meaning west. Ouyang Feng left the desert.

When he met Qi Hong, he knew that he didn't like Hong Qi, and Hong Qi wouldn't stay in the desert with him for long. Because there is a sentence in my life book, "especially avoid seven numbers, and your life is over." In the end, Ouyang Feng and Hong Qi fought in the snow-capped mountains, and they embraced each other and died.

I think many of us are lonely in this world.

Therefore, Mr. Murong became a lonely loser.

Huang lived in seclusion in Peach Blossom Island, refused to live on earth and died.

The blind swordsman was liberated.

Ouyang Feng's beloved woman-his sister-in-law committed suicide.

Ouyang Feng also lives on a cold skin.