What should I prepare before getting married?

First, the other party must have a certain economic foundation. The economic foundation determines family harmony. Everyone knows it, but unlike those who have been poor together, they didn't realize that many contradictions were intensified because of lack of money until they fell into daily necessities.

Second, love is necessary, but you can't indulge in it. Love can't keep fresh for a lifetime, and the character of the other person is very important. When you marry a person, you should also examine the character of the other person. Don't give yourself to each other without reservation just because they are nice to you. Marriage is a lifetime thing, and the other person's conduct is not good. Being nice to you is just a facade, and there will be more suffering in the future.

Third, it is important to have a certain economic ability. Your financial ability determines your family status at home and your right to speak at home. Don't think that you will sacrifice your career to take care of the children. One day, the other party will use this excuse to dislike you.

Fourth, go to each other's home several times before marriage to observe each other's parents' personality, occupation, speaking style and education level. Everyone knows that the word family background is very popular, and everyone knows the influence of family background on a person's growth. Being from a family and having positive values is of positive significance to her married life.

Five, the same partner's three views will make the happiness after marriage stronger. If you want to travel, he thinks you can see a lot of scenery by watching TV at home. You said to eat a romantic western food, and he thought you had money to spend. This kind of life, it is estimated that you can't stand it for about a year.

Six, in addition to appreciate each other's advantages, but also accept each other's shortcomings. The long-term marriage is not because of their respective advantages, but because the two sides can tolerate each other, understand each other and endure each other.

Seven, after one or two years of marriage, have another child. However, it is best for girls to finish before the age of 30.

Eight, the evaluation of marriage, this evaluation includes many aspects, such as whether the two sides face the same solution to the problem, such as when two people quarrel, what kind of way the two sides will deal with it, whether the differences are great, whether they can understand each other's ideas. The second is to understand each other's views on the family. For example, the simplest, whether to live with parents after marriage, whether to have children, when to have children, who will control the financial power of the family and so on. Only by knowing before marriage can we avoid the big contradiction after marriage. The third point is whether we know each other well, not only their strengths, but also their weaknesses, and whether we can accept them.