How to meet the right person?

This is something I wrote, which may be helpful.

Looking for the noble people in life

What is a noble person? A noble person is someone who helps you overcome difficulties and get rid of crises at critical moments, who cares about your growth and progress and helps you, and who shares weal and woe with you and never gives up. Everyone's growth and progress are inseparable from their own nobles. In everyone's life, you will meet your own noble people. In study, work and life, the mentor who appreciates you, helps you, supports your leader, guides you, inspires you and helps you succeed at critical moments, the lover who shares joys and sorrows with you, the parents who brought you into this world, and the brothers and sisters who grew up with you are all noble people in your life.

How to find the noble people in life? Looking back on a person's life track and growth and progress, I deeply feel that I can't be eager for quick success and instant benefit, nor can I wait like a fool. As long as you keep a normal mind about fame and fortune, do your best in your work and be grateful to the people around you, you will come naturally. As the saying goes, "God helps those who help themselves".

Ten years ago, I was an ordinary teacher in a rural school. One day, a good classmate told me that his county-level unit wanted help, mainly writing official documents, hoping I could go. I didn't have any confidence then. I think, as an ordinary teacher without social relations and family background, how can I stand firm in the office, and it is still a big office. Who knows that my classmates are more confident than me, saying that you write so well in school, and prose, novels and poems are sure to do well. I'll take you to get used to it for a while.

In this way, under the recommendation of my classmates, I was seconded to a county-level department in this county to help with my work. The new unit is very busy and tired, often working overtime and staying up late, and rarely taking a rest on holidays. However, with the help of classmates and unit leaders, my writing level has improved rapidly through my own efforts and diligence, which not only won the recognition of leaders and colleagues, but also gained a certain reputation in the corresponding departments of the city. To this end, the leader arranged a position for me, integrating Minister ministry of materials and equipment, equivalent to the section chief, but I can't be called the section chief, because I was not a formal staff member of this unit at that time, and my working relationship was still at school.

One day, the leader of the unit talked to me and said that the counterpart department in the city was preparing a big activity and wanted to lend a good comrade from our county to help work there for three months. The city asked you to come by name and wanted to ask your opinion. I said it would be nice to have the opportunity to study and exercise in the city, but I don't know if I can do it. That year in Na Yue, I came to this city with a nervous heart. During the help work, due to my outstanding performance, after the activity, the city leaders did not let me go back immediately, but asked me to stay a little longer, because it was still lively here at that time. So, I stayed.

With the increase of time spent with the city leaders and the deepening of mutual understanding, he not only recognized and satisfied with my materials, but also recognized and appreciated my handling of people. My evaluation of myself is: work hard and don't make public; Be kind to others and don't like to talk too much. In recent years, with the help and coordination of leaders, a series of great changes have taken place in my work. My working relationship is to transfer from school to a public institution in the county, and then from the county to the city. Now, I have bought a house and settled in the city.

Looking back, I would never have left school without the reminder and persuasion of that classmate; Without the recommendation of the county leaders, I could not have come to the city myself; Without the care of city leaders, it is impossible to work and live in the city. That classmate, that county leader and that city leader are all important people in my life. They all gave me critical help and support at critical moments.

Although these nobles are very important and indispensable, there is still a very important and decisive aristocrat that cannot be ignored. This noble person is none other than yourself. Imagine, if I can't write and draw at school and leave a good impression on my classmates, it is estimated that my classmates will not recommend me; If you didn't work hard in the county and made some achievements, the leader wouldn't arrange you to be the section chief, and the city wouldn't call the county to recommend you. If you can't complete the tasks assigned by the leaders when you work in the city, you can't share more tasks for the leaders, and the leaders of the city won't give themselves so much care.

Whether you can meet the important people in your life depends on yourself. No matter whether you are poor or rich, as long as you can be your best, noble people will appear by your side. When you complain that you haven't met a noble person, you should first ask yourself whether you have done your best. As long as it is a real swift horse, it is only a matter of time before it meets Bole.