What happened when you got married?

1. What is the reward of the wedding? Tell me how many days it will take for the bride to come back.

Back to the door, that is, the daughter and son-in-law go back to their daughter's house to recognize the door and worship their relatives.

The time to return home varies from place to place. In ancient times, it was the third, sixth or seventh, eighth and ninth day of marriage, and there was also a full moon to go home to visit relatives. There was a custom of Huimen in the Spring and Autumn Period, which has been passed down by later generations.

Because the "double door" is the double door of the newlyweds, it is called "double door" and takes the auspicious meaning of pairs. When returning home, the old custom stipulates that the bride walks in front, and when returning to the man's house, the groom walks in front, because this return home is the first time for the daughter to return to her family after her wedding, and some return homes are also called "going to the head."

After the "two-way door", it is generally not allowed to spend the night at Yue's house, and you must return to the man's house on the same day, because in the old society, it was a custom not to leave the room within one month after the wedding. On the third day after marriage, the bride will return to her parents' home with the groom and gifts, commonly known as "returning home".

Because this is my daughter's first time to go home after marriage, and it is also the first time that the new son-in-law has officially visited her parents-in-law's house, so the woman's house is more grand in reception. At the banquet, the groom sits first, accompanied by close relatives and friends of the woman's family.

When you return to the door, there is no limit on the number of days of residence. The woman's family often entertains guests and friends during her daughter-in-law's "going out of the province to return home".

After a month of marriage, the bride must go back to her parents' home once, and there is no limit to the number of days she stays.

What's wrong with going back to China in three days?

Returning means that the newlyweds return to their parents' home on the third day after the wedding. For brides, this means that they return to their parents' home after becoming women for the first time.

Huimen is also the first time that newlyweds really go back to their parents' homes to visit relatives. It is naturally an indispensable etiquette for couples to meet their parents. At this time, when the groom meets his parents-in-law, he should change his name to father and mother, which means that the bride's parents can see the meaning of their happy marriage. The Yue family will also hold a banquet to entertain the new son-in-law, and some relatives of the woman will also find trouble with the son-in-law. Of course, at this time, the new son-in-law still has to "return the gift" and "pay back the money" to her parents-in-law, and bring different gifts according to different places. Some people bring a rooster, which means "good luck". Some bring some meat, eggs, noodles and other things. When they arrive at the woman's house, they will stay for a few days before returning. More commonly, they give oranges, apples, bananas, wine and so on, and the styles are not fixed. Singular numbers are unlucky. After the first Spring Festival, the groom and his wife will "pay New Year greetings" to their parents-in-law. The elders usually hold banquets and give money to the new couple when they come home.

What does it mean to go back to China after two days of marriage?

According to the wedding custom and etiquette in China, the bride will bring many gifts home with the groom after three days of marriage, which is also called "going home" for three days.

This is a kind of etiquette in China. The bride's parents attach great importance to the etiquette of going home for three days, which is an important event for the bride's whole family. Therefore, when the bride comes home for three days, she should prepare gifts and try to leave a good impression on her parents-in-law.

The gift should be prepared in advance. Gifts must be something that the bride's parents like. Return the gift in fashion. When you return to your parents' home, you must arrive at your parents' home between 10. The bride and groom should greet the elderly first, and the groom should be renamed as parents, and show kindness and enthusiasm to relatives, friends and neighbors.

When the whole family eats, the bride and groom should sit aside and raise their glasses to thank everyone for their wishes for their wedding. Don't rush home after dinner, talk to your parents for a while or have some entertainment with your family. Go home before sunset around 4 pm and invite the elderly and brothers and sisters to your home.